Im going to get the negative comments but I need to put this forward, as I don't know anyone in real life to ask in fear of them telling her.
At the beggining she was slim and ate like a normal person, after some years she began eating more sweets and cakes and drinking wine every night. She has gained like 30lbs (5'4 - 125-130 was her weight at 19, shes now about 145-150 at 23). Yeah she is not obese but constantly gaining, her butt has balooned and everywhere is softer and chunkier.
I am not worried about her state now, she is healthy but this is a long term relationship and I dont see it ending anytime soon. She will constantly gain fat and im worried she will ruin herself with that. I dont want her to become obese or ruin her health, and to be honest I dont find it attractive. I'm not shallow, but you dont like seeing your partner change like this, who does?
What do I tell her? I feel anything I say is detrimental to our relationship, she is quite sensitive. What would you do?
2007-06-04
14:31:44
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mecicoplajjer
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