Singles & Dating - 4 June 2007

My boyfriend and I have resently had sex for the first time. It was good and all, but I dont know how to be sexy for him in bed. I've tried the whole, 'arch your back' and 'stroke his hair'. But things like that dont really help. As in getting the 'big O'. I guess what I am really asking is, how do I stay sexy in bed?

And another thing, how should I react around him now? I mean, do I just go on like nothing ever happened? Do I act like I want him more? I dont understand. In romance novels I have read, they say, that the characters just go on with life and look at their boyfriends in completely different ways. But I dont want to look at Bob(not his real name) in different ways. I love the way I look at him, and he loves the way, too. If you cant tell I have some problems with sex, and, the whole after sex ordeal.

HELP!!!!!

2007-06-04 06:10:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

well me and my bf is togther for the past 3yrs.we kissed about four times.we never made love.but he would not give me up.but he tend to show no affection only when he feels like it.

2007-06-04 05:36:24 · 7 answers · asked by toya 2

What did you do and who with?
Just looking for ideas for next weekend...thanks.

2007-06-04 05:17:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met him while they were still dating although according to him and to her emails they were not having sex and hadnt had for a long time. They dated for 7 years never living together. He brings her memories up often and even calls our cats her cats names. He still talks to her even when I told him that it hurts my feelings.

2007-06-04 05:17:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very old fashioned when it comes to masurbastion, and I feel too shy to do it. I need some advice. I have done the whole dress-up thing with heels and dance, but no "M." I only wish I had the courage to do it. Any suggestions?
MEN out there, would you look on your woman any differently if she did "M" in front of you? HELP!

2007-06-04 05:01:54 · 28 answers · asked by Barbie D 1

Last night I saw an ad that conveyed the idea that guys are dirty smelly disgusting slobs. Whats up? Do females really think that way about us? Do you females even like guys? If so, why. If not, why not? This is meant to be a serious and polite question.

2007-06-04 05:00:26 · 16 answers · asked by jxt299 7

She not at all preppy and she skates and i not a skater

2007-06-04 04:52:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My heart is broken. My boyfriend and best friend of 10 years have decided to take a break. How will I ever heal from losing a boyfriend and my best friend. Anytime anything happens both good or bad in my life he is the first person I want to run to and talk to. Would if I never get over it? I want to have a life and I want to be happy again but the pain I feel just completely wears me down and all I do is cry, even at my desk at work. My life seems so hopeless without him. How could he just leave me so easily after our long history. He doesn't want us to see other people he just needs to figure out what he wants to do with his life. Why doesn't he want to figure things out with me by his side. We used to be so happy, how could he just risk it by taking a break. I really appreciate any advice that can be offered. Especially from those who have been through a similar situation.

2007-06-04 04:49:35 · 18 answers · asked by Lily 2

Many people consider the "chat love " as virtual and platonic kind of love;just an illusion or impossible dream.Live chat can change the story a little bit,but the contact person to person is the best and the most real way to know a person.

Your opinions,please

2007-06-04 04:47:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my cousin said that guys like big butts but that's not true i mean I wore a miniskirt one time and my best friend who is gay said that no one looked.I think well I thought that was the only attractive part on my body.Now I know that i'm just a dud will I ever be attractive and do guys really like girls with big butts?

2007-06-04 04:45:25 · 11 answers · asked by faith 1

Me and my ex of one year...recently stopped talking and we haven't talk for a month now. We stopped talking because I felt like I was an option to him. We decided to be friends about two weeks before we stopped talking and he told me he was going to NY for work. I told him to call me when he got back in a week...but he insisted that he would call me while he was away. The week went by and no call. After he got back, he called and said he left his phone at home and that's why he didnt call. I told him not to call me anymore because I didn't believe him. The next day I see pics online of him and his friends on an island rubbing all over these different women the same week of his "business" trip. It crushed me...I texted him and emailed him confronting him but he hasn't replied...he only blocked me. It's been a month now...I just need closure. Do you think he will contact me again? I just want an apology or some sign of remorse?

2007-06-04 04:44:58 · 12 answers · asked by justasking 3

what makes a woman not attracted to a man?
if a girl constanly hugs you and flirts with you why won't she go out with you? let me know somethin

2007-06-04 04:44:40 · 14 answers · asked by DirtyRed 2

2007-06-04 04:44:02 · 21 answers · asked by ElleT26 1

2007-06-04 04:40:56 · 13 answers · asked by nameless 1

So, im 17 years old and i have a 9 month baby. Im a single mother, the father isent in her life. Im dating a really great guy an dhes 19. Theres one problem... All we can think of to do is go out to eat and go to a movie. Since im new to "Adult relationships" i dont know what to do with him... What do adults do on dates? What can he and i do that is low cost or free? Any ideas apprecated :) Thanks!

2007-06-04 04:40:51 · 8 answers · asked by Emma 2

Mine was with a work coleague on the floor in a meeting room at work

2007-06-04 04:37:25 · 37 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2

I have a good male friend of mine who is in a bad relationship that is basically over. He complains about this relationship and always says he's going to break it off soon but never does. I ask him why he holds onto this if it makes him unhappy and he said he'd rather be this way than alone.

I thought males wanted to be single to mingle with girls, so what's up with this male?

2007-06-04 04:36:51 · 11 answers · asked by Stargaze2509 2

2007-06-04 04:35:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this really nice girl a month ago and we've been talking alot. We haven't been out on a date yet, but she's really sweet. Although I'm thinking of ending it today because she already has two children. I'm just not ready to take on such a responsiblity, and it was cool at first. Although now she's talking about bringing her kids around me when she comes to visit my apartment. I'm a struggle college student and I plan to go to grad school soon after I get may B.A. There's also the fact that my real parents never rised me, so I told myself when I have kids I'll be there for them always unless I'm dead. I still have school to finish and a career to start before I want a family. So is it wrong for me to end before we get serious?

2007-06-04 04:29:06 · 49 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3

I recently found out that my favorite cologne is no longer being produced or sold (except on e-bay, or amazon at run away prices). I'm in need of a new 'favorite, but I would like the opinion of those whom it matters the most to me, the ladies ! lol, So, Ladies, Gals, what is your favorite (or favorites) cologne for a guy to be wearing ? I currently have Drakkar & Cool Water as temporary backups.

2007-06-04 04:29:03 · 15 answers · asked by Justin 3

Silly as it sounds but really do u guys like to squish people when u sit next to them? I'm friends with this guy and I'm 18, 5'4 & he's 19, 6'4 ..anywhos when ever he sits next to me he always seems to squish me and I don't know if he realises it.

So yeah my question is.. do u guys like squishing people?
Girls can answer this as well, have u ever been squished by a tall guy before?

Well thanks in advance for answering my weird question.. =P

2007-06-04 04:26:29 · 4 answers · asked by gigi 3

I am just wondering about the places that quality guys pick to hang out. Where do they go with friends or to spend their free time. where do usually business people do business beside their offices. Places to meet some quality and smart people?

2007-06-04 04:21:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going to drug him with rufio in his coffee. Reason why is because he did that to me at a bar when we first met and four years later, I still want to get back at him. Is this funny or immature?

2007-06-04 04:19:21 · 22 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3

2007-06-04 04:19:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

..................like they think they are all of that

2007-06-04 04:16:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-04 04:15:26 · 15 answers · asked by Sunshine 2

When previously, you had hardly or no feelings for them at all?

2007-06-04 04:09:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok. The guy my friend works with is going to be working all this week during her shifts. Now she is going to talk to him for me, she is going to approach him by asking if he has a girlfriend and then say, well 1 of my friends was interested in you and wanted to get to know you, so can she have your number and do you want her number? How is that for a converensation starter? But the only problems is, I don't know what to say to him when he gets my number and actually calls me. What should I do or even say, because i don't want to come off as too strong and I don't want to freak him out. Please help.

2007-06-04 04:03:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here are things he does when we are together:

1) When he has not seen me in awhile, he hugs me as soon as I get there, says he misses me and asks if I missed him.

2) Picks on me but not in a mean way

3) Holds my hand to lead me through a crowd

4) Asks about my friends and introduces me to his

5) Brings up topics like marriage, kids and people living together, just his beliefs

6) Holds me and runs his fingers through my hair

7) Won't let me pay for anything even though I offer

8) Asks what I am doing for my birthday, that is not for another 3 months

9) Asks if I still talk to my ex

10) Asks about my future plans

11) Says there are jobs like what I am looking for where he lives

I took these for signs that he was interested. I told him how I felt and he made a comment about how he was glad I told him and then he said he had done the long distance thing before and hated it. We are only 3 hours away from each other.

2007-06-04 03:55:43 · 9 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

and saw her the following day,and told me she was a little embarrassed.to see me.

2007-06-04 03:52:30 · 13 answers · asked by superdaddy35 1