Me and my ex of one year...recently stopped talking and we haven't talk for a month now. We stopped talking because I felt like I was an option to him. We decided to be friends about two weeks before we stopped talking and he told me he was going to NY for work. I told him to call me when he got back in a week...but he insisted that he would call me while he was away. The week went by and no call. After he got back, he called and said he left his phone at home and that's why he didnt call. I told him not to call me anymore because I didn't believe him. The next day I see pics online of him and his friends on an island rubbing all over these different women the same week of his "business" trip. It crushed me...I texted him and emailed him confronting him but he hasn't replied...he only blocked me. It's been a month now...I just need closure. Do you think he will contact me again? I just want an apology or some sign of remorse?
2007-06-04 04:44:58 · 12 answers · asked by justasking 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is how it ended with my ex and I.. no closure. It was hard at first, but what helped me to move on from the relationship was knowing that I didn't deserve to be treated badly by him or any man for that matter. A guy that is truly into you will not desire any other woman, and seeing those pictures should tell you something... he doesn't care about you as a partner and certainly does not love you. Do you really need closure for that? Let the pictures be the closure.
2007-06-04 04:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't care about you and he has made it very clear he wants nothing to do with you. It may be hard but your closure is, "that not returned phone call". It may not be what you were looking for but it sounds like it's all your gonna get. Your better off to totally forget about him and move on.
2007-06-04 11:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are out of his life. he is your ex and i think the biggest mistake in this world is to continue to stay in touch with your ex as a friend. you can never see him as a friend once you felt something deeper. he has a differnt life now and maybe he is with some women. why do you still runing after him ? you dont really need him. this relation is over.
calling, emaling and staying in touch with him will only give you pain and stress. do you want to spend your years for a finsihed relationship ? you are behaving as if you are in a relationship with him. just forget about him. stop callign and talking to him. give a chance to new relationships. who cares if he will contact you again ?.. he must be out of your mind, out of your heart and out of your life any longer.
2007-06-04 11:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SCREW HIM!!! I don't think you will get your aplogy for lying to you I never got mine and we were together 2.5 years so it sucks but help ya self up and brush off the dust. But you have to not go after him kind of like don't get played by the player. Play his game don't contact him, go out and meet someone else once he sees your happiness again he'll come back then you'll decide if you want to be with him again... chances are you will not want to be with him TRUST ME =)
2007-06-04 11:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by littlecutekym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he be remorseful. you were broken up right. Forget him! Find someone of your own to rub on and then send him a pic of it, with a message that says now I see why you didn't call loser. C ya and be done with him..
2007-06-04 11:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by ivbnabadgrl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Um, he's your EX! Forget him! You're stressing out over nothing at all. It doesn't matter what he does with his life now, because your relationship is over. Have a nice day!
2007-06-04 11:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You felt like an option and you broke up, right? Now he won't contact you and your pissed. Maybe you should stop playing games.
2007-06-04 11:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ronin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy seems like a jerk and you should just move on no matter how bad it hurts. I feel your pain!
2007-06-04 11:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl stop the madness he is your ex. in his opinion he don't owe you any thing. So let it go. It is not that serious.
2007-06-04 11:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by honeyluvdae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk. Just ignore him and move on. You'll find the right one for you.
2007-06-04 11:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by ♫♪meno_mosso♪♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋