Why does it seem like men are more attracted to women that treat them like crap or play hard to get?

Answer 1

Hmmmmm...wish I knew. When you are good to men, do things for them, they walk all over you and take advantage of a good thing. But be a *****, and they want you all the more...Is this a "man" thing??

Answer 2

Men don't want women to treat them like crap, or at least I don't. But women who play hard to get are fun and it's a bit of a challenge. To be honest I would like it if a woman was straight with me if she was interested, it would be a nice change. I always had the same question about women

Answer 3

For the same reason that some women are attracted to bad boys, who also treat them like crap. People just gotta learn to not accept that kind of treatment from anyone. Believe it or not (and sometimes I have trouble believing it), there really are people out there who will treat you well and not play games. NOW WHERE THE HELL ARE THEY? :-D

Answer 4

lol, u seem angry - huni ur the type of guy every women will want n does want - there was a man i liked he was 39 - been in jail - took drugs - drank way to much n was a manic depressant - the hole works of a bad guy - but i found it almost impossible to control how i was around him - n even thou i new he was wrong - i still went for him. there is something about a bad man that attracts us to them - unsure wat it is - but it happens - then wen all said n done - we realise we want a nice man - d8 a man completely different from our ex - (sweet kind etc) wh0 then turns into our ex - if not worse (abusive etc) n we end up in a cycle of d8ing the same man just with a different face. even thou each man we d8 is in our eyes better nicer than the last one - they end up being a cock and the men who are truly wonderful,, truly caring, are the ones over looked bcuz y wood a man who is so gr8 and kind want to be with me, so we place those feelings aside n u become are friend- n because ur kind n nice etc u never tell us how u truly feel - so wen we come to u n cry on ur shoulder - u never take advantage or moan - u just have open ears n ur there for us. n yea it does suck, that a gr8 guy doesn't seem to get as much attention as a cock - but trust me if i found a man who was there for me n wood truly listened n cared - i wouldn't over look him - there could be the ******** / confident - good lookin bloke in the room - but i wood be happy with the quiet, understanding man who is next to me. thing is huni - if u look around - how many men do u c dat are like u - how many men wood hold open a door for a woman etc - very lil - the yrs / generations are changing men have lost morals n respect for women - and women have lost respect n morals for men. so next time u like a girl - tell them - be more than a friend - be the person she will love forever - the rite girl is out there - n she won't take advantage of u - or hurt u . x

Answer 5

I don't know . . . I wonder the same thing about women and the men they date or mess around with. I don't think most men like that though. Those are two things I won't stand in a relationship. Have a nice day!

Answer 6

It's really like this. The men pursue women who are playing hard to get or are really hard to get. It's sort of a challenge to them, to their ego, to be able to convince and to capture the woman they
have pursued.

Answer 7

its the same why women do the same. its mostly because men like a challenge.everybody loves a cjallenge noe and then

Answer 8

men likes the chase. when they find no mystery in a girl anymore they get tired with them. MEN WANTS WHAT IS UNOBTAINABLE. but REAL MEN knows which ones are worth it.

Answer 9

You have been introduced to the "Game", lol, if the cards were turned and it was being played on you, then maybe, you might understand.

Answer 10

a sign of insecurity and low self esteem. their mom probably did the same thing