Singles & Dating - 12 April 2007

Met a guy around 3 years ago, we were like best friends as well as lovers. He 28, me 23. He wasn’t too sure about having any commitments at that stage in his life. He messed me about in the process with broken promises due to his inability to commit. He said he wasn’t in the frame of mind for a relationship with any1 right now as he is isn’t sure about having commitments as he wants to focus on his career, other activites & just wants some space from relationships. So I gave him 1 last chance to tell me exactly what he wants as I have an opportunity to start seeing some1 else? And he still said that we should be friends as I deserve the best & he cant give that to me right now. If he were to be with someone it would be me but he isn’t looking for a relationship at the moment, so I told him that there was no going back after this.
He still tried to be friends by callin me every week or so to see how I was.Obviously just so that he could still have a chance when he is ready “!

2007-04-12 23:55:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a problem.

Tonight, I already said to my good lady that I would go for an informal meal thing with her work colleagues last night. Unfortunately for me this morning, the lads have decided to have a beers and bowling night which is much more up my street.

How do I play it, do I try and worm out of the works do or do I bite the bullet and listen to them droning on about print management all night.

Help me good people of Yahoo Answers!!

2007-04-12 23:52:03 · 22 answers · asked by Chris O 3

he is 60 yo...he said he is an orphan..he lost his parent when he was 4yo..he lost his family in a plane crash.....he is now wanting to start life anew..new beginning. He sounded sincere...but does anyone read the silimar storyline before? and he is now stranded in Nigeria...need some cash. Cash transfered using Western Union . It is a small scam leading to a bigger scam??? does anyone read this before??? pls help me....

2007-04-12 23:44:18 · 20 answers · asked by Mimi 1

we had been good relation since last 2 yrs....but suddenly things changed....he remains so busy in his work....and does not even keep some time for me.....and we usually have fights over small things....like not writing mail...or keeping me waited for long time n all.....day before yesterday i asked him if u dont have time then u should not have loved...or make this new relationship.....he said i was little child that time and now i m grown up......it really felt me so bad...i did'nt had any talk with him since and i just wrote 3 lines mail that "whether it was a joke or truth but sorry i think u dont need me anymore so bye forever?if i did the right thing and i love him ,i dont know wht to do help me????

2007-04-12 23:43:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 23:41:46 · 13 answers · asked by raaji sunny 1

my problem is that my boyfriend studies out of town, and our only way of contacting for now, is through pc and chat (he lost his cellphone, and long story that we cant call eachother) and it's a month that his hard has got burnt b/c of power supplies, so now our only way now is that he goes to a net cafe at the WEEKENDS, b/c he has many exams and needs to study the whole time, but again b/c of his studies, he sometimes cant make it, and that makes me sitting infront of the pc waiting for him, but he doesnt show up, then the next day he comes and apologizes and tells me that he really couldnt come cuz of his studies. but eventhough i know he's really busy, that still hurts me and makes me angry that i waited so long and he didnt come.
how can i nicely ask him to either dont set a time or when he does, act upon wat he said and dont make me wait so much?
I DONT WANT TO TALK ANGRY WITH HIM.

2007-04-12 23:30:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

really would like to know anyone has this experience of an american sole entrepreneur completed his project in Abuja and now trapped due to tax amount? big sum US40K....is that true that Niegrian IRS imposed witholding tax at 0.875% on profit made in nigeria? does anyone knows this place called Sharaton Tower Hotel (not Sheraton)...is there a road named No.1,Garriki Way..is this a valid address????pls help me....i am falling in lov ewith this guy...but worry he is not real...

2007-04-12 23:24:00 · 6 answers · asked by Mimi 1

Part 2 - as mentioned before - my best mate is a guy going out with a now friend of mine. To try and shorten this story - she set me up with a mate of hers - we got on ok on our date but he started getting a bit too clingy with constant texting and ringing. I asked him to back off but he wouldnt so I just started ignoring him. It now transpires that she was the one encouraging him to do this even though she knew I didnt like it. It has now come to light though - that she is telling this guy she has ended things with her bf - and is insinuating she would like to get with this guy. Me - this guy and her boyfriend are now aware of these games shes playing - so basically - she no longer talks to me - shes trying to get with this guy she set me up with - and shes still with her boyfriend...
Can anyone shed some light on what the hell or why she is doing this?? Im guessing shes psychotic - but would love to hear your opinions! sorry for this being so long and confusing!!
xx

2007-04-12 23:15:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

So a Sugar Daddie is suppose to be rich and wealthy and take care of the girl right ? But can a middle class guy like me be a SugarDaddie ?

I mean, I only make about $50,000 a year, but I think I am much better than all those millionaires out there. I am a gentleman, I am loyal and I know how to treat a woman well. So, can I be considered a SugarDaddie?

2007-04-12 23:14:09 · 6 answers · asked by Toby R 1

Who here really doesnt give a crap about looks? everyone has thought or said in he past that they don't care about looks, but i know they're lying. My best friend has a facial deformity, and she is upset because she just got dumped because of it. She is thinking about plastic surgery.
She asked me to be honest about my opinion, but i just don't think i can tell her that her face is more grotesque then a dead pig at the slaughter house. I think she should have the surgery, but what if she wakes up after wards, and doesn't recognise herself in the mirror?

2007-04-12 23:12:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has just finished with me and i have to leave his mums house, i am absolutely gutted, it actually feels like my heart is breaking. What do i do now? i only have a few friends and i'm not that close with my family, i'm in pieces. HELP ME

Please see below previous question

How do i bring back the fun and stop putting pressure on my relationship?I am 24 and have been with my boyfriend for 18mths. he is 22. We are living at his mum's to try and save money for a mortgage i thought we both wanted. He has now turned around saying he doesn't want a mortgage right now and he wants to go back to having fun and not to argue or discuss the future anymore. He is happy with living for evryday and whatever happens...happens. I just like to know we are both eventually heading in the right direction. He has told me he loves me and wants to be with me but doesn't know what to do anymore.What should i do, how can i let him know that i can relax, be fun and not talk about a mortgage any more?

2007-04-12 23:09:02 · 22 answers · asked by Laura B 1

2007-04-12 22:46:18 · 24 answers · asked by you are my angel 2

2007-04-12 22:02:27 · 7 answers · asked by Samaiel R 1

i would think it is more the FEMALE's nature to cheat. since it is the ultimate responsiblity of her to propagate the species she has to find the right person to mate with. And to find the right person she has to date around for the best and suitable... and not settle for less or just one.
The male dominated society has brainwashed women to think otherwise.

2007-04-12 21:35:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, i've been dating this man for about 5 months. in the beginning, of course, everything was fine, everybody was happy. Then he started getting away, and we "broke up", on his request. Hecame back afetr a week, but actually nothing had changed, he still wentout without telling me where he is, we kept meeting having his life without involving me in. So i told him that i don't want to see him anymore (which is kind of hard, as we work together:). We are fine at work, no problems, except for one - i still love the motherfu**er. I've no idea why on earth am i doing this to me, I've no idea what on earth has he done to me, but i know that i just can't get him out. It's not like in a soap opera drama, it's just that he is always in my head, like a flashing red light. I date men, but they just bore me, they're not him.
I guess he still loves me, i can see it sometimes, I could feel it when we were together, so wtf os happening? And how do i get him out of me???

2007-04-12 21:32:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel ashamed. I wasn't drunk or anything . It was pure lust. I just made out with the other girl but i had promised myself i would never stoop so low. I messaged my girl i dont want to hide anything but i feel terrible what do i do

2007-04-12 21:28:10 · 25 answers · asked by manic_chili_pepper 1

Her name is Beatrice... any creative cute short nicknames?

2007-04-12 21:13:24 · 15 answers · asked by TheWanderer 2

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2007-04-12 21:03:20 · 13 answers · asked by ♥this girllll 2

2007-04-12 21:01:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im not sure how to ask this. Ive been going out w/ this guy for about a yr and I really want to tell him I love him but I don’t know if I should. He has said it to me and he is very understanding of the fact that it scares me to say it. I dono y. he is my first real b/f and I haven’t really dated a lot of other people. Also, in the next month he is going to be leaving for 2 yrs on a mission for our church. Should I say it anyway, knowing there is a chance after he leaves I will never see him again (we have both decided it would be best for me to date other people while he’s gone)? wat could it hurt right?

BTW, if there are any LDS people reading this I would very much like to hear that religious aspect but any and all opinions are appreciated.

2007-04-12 20:58:33 · 15 answers · asked by Goosey 2

2007-04-12 20:42:39 · 14 answers · asked by curious_vanila 2

2007-04-12 20:21:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there any girls out there who are I guess OK with their guys viewing porn. But feel kind of depressed by the fact that he can go a week or longer without having sex with you, but has trouble going even two days without porn? Why? Why are you men with some of us women who have nothing physically wrong with us if you can easially go a long time without sex with us, but can NEVER do without porn. Not having your wife/gf for sex wouldn't phase you, but no porn would absolutely kill you? Why do you love that more anyways? Curious. My bf even frequently tells me I could be a penthouse girl easy, and just brings it up when I'm in just underwear.

2007-04-12 20:12:24 · 17 answers · asked by Secret Bubblegum Agent 1

I would like to get more serious with her, how do I play this out? Do I bring her flowers before? She is a friend, but not a "close" friend, more of an acquaintance.

2007-04-12 20:08:51 · 3 answers · asked by theajaxfood 2

2007-04-12 19:59:54 · 16 answers · asked by Lillie Love 1

well when and how long in a relationship can it be before you discuss that your a bedwetter and its not on pourpose and if both of you had that problem in childhood,, that its more understandable, does this ruin a girls trust

2007-04-12 19:56:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 19:52:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 19:49:47 · 1 answers · asked by devil b 1

2007-04-12 19:39:52 · 13 answers · asked by ChRiS 1

My boyfriend and I are going out Saturday night and thought Hollywood would be a fun place to go to walk around and stuff. We want to know of some things to do though besides walking around and looking at shops. Does anyone know of a great restaurant or anything. I love Hollywood and Vine but we are hoping to try something new. Have any ideas?

2007-04-12 19:14:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous