well when and how long in a relationship can it be before you discuss that your a bedwetter and its not on pourpose and if both of you had that problem in childhood,, that its more understandable, does this ruin a girls trust
2007-04-12 19:56:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you still a bed wetter? and if so i would tell her pretty early on. if you do tell you partner and she flips out, then you needed to get rid of her anyway. if she loves you she will put plastic on the bed, and wash the sheets. if you are worried that you wet the bed as a child and are afraid to tell her that, don't tell her wait tell you have been married for some years i wouldn't care if my husband wet the bed as a child.
2007-04-12 20:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by kelly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't. If you are in a serious relationship you should be able to discuss this with her. A friend had a bedwetting problem all his life which turned out to be an actual medical problem and was prescribed the drug Minirin which he took as a nasal spray before bed. The results have been amazing for him and he now does not see his bedwetting as a 'problem' at all as he no longer wets the bed. Maybe talk to your doctor or google up Minirin on the web so you can go in to the doc's armed with a bit of info! Good Luck!
2007-04-13 03:10:35 · answer #2 · answered by tarceyblu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone over the age of 4 who is a bed wetter has either a physiclal or an emotional problem that needs professional attention to solve. Most females seeking a relationship with a male that is romantic would find bedwetting to be a serious
and unpleasant issue but not a trust issue. See a doctor for help. That is not normal.
2007-04-13 03:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am over 40.....near 50. Now that I have my credentials down, the answer is as soon as you feel the potential that you are mutually attracted and looking for the same thing in a relationship. Until then it is nobody's business. If there is a bond of some kind, she will understand your problem and sympathize and deal with it. (PS....it is not as if it is your choice.....it is merely a condition that has to be dealt with....don't feel embarrassed or be with anyone who would)
2007-04-13 03:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, try to get treated for this condition before you tell her.
Then make sure you go very slowly in the relationship before you think about going to bed with her. You may find that although you're attracted to her, you don't trust her enough to tell her. If you're sure she's the one, I think you'll know when it's time.
Good luck.
2007-04-13 03:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say the best way to go about it, is not to lie, and to be honest. I don't think that it'll make her trust you less. I think if the person loves you, she won't feel as though you betrayed her, but more that you feel comfortable enough with her to tell the truth, and be yourself.
2007-04-13 03:02:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say right away. If the person really loves you they'll understand or at least try to and you shouldn't hide things from the one you love. I don't know how it could ruin a girls trust..
2007-04-13 03:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by crazygranny72 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no....well it might be cos girls r a bit hygenic and too fussy about sum1....so maybe it can ruin a girls trust..
2007-04-13 03:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by εїзR@iiNεїз 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest,you go for a therapy. i know someone who has the same problem,my husband's friend, everytime he gets drunk, do it everytime. pee in bed..
2007-04-13 03:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by Luisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thatcher,Thatcher,rabbit catcher.
2007-04-13 03:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by mark t 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋