Singles & Dating - 10 April 2007

i dont now whether she loves me or not but i love her 2 much,,,,yesterday she was asked me in message.,,,in which dress she looks good ,,,then i started telling the colours 1st i told i like red,,,she told something ,,,she not interested,,,same happens with 3 0r more colours atlast i told her dont wear anything ,,,,,,she called me and started weeping and told she will not talk to me,,,,am in so much tension pls help

2007-04-10 23:58:44 · 9 answers · asked by imrankhan d 1

I’m in my late 20s, I’m slim and not over weight and I’m attractive. I don’t seem to get much luck with men. When I go out at night I have no trouble chatting to new people and men that I fancy. I am polite and well mannered and make all effort to try and get a boyfriend but I don’t get any results. I swapped my number with a guy I met at the weekend, I texted him and I got no reply. I have deleted his number, but I feel fed up of trying to find someone now.

2007-04-10 23:58:30 · 20 answers · asked by rainbow 1

Ok...ever since i was in the 8th grade I have found guys with long hair attractive...and i used to think it was gross...but now its like omg long hair=hot! So whats the attraction?

2007-04-10 23:58:13 · 16 answers · asked by i_have_danced_with_the_devil 1

I am confused.He is a great lad! But I do not really understand why? He said he is shy. But how shy can you be...? What do you think....?

2007-04-10 23:57:10 · 27 answers · asked by Sandy 1

My boyfriend cheated on me by letting his other girl move in with him ( yeah it was really bad). He keeps saying that she was just a roomate but I am no fool and plus they were staying in the same room. I really loved him and I can't believe that he did that to me, but I'll get over it. However , I told him not to call me back but he still does( no caller ID). When he calls we have very brief conversations. He tells me he loves me Blah, Blah , Blah. I don't know how to loose contact with him and I also cannot change my number. My question is how do I make him pay for what he has done to me.

2007-04-10 23:56:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been dating for almost 4 months (!). His 16th birthday is next week. I have no idea what to get him. I got his cologne for Christmas, so please dont suggest that. Does anyone have any ideas?

2007-04-10 23:53:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

everytime me and my gf are about to have sex, she goes on top of me undoes my trouers etc. and then he says 2 minutes and runs of somewhere.
shes teasing me and going too far i really hate it what should i do?

2007-04-10 23:52:20 · 12 answers · asked by Ryan ;) 1

I was left hanging upside down like a fool when my relationship ended. I had found out that my bf was not being honest with me after it ended. Do you think it would help me heal if I heard an apology and some kind of admittance?

2007-04-10 23:51:58 · 13 answers · asked by lucielu 2

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 months. We have only made out 4 or 5 times. I really want to, and I am pretty sure he does too. But, we never have an opportunity. How can I make one?
We see eachother a lot. We go to the same school and church. But they are so strict there, and it is almost impossible to be alone. Whenever I go to his house, his family is always in the room. Any advice?

2007-04-10 23:51:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please can anyone tell me what she really means or is she really going to think about going out with me

thanks

2007-04-10 23:50:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-10 23:45:33 · 10 answers · asked by cynthia 1

There is this guy he likes me as a gf, but I am not quite sure if I like him in a bf/gf kinda of way. He seem to have got mad when he asked if later on would my parents be alright with me going on a cruise with him for a couple of days or whatever. I told him no, not unless I am married. My parents are old school and so am I. He then wanted to know, why I still stay at home. I told him I dont plan on leaving until I am married. Apparently, it did not go well with him. He was extremely disappointed, and said I need to experience life on my own. I personally feel like he wants me to change b/c he is not happy with it. I told him I will not change my belief for nobody and if he does not like it "move on". Then he said "I think I can compromise with that", but I am turned off besides the fact I dont quite see him as my bf. I dont believe in shacking. What do you think about this situation?

2007-04-10 23:45:04 · 4 answers · asked by Amenity 3

Just wanna know... Does it have signs? Like you always bump into each other. Or you happen to do same things at the same time without telling each other...

2007-04-10 23:45:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Was it because you fell out of love with your partner, were you bored, not ready for committment or something else?

Was it worth leaving your relationship to be single again?

2007-04-10 23:44:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

alright. well theres this guy that i have been friends with for a little while now and i really like him more than a friend.
but i didnt think he liked me so i didnt really make a move or anything. but bout 5 weeks ago maybe less, we were messaging eachother and in the end he had told me that he really liked me and i told him that i liked him as well.
but we couldnt really do anything together coz he had just got out of a bad relationship with this chick who still likes him so he didnt wanna do anything with any other chicks too soon coz he didnt wanna hurt her feelings. but we would still msg eachother go out places.. but sometimes i feel as if he doesnt like me.. like we willbe messaging eachother and then he wont reply. when theres plenty of styff to reply to. or he wont talk to me at school. and just stuff like that. but when he is talking with me it seems like he really likes me. what do you guys think i should do? forgte about him or keep playing along with his game?

2007-04-10 23:39:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

iam 25yrs old and i need somebody that is loving,caring and God fearing that will love and take me for what iam

2007-04-10 23:34:21 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah J 1

We've been a couple for over half a year; everything started off in a real love-rush, admittedly fast. Due to job situation I had to move to another country, but he soon decided to follow me. Now that he's taken the decesion and is facing the consequences, he suddenly fears he might not be able to give me what I need/want, he questions the truth of his feelings for me, he doubts or doesn't trust in himself.
However his actions towards me are always full of affection and care, he is considerate and thoughtful; from his eyes I can only read love. He also says he misses me when we are not together and he enjoys us being together.
Neither of us have ever experienced such a great love and understanding before.
Still, there are moments of uncertainty and then we both panic. I am confused. Have even proposed to leave him alone for a while, but he doesn't want that either (and neither do I!)
I am trying to keep calm about it, but it's hard. So, what do you think I should do?

2007-04-10 23:31:48 · 3 answers · asked by photomaniac169 2

ok he cheated on me, he hit me roughly 3 times in our 3 year realtionship..is that bad....he kicked me few times in one day cos he thought i went to see my ex [ didnt] and he slapped me twice for silly reasons .....hes also cheated and his behavious wasnt that great either.
but we had some really good times and i know alot of men cheat and u wont found someone who doesnt,,is this true
i feel like goin bak to him cos i mis him even though i know i can do better he does want meback but i dnt know i think all ment cheat so why dont i just stick to him....
you all answered the above i forgot to mention something else..the girl he cheated me was actually a nice girl and shes been telling me herself thatnhe still loves me and that we shud get back together but i also know that because i havent been talking to him hes been talking 2her and she instead of feeling hurt is just talking to him and even being nice to him.i feel jealous and i want him bak cos of her.id feel sik if they did,.

2007-04-10 23:31:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

thing is,tht i like a guy.lets name him A. i always had da feeling tht A liked me 2.but wen i asked him,he refused,n sed there was nuthin lik tht.but my frends always saw him staring at me.so i moved on.its been 4mths since dat incident,n now hes started staring again,my frends tell me. sumtimes our eyes meet,n i get da feeling tht he still ikes me.we hav started a new seesion,n theres another guy,call him B,new admission. hes a really cute guy, n i think i kinda like him.i sumtimes get da feeling tht hes lukin at me,n wenever he talks wid me,thers always a smile on his face.usually,he dosnt smile at all,be it a boy or a girl.i m TOTLLY confused.cn i get sum advice,or do i hav to do sumthin like eenie-meenie-mina-moe?

2007-04-10 23:19:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Met a guy around 3 years ago, we were like best friends as well as lovers. He 28, me 23. He wasn’t too sure about having any commitments at that stage in his life. He messed me about in the process with broken promises due to his inability to commit. He said he wasn’t in the frame of mind for a relationship with any1 right now as he is isn’t sure about having commitments as he wants to focus on his career, other activites & just wants some space from relationships. So I gave him 1 last chance to tell me exactly what he wants as I have an opportunity to start seeing some1 else? And he still said that we should be friends as I deserve the best & he cant give that to me right now. If he were to be with someone it would be me but he isn’t looking for a relationship at the moment, so I told him that there was no going back after this.
He still tried to be friends by callin me every week or so to see how I was.Obviously just so that he could still have a chance when he is ready “!

2007-04-10 23:15:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this guy in November and we really clicked. We both have very busy lives and although have been texting / emailing since then each time either one of us suggests meeting up the other one is busy. Mainly my fault but sometimes him too. I am less busy now and he texted me about a few days ago saying he was still single and was thinking of going speed dating but cancelled and did I go?

1) Was this him finding out if I was still single?
2) He is very shy (or maybe uninterested!) should I ask him out?
3) If I was to ask him out (by text) any suggestions - direct or subtle
4) Shall I just give up


I am not worried about rejection as you only live once, but if I am going togive this a go I would like to have the best chance of success.

Advice please?

2007-04-10 22:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by confused 2

my friend got busted for forging some document concerning his visa.
he is being held in the detention cell at the immigration office at this moment.
its likely that he'll be deported and head for his country soon.
he's got a girlfriend, who also is my good friend, in our neighbouring country, and he needs to layover there to get on the plane headed for his home (there's no direct flight from my country to his).

so, here's the deal.
when i told her the news about him getting arrested for forging documents, she was deeply shocked and felt betrayed cuz she trusted him enough to have long distance relationship.
when i heard from him, he said he wanted enter her country to see her when he makes stopover there on his way from deportation.
i'm not an immigration expert so i don't know if he could even enter her country, but if he could, his girlfriend is not sure if she should meet him. she's now seeing him as half bf half criminal.

should i still encourage her to meet him or not?

2007-04-10 22:45:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know, the only response for that is to love him back.well i do love him lots too,but i still feel he loves me more.its TOO sweet.why do i feel like i'm getting something i don't deserve?should he be with a better girl so his love goes worthwhile?

2007-04-10 22:42:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my partner has been in a unhappy relationship for 9years & stayed for the comfort - we met up 6 weeks ago & she left him , we have had the best time , hes been txting her nasty things - they werent engaged or married , he threatend to kill himself & kill her , she wants to stay with me & wants us to have a future - she said she thinks she loves me , if thats the case why has she just left me & gone back to him - she said she feels guilty for leaving him upset , she knows shes going to be unhappy , im confused - does she love me ?? will i ever get her back ?? help!

2007-04-10 22:38:58 · 15 answers · asked by bilbob 1

ok he cheated on me, he hit me roughly 3 times in our 3 year realtionship..is that bad....he kicked me few times in one day cos he thought i went to see my ex [ didnt] and he slapped me twice for silly reasons .....hes also cheated and his behavious wasnt that great either.
but we had some really good times and i know alot of men cheat and u wont found someone who doesnt,,is this true
i feel like goin bak to him cos i mis him even though i know i can do better he does want meback but i dnt know i think all ment cheat so why dont i just stick to him....what do i do
help pls

2007-04-10 22:35:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does she think I'm psychic? Why does she then get mad at me for not knowing why she's mad? Why won't she simply tell me why she is mad? Will I somehow score points in my favor for guessing correctly? Why does she place such high importance on petty little things?

2007-04-10 22:32:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do girls find attractive in a guy?

2007-04-10 22:12:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know one girl.i love her.She is in school with me.She sits behind me everytime.She always looks me.She is in my friendgroup.
When i met an accident and admitted in the hospital she comes everyday with alot of flowers.My all friends say that she loves me but i m confused.They also said that she cries very much when i met in an accident.
I can't prapose her yet.how can i?plz help me by answering?
good answer will also get 10 points

2007-04-10 21:53:34 · 13 answers · asked by beckham007 1

I seem to be a horrible partner, or atleasts thats how I feel. I never say the word love, for the most part I don't really believe in it, so I am a fool some might say, but thats just who I am.

Why is it so hard for me to say "I love you" when he says it all the time? I believe its all about lust and nothing more then sexual attraction and a bond of good friendship.... Love does not really exist in my mind.

2007-04-10 21:47:16 · 32 answers · asked by *Amber* 1

my dad purposely spill stuff on my pants and threw thim in the dirty clothes and he wont wash them or let me....and their me last pair...its really cold and hes the only one with a blanket should i punch him?

2007-04-10 21:43:26 · 17 answers · asked by leslie 1