Singles & Dating - 10 April 2007

met this guy in college.He's from Chicago & both parents are lawyers. He's about 5'5 and 125#.He has long thin black hair, tattoos, and a tounge ring. He wears big baggy clothes, loves to flaunt his parents' money and flashy cars, & drinks &smokes extensively but does not do drugs. We talk almost every night online & on the phone. When we do, he expresses how into me he is & how he will do anything for me, he loves me unconditionally, etc.He knows I feel the same way.We don't see each other much in person b/c of both of our overloaded schedules, but when we do, he gets extremely nervous. I mean, to the point of physically shaking.This can even be when I'm doing nothing more than sitting next to him, just talking. He also doesn't say much in person, I'm usually the one that does all the talking.One day, shortly after I met him, he wanted to show me the tattoo on his back.When he took off his shirt, I could see that he was visibly shaking. Why is this?? How can I get him to relax?

2007-04-10 16:28:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-10 16:26:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there a magic number of partners a girl has had that makes her TOO promiscuous? As in, so promiscuous she has a bad reputation? Or is it something else?

2007-04-10 16:10:36 · 7 answers · asked by trillian 5

I really want to know. Do you like when their funny or when they laugh. Or do you like there eyes the best. Tell me what you like best in girls and what turns you on the most about them.

2007-04-10 16:00:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to impress this girl and I need some tips

2007-04-10 16:00:07 · 1 answers · asked by thefish-k 2

I've been with my bf on and off for about 4 yrs, we recently broke up in dec., and now we're back together for the past 3 months. I text message him, i email him, and i call him, and i even tell him i love him cuz it just comes out of me. Even after everything we have gone through, i truly believe that i luv him, but sometimes i feel like i am more affectionate then him, he used to email me and text msg me and tell me he loves but. I confront him the other and he just told me that i am just more affectionate and that he doesn't tell me loves me as much because i don't give him a chance, he says he does love me. And that i shouldn't fix something that isn't broken. Is he lying or that he's just not into the relationsip? or just not in love. Sometime he just has these mood swings, i'll came him and he's just cranky or dry, and he's excuse of not talking, he says, is that he is just tired or there's nothing new. I know he might be stressed cuz he wants to get into med school.

2007-04-10 15:54:53 · 1 answers · asked by BridgetJones07 1

2007-04-10 15:48:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been married,im 31,shes 23,i have 2 girls i see every other weekend.she has no kids,lives with her mom in a trailer park.
she seems intrested in me really only on the nights she goes out to the bars.i usually always get a call when shes been drinking,i go out with her meet her she comes home with me.
is it just senseless really?

2007-04-10 15:48:06 · 11 answers · asked by stabone315 2

If someone asks you out, what should be your reply that doesn't seem too eager, but doesn't sound like you're just saying 'yes'? Thanks

2007-04-10 15:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by Tennisismylyfe18 2

I know it's not as relevant as most questions here but I really would just like to know. This girl has been bugging us over the internet and my boyfriend already told her off but she just wouldn't listen. I tried telling her to back off as well but she just started an exchange of insults with me. What can I do? It's getting hard to ignore.

2007-04-10 15:27:29 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was just wondering, cause it seems like guys only care about boobs and figures, and most like blondes and brunettes that are tan. And I'm a pale red head with freckles and I'm just wondering...

2007-04-10 15:14:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend has had her azz cheaks clinched together all day long.... why wont she just stop???

2007-04-10 15:07:09 · 1 answers · asked by ijusthavetoask 1

she likes brand name clothing, jewelery, music,

2007-04-10 14:36:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend in my life. I've talked to some guys like a little more than friends, but nothing ever evolved. I am smart, in all honors and college classes,
i have a lot of friends (meaning I'm not popular and I'm not nerdy, I'm not emo. I have friends from all the cliques), I played soccer for years, but now I just exercise to feel good about myself, I like a lot of things that guys like for instance football, and I get told a lot that I am pretty and funny. So what's wrong with me ?

A couple of my friends have told me that I have too high standards. How do I fix that ?

I would make the first move, but I can't find anyone to make the first move on. :(

And school is more important, but I could use a romantic interest in my life.

I just can't find anybody :(

2007-04-10 14:31:16 · 16 answers · asked by dolly m 1

starting 2 like me more but he has not come out and told me but i have this feeling.And he wants 2 go out of town with me and stay overnight cause the event is at night.I have never stayed overnight with him.I don't know what 2 think.Its like someone is talking 2 him and telling him that i like him and he better move on it or lose her.help

2007-04-10 14:24:56 · 1 answers · asked by chattycathy24 1

should i go to a pre-prom dinner with a group that includes a guy that i went on a couple of dates with but he then decided not to continue our relationship because his friends were making fun of him? my date and him are friends and when i told my date that this guy and his date wanted us all to go together, he laughed. and if i shouldn't go, how should i explain it to my date?

2007-04-10 14:23:36 · 2 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1

i am very confused cos my fiance of 2 years has asked for a threesome. i have talked to him and told him that i am not comfortable with it. but he insists that it is only going to make the relationship stronger and make us develop our sex life. he says i do not trust him enough that is why i am uncomfortable with it. am i being selfish and untrusting by not being comfortable with it?i also feel less attractive cos of his demand, what can i do?

2007-04-10 14:21:57 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

like i've tryed to talk about my feelings and ask him questions like that but he seems he don't wanna answer then other times he say he will NEVER do that! i trust him and all but there's a side i really don't trust well know about. i really don't know what to do anymore!! i love him to death we've together for almost a year now this is my longest relationship ever and i don't wanna screw it up because if i did i would be do depressed and lost. when we talk we share everything with each other like secerts, feelings and so on. it's like we become one and sometimes we can read each other's mind without saying it. i love that! i know he loves me and i love him but some where deep inside i don't think he truely loves me like he says he does but instead of thinking of the negatives i'm gonna think postive! i'm so lost! he's my one and only, everything i've wanted in a guy, he's my heart and soul and most of all i truely love him. so please help me!! give me some info. thanks.

2007-04-10 14:15:57 · 7 answers · asked by heather 1

I know some girls have a 'thing' for guys wearing business clothing. Usually i just wear half-n-half like a shirt over casual jeans and sneakers when i go out. What you people think?

2007-04-10 14:14:16 · 11 answers · asked by thugster17 2

Ok i've been with my gf for 5 weeks now.
I REALLY like her. I think bought pretty much all the time.

So im kinda thinking.................. whats a word or phrase that has more emotion then "like" but not as much as "love"?


i care for her so much

2007-04-10 14:13:57 · 3 answers · asked by jaye3rd89 1

2007-04-10 14:11:35 · 23 answers · asked by Jennifer H 1

We lived together for 2 yrs, a serious relationship. Her visa ran out and she had to leave the country. Her application papers to be in the country was still in process and can take a year to clear so I decided to be with her in asia. Her and I were in love. We were already talking about marriage in the future. I ended up applying, got accepted, and got my visa/permits all ready to be where she was and continue our lives. Then her parents all of a sudden changed their minds and said it wasn't a good idea. They are very traditional. Heartaches between us, so after 2 months she broke up with me.
After 8 months, she calls, it was the 1st time we heard our voices. Then we started talking again on msn. She says, "I think i'll be approved soon, I'm sick being here. I'm coming back." I ask if she has a boyfriend. She said "NO", twice. I know she wants to come back, but for me? I didnt ask. Then she ask "do your parents miss me? I miss them a lot"

What can she be thinking/feeling?

2007-04-10 14:11:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example, would you help him with make-up, mannerisms and clothes?

2007-04-10 14:10:53 · 17 answers · asked by triestobekind 1

How can you trust something that bleeds for five days and doesnt die ?

2007-04-10 14:08:02 · 27 answers · asked by Neil 3

I have had a thing for my best guy friend for three years now. I told him how I felt 2 years ago, but he said he didn't like me that way. Things were a little awkward for a while, but now we're better friends than ever. He tells me I'm pretty/hot a lot, but then tells me he sees me as a sister. I'm getting mixed signals here...Also, my other best friend (who we always hang out with) says that she feels like a third wheel when we all hang out. She also told me that my guy friend asked another mutual friend if I like him. would he have done this if he wasn't interested in me that way? thank you!

2007-04-10 14:06:35 · 12 answers · asked by Miss Meagan 1

i met her and told her i was wealthy.i didnt think we would end up together so i lied.then we fell in love and i felt it was to late to tell the truth.the truth was i had everything but lost it.i thought id get it back while with her and if i told her then she would leave.ive told her the truth now but she cant get past it.what can i do to help her get past this.i love her so much.

2007-04-10 14:05:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to know what to change.ive put this up before but never gotten the answer i need.i want to know what to change to be pretty.
guys, what could i do to make me more appealing to you? i want to be pretty but i hate that im not naturally tan and that i have freckles.im also 5'1 and dont like being so short.but i cant change that.what can i do to look prettier?

-ignore the sunburn lol

http://s118.photobucket.com/albums/o83/atlantatwin02/?action=view¤t=n1117650111_30071921_5727.jpg

2007-04-10 14:04:05 · 12 answers · asked by me 2

i have been single for a year now and i am really wanting a boyfriend but it seems like no one is going to ask me out! what do i do to give guys the idea that i am single?

ANWSERS DEEPLY THANKED

2007-04-10 14:02:48 · 4 answers · asked by Kylah O'Neal 2

my b/f looks at porn online. Its seems he used to look at women, now its very young girls also. I have found teen sites online and some of the girls look like they are just hitting puberty. This is really bothering me alot. I confronted him about it, and he didnt have a answer of why. I asked him to get help with this, I feel its become a big problem. Im thinking of breaking up with him, but he did say he would seek help. Guys what do you think? Will he change if he gets the help he needs.

2007-04-10 14:02:07 · 2 answers · asked by FreeBird 1

What can I do to cool off....

2007-04-10 13:59:43 · 4 answers · asked by ssmith 3