I know it's not as relevant as most questions here but I really would just like to know. This girl has been bugging us over the internet and my boyfriend already told her off but she just wouldn't listen. I tried telling her to back off as well but she just started an exchange of insults with me. What can I do? It's getting hard to ignore.
2007-04-10 15:27:29 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
unless she's a complete whacko, and if you met her on the internet that may very well be the case, she's probably responding to some kind of encouragement she's getting from your boyfriend. I mean...why would she be so invested if he hadn't lead her on at some point?
do you trust your boyfriend?
2007-04-10 15:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have this motto, which is, it's nearly impossible to please everyone else; by doing so you're going to turn yourself into an emotional pretzel. Well, you know what when she realized what a good catch you were; it was way, too, late. I hope for her sake that she has learned her lesson well, and from now on, she'll be more careful and treat others with dignity and respect. This goes without being said; when someone is abusive it's hard for them to love themselves, because they're never happy; always finding fault so on and so forth. Being naive doesn't mean one dislikes themselves; they just can't see the forest for the trees. Time and experience always sorts that out.
2016-03-17 23:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's really his job to tell her he's with you, and not interested. If you two are solid, then no one can come between you. Just ignore her, click ignore on the internet, hang up the phone, walk away, whatever it takes. She will eventually get the hint, if she's a stalker, then get a restraining order. But whatever you do, don't let her get you upset and trading insults, that just tells her that she IS a threat, and feeds her ego.
2007-04-10 15:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Squirrley Temple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one thing that I really hate about women. Why do you have to get at that girl for being on your man? Can't you see that it's HIM not her? It's your man, sweetie. He's probably telling you one thing to your face (that she won't leave him alone) and is actually talking to her on the side. One thing you need to learn is that MEN ARE LIARS. Women so often believe that they can trust their men... Leave the poor girl alone and go have a talk with your "man." Who obviously isn't a man if he can't keep the women off of him.
2007-04-10 15:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by lost.in.love 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to be the better person and be more mature. It's obvious this girl is immature and disrespectful. #1.) Never stoop to her level of insults. You have your man so you have nothing to worry about. #2.) Ignore her!! That goes for BOTH of you. Both your man and you. If you all are entertaining her nonesense, she's getting attention which is obviously waht she wants. #3.) Keep on lovin' your man! It's obvious he wants you anwyay..don't sweat her! Again, you've got him! :)
2007-04-10 15:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her the best u can.. the more u guys give her attention the more she's gonna try to piss u off....leave her alone and maybe she'll get sick of chasing him and then finally leave him alone.. there's not much u can do when it comes to retarded chicks like that. theyre not gonna get it through their thick head anywayss so u might as well forget about her ..just find a way to ignore her on the internet like can't u block her or something? anyways good luck getting rid of her!
2007-04-10 15:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by PinkDiamond♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either your boyfriend in't trying hard enough to get rid of her or she's obsesses.
Forward her emails to abuse@(her ISP) as harassing emails.
Call the police and have them talk to her
Take out a restraining order against her.
2007-04-10 15:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smack a *****. No, i'm just kidding. If your boyfriend really cares you should ask him to block her online, in email and phone, etc. and continue to ask her to leave him alone. Don't stoop on her level to insulting one another because she's not worth your breath. I would definitely leave it to your boyfriend. Because, if she is feeling rejected by him she won't continue because it will make her feel bad about herself. If you stay in the middle you will just add fuel to the fire and she will try to one up you, you will give her someone to compete with. If your boyfriends expresses that she does not have chance over and over she will give up.
2007-04-10 15:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by Heather R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really your man, there is no need to even address the lunatic. Don't let her think you are the desperate one. Why let someone else control how your emotions will roll? Good luck!
2007-04-10 15:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by momfirst101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try your hardest to ignore it but if it is bothering so so much and you have to say some thing just don't insult her stay calm and just tell her that you don't appreciate her flirting with your bf and just tell her to leave him alone... if it is over the Internet i would just say block her on both your accounts or report her form both of your accounts so that she has no way of talking t o you and you can all just forget about this mess
2007-04-10 15:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by just me :) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋