I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend in my life. I've talked to some guys like a little more than friends, but nothing ever evolved. I am smart, in all honors and college classes,
i have a lot of friends (meaning I'm not popular and I'm not nerdy, I'm not emo. I have friends from all the cliques), I played soccer for years, but now I just exercise to feel good about myself, I like a lot of things that guys like for instance football, and I get told a lot that I am pretty and funny. So what's wrong with me ?
A couple of my friends have told me that I have too high standards. How do I fix that ?
I would make the first move, but I can't find anyone to make the first move on. :(
And school is more important, but I could use a romantic interest in my life.
I just can't find anybody :(
2007-04-10 14:31:16 · 16 answers · asked by dolly m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are 15. you have plenty of time IN THE FUTURE for dating. my children won't be dating until 16, at least! just be yourself, and hang out with friends.
2007-04-10 14:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being 15 and dateless isn't a bad thing, and is not unusual. I wouldn't bother about it too much.
But if you desperately want a boyfriend... if you are the shy type at first I'd suggest try talking to more guys in a friendship manner at school to get used to interaction with males.
Is your main friendship circle just females? Or males as well?
Hmm high standards, that could be a problem. Looks aren't everything, as long as the person takes pride in their appearance, and has a good and connecting personality that's good enough for me.
2007-04-10 21:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Spitting Games 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a very good start to a rel relationship when he shows up. Don't change anything. From what you say the guys respect you , You have a friendship going with them. This is very good.. You might trying having a football,baseball or some type of sports party and have these friends over along with your girlfriends. Or when something comes up that both you and the guys like you might suggest why don't we all go together.
2007-04-10 21:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like anyone, then you will have to wait until you are in a situation where you have more of a selection. This may not be what you want to hear, since it may take a few years. Go to a nice sized college (30K plus), and then the odds are in your favor. It is probably in your best interest to wait anyway; people act more normal outside of high school. Patience will pay off.
2007-04-13 23:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 15 there is nothing wrong with you. u have the rest of your life for guys. don't change urself for anyone. are u kidding me? someone said u have high standards? honey, thats a good thing. u said u haven't found anyone to make a move on so just focus on school until that person comes along.
2007-04-10 21:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a very desirable young woman!! Make sure you get out and enjoy yourself--- are you on any other teams or clubs of interest at your school? If not, that might be a good place to start to be with others that share common interests. I bet dating will begin for you when you least expect it--be yourself, and love YOURSELF first...guys will sense your confidence and you will be a magnet for the guys...and let us know how it is going for you----you GO girl!!!
2007-04-10 21:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by birdiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to me when you are 30 and still in the same fix. You are young. Be selective. Know your own worth....others will too. There is no rush. Time is on your side. Have faith....love will find you...in time.
2007-04-10 21:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by royalpixieblue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry bout it! u will find that special person! make sure that u put urself out there as "more than a friend" and they mite be able to take a hint... just be open and dont give up! hope this helps!!!
2007-04-10 21:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by blondie62193 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never lower your standards --- thats the first and only "rule" --- there will be guys that are interested and that you are interested in as well and they will appear when you least expect it --- keep an open mind and prepared to be surprised and delighted --- best wishes
2007-04-10 21:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS JUST LIKE ME GIRL. except i know someone i like. but you just need to be extra flirty and hott all the time. don`t be rough and toooo sporty. it`ll all work out in the end. trust me [=
2007-04-10 21:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by willllia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋