Singles & Dating - 10 April 2007

honestly how do guys like girls to dress?
I mean are theere some things that they just love women to wear or somethings they just hate?
and im not talking about like micro-miniskirts wiht like a bikini top but on a regular basis, what are the yes and nos to fashion in a guys opinoin?

2007-04-10 21:40:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known this girl for 4 months now and we have been poking each other on facebook for 4 months

I like her but im not sure if she likes me, she goes to an out of state school and well, this poking thing has been goin on for awhile, sometimes i know she'll go a day or 2 without poking me (maybe signs of annoyance with the poke) but she will still poke me back

i know poke has no meaning but i like her, i dont wanna keep doing it if its signs of being "friendly" and poking

lol i know this sounds so cheesy but should i poke her back? i mean we have been poking each other for over 4 months.

she wants me to visit her at college too, she goes out of state so i dont really get to spend time with her, she wants me to come down there, does this mean she is intersted or sees only as friends? we hung out during her break and she said "im glad we hung out today :)" and that i should come visit her

i dont want to be stuck in friend zone, so poke or no poke? im weird I know...

2007-04-10 21:28:04 · 8 answers · asked by Mark 1

2007-04-10 21:25:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im pretty popular in my school, and im tall, pretty, and lean, however, i have a problem. I want this guy to like me. He liked me before, and we're kinda on and off. I want him to ask me to the next dance. What should I do?

2007-04-10 21:23:56 · 8 answers · asked by HELLO 1

why do some women intimidate guys? and i'm not talking about the drop dead gorgeous women, but what are other aspects that guys find intimidating??

2007-04-10 21:21:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Girlfriend of 2.5 years, has gone out on several dates with her ex-boyfriend
To the movies, a Stealey Dan Concert, and to listen to Jazz Music I have caught her
3 times from different dates She Says they are only platonic Friends now and loves only me please give opinion and advise.

2007-04-10 21:21:24 · 16 answers · asked by apreston60 5

2007-04-10 20:59:43 · 11 answers · asked by maimi 2

I've been with my girlfriend for a year now and she has a few best friends but as much as i want to be, i worry i'll never be one of them and I feel that i'm probably not a big part of her life.
Also lately i've felt less close to her and get the feeling something has changed in her heart so what should i do next?

2007-04-10 20:59:05 · 5 answers · asked by jimbob 1

He was in my room and we were working on the computer. He saw the cat laying on the bed. He mentioned my pillows. Then he mentioned he would need more pillows for his head. Then he asked if the cat always sleeps there. I said yes. He said something like he couldn't sleep with a cat or there would be no where for him or something. I said "Are you in my bed?" He said "No, I'm just saying if I was..."

2007-04-10 20:55:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been really upset about this since it happened and i don't know how to take it..


i spent this past weekend w/my bf of 2.5 years which is what we always do every other weekend when i don't have my kids (3 girls that i have part-time). i was on my cycle so sex was out of the question so he asked for oral. while doing so-he got kind of out of hand and was choking me-when it was over i got really upset and took a shower for 45 mins (which is not normal for me). he finally came to check on me and found me crying-when he asked what was wrong-i asked y that had happened (we've never done that in the whole 2.5 years we've been together). i told him it upset me b/c the only other guy that ever treated me like that just wanted me for sex and left me after 8 months. he got upset saying he didnt mean it like that.

that was on friday-i stayed at his house till sat then we both went to work (nites). i haven't heard from him since sunday nite. should i be worried?

2007-04-10 20:48:08 · 4 answers · asked by prncessang228 7

men are alwayz taken for granted why??????

2007-04-10 20:44:37 · 17 answers · asked by saket k 1

I think i dont treat people how they deserve to be treated...how can i prevent this?

2007-04-10 20:43:10 · 17 answers · asked by ben 1

please just serious answers,cause this is a serious question.
i am a 23 boy,and it's more than 4 years that i've been faithful with my girlfriend ,so has she been.
these days i really feel like having sex with other girls or women(not any specific one),but i have been faithful.some times i feel i love her,but sometimes i feel i deserve a better marriage than this,in fact some times i think i am more attractive and successful than her.
she's studying for ms,and i'm doing so for phd,these days,we have less time for each other.i proposed her,but she said she will postpone it to after her phd,i really do not know what to do,i don't want to sadden her,should i remain fuithful,to be unfaithful,to break up,or to forget about this lust for others.
can i find better situations or if i break up i'll regret cause we've done everything for and with each other in these 4 years.

2007-04-10 20:39:34 · 13 answers · asked by Stephan 1

How do I deal with my bf who seems to spend all my money. He is not working at the moment, and all my cash goes on bills, food and other expenses. I dont even spend any money on myself as im always concerned that I'll never have enough incase of an emergency. My bf seems to think that I worry too much about it, but when icome from a family that never had much, I appreciate what money I do have, and dont want to struggle the same way my mum did. there are no children involved. Money has no sense of value to my bf. What can I do to make him realise that he cant just go around trying to spend my cash.

2007-04-10 20:17:36 · 15 answers · asked by nc 3

okay so my bf is a goody good boy and b4 he never rlly treated me like his gf but now he huggs me and he puts his arm around me and he gives me suprise presents and holds my hand and stuff and i think its time weve madeout.......but i dont think he has b4 or if he wants too ....should i???.......now were going to go to sixflags soon so i was thinking on the ferris wheel or were going to the movies this weekend maybe then?

2007-04-10 20:07:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

and 2 million dollars... what would you do?

sky's the limit (litteraly cause you can't go into space)

2007-04-10 19:56:49 · 18 answers · asked by krusty477 3

ok i asked out this girl and she said yes and stuff but im not sure how to handle the situation because she told me shes never had a bf and well thats the thing i dont really know how to start a good relationship with someone like that i dont know how strong id be able to come on with out scareing her and so on so any advice would be great thanks

2007-04-10 19:46:16 · 8 answers · asked by nemises65 2

i have been dating john for about a week now. ive never in my life fallen in love so quickly with someone. i think this is truely love at first sight. he is 4 years older then me. he feels the same about me too. john didnt know about this until today, when his ex girlfriend of 6 years came over and tells him that she is 1 month pregnant. he tells me how much he really does not want to be with her. how he dosnt like her or love her anymore. he says that he likes me alot more and would much rather stay with me. but he broke up with me tonight because he says he dosnt want his child to go through life with out a father. he wants to be there when its says its 1st words and the whole 9 yards. how do i get john to, or what should i say to get him to stay with me for as much as he likes me and not his ex. and for that he is only going back with her for the baby, and only for that reason. i tried saying stuff like he could see the baby anytime and even get full custody. Please help me.....

2007-04-10 19:40:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wandering

2007-04-10 19:39:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm in middle school...

ok so when adults say that kids can't love another with all of their heart, they don't know what they're talking about. i may sound neive, but it's only the truth, accept it or dont. love is not defined by age. it is not defined by the wrinkles under your eyes or by the amount of tears you have cried. you see, that's it. love is undefined. it's measured in the time it takes to blink once, it's measured in the way that he looks at you, and the way he always says 'i love you' to make things better.


if you're in love, you're in love. it could be a little or a lot. no one can tell me that i'm too young to be in love because i am. can't someone mean everything to you at this age??

if you agree with what i'm saying then answer...

or maybe i'm just a little kid that doesn't know what she's talking about.......

2007-04-10 19:25:30 · 12 answers · asked by ILuvTheUsed&MCR 2

My boyfriend, Jay,is the most greatest thing that ever happened to me. We tell each other we love each other all the time. We already had our first date..We walk around together at school..we talk on the phone,myspace, and MSN. I just dont know whether hes ashamed to hold my hand or if he just doesnt want to..what should I do?

2007-04-10 19:20:12 · 6 answers · asked by lightning! 3

I would prefer if girls answer.

2007-04-10 19:15:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months and we've been friends for a year. We are really close and spend almost every evening together for a few hours talking and such. We haven't had sex, and I have told him I want to wait. He respects that and said he only wants it when my head and heart and body are all ready. Well I know that I love him, yet he told me first. He told me he fell in love with me a while ago while we were still just friends. He says that I have changed his life and that he sees me in his future and he already talks about "marriage" and such. He asks me to never leave him and always be by his side. He says that I am all he wants and that he will never break up with me and I'm too important to lose.

It almost seems to good to be true. What do y'all think?? I take it as sincere...is it too soon?

2007-04-10 18:48:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-10 18:45:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I thought this would be dangerous...

2007-04-10 18:41:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-10 18:38:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

or does he jus stay for the kids?

2007-04-10 18:32:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a strong belief that I am in the friend zone with this one girl I like. I just really don't know what to do. I mean I don't want to completely ignore her, even though that may be the only way to get out of the friend zone? She goes to school out of state and I've only known her for 4 months, but the thing is, it seems like we talk very often. She is a big fan of texting and is usually the one who always texts me first, I take time and text her back, but I still text her back. I don't want to stuck as an "intellectual whore" I'm sure you have all heard. She won't talk on the phone with me, and when we hung out during her break it was fun, you know, coffee, laughs, smiles, good eye contact and even two hugs, even though the 1st one was a "half-hug". But she texted me later that night saying she was glad that we hung out and wanted me to go to visit her at her college. I don't know if I should go or not because I am afraid if I go, I will be viewed still as a "friend". I hate this.

2007-04-10 18:30:17 · 1 answers · asked by Wayne D 1

i asked this girl out to go see a movie and i havent got a answer back so i dont know what to do. any advice is helpful im pretty sure she likes me but i dont want to push her

2007-04-10 18:23:01 · 9 answers · asked by chevy_corvette_2006 2

My friend and I are planning on asking these two girls out on a date. See, we're in college but the college is about a block away so we each live at home. we're barely freshman. anyways. . . see, we dont have privacy. but we want some when we take these 2 girls out on a date.

So i'm asking where can we take these two girls? The only privacy I can think of is my car. My friend has his own car as well. But where should we drive to?

We live in Southern Cali. By LA.

Again, DATES. Need Privacy. If you catch my drift.

2007-04-10 18:21:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous