My Girlfriend of 2.5 years, has gone out on several dates with her ex-boyfriend
To the movies, a Stealey Dan Concert, and to listen to Jazz Music I have caught her
3 times from different dates She Says they are only platonic Friends now and loves only me please give opinion and advise.
2007-04-10 21:21:24 · 16 answers · asked by apreston60 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think they are just platonic friends...because its thrice times happened...again and again... i wouldnt go on dates except for the one im going steady with. she should have considered your feeling regarding these dating stuffs. if she knew how you feel before when you caught her, she should have done something about it. she should quit on dating her ex...coz you are hurt and jealous....is that way of showing her love for you? by dating someone????
you try to ask her to choose between you and her ex...youll get the answer there...
2007-04-10 21:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there unforturnately.. I deleted them and threw out the printed photos. Then called him and told him what I did and why. He told me he never got rid of them because he forgot they were there. He was ok that I did what I did but with your bf it seems as though he is stuck on the ex. Maybe you should re-eval your relationship 2 years is a long time to devote to someone that won't give you the love and respect back by deleting simple photos. He may not ever be ready to move to the next level with you if he is stuck on seeing his ex naked.
2016-05-17 08:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by bobby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex-boyfriends or ex-husbands don't belong as dating partners in a new relationship. After 2.5 years, you have a right to expect exclusivity. I think it's time for you to move on. Even if this girl stops "dating" her ex, she apparently has no feelings of loyalty to you and is looking around for options. You deserve better.
2007-04-10 21:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow you cannot even trust the person that you are dating! then what the hell are you doing in this relationship?with out trust a relationship does not stand but rather crumbles and falls. look,i go out with this guy whom i went out on 2 dates or something like that and we are the best of friends and my ex actually understood that we are just platonic and nothing more.my guyfriend and i went to Starbucks,movies,eat out,shopping in the mall as wel as him taking me to a baseball game.my now ex never got jealous because he knew that he could trust me.if you have been so long with your gf and know her so well then why do you have a reason to think that she is cheating by seeing her ex?many people stay friends with their ex's and that is good!you should trust her and that she is not doing anything stupid behind your back and those so called "dates" are not dates,but rather hanging out with someone!trust her and if you cannot do that then forget about this relationship
2007-04-10 21:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she "loves" only you, then you would be included in these "dates". She is hiding something from you. But you must already know this, as you say you "caught" her.
There are many beautiful women in the world. Give yourself credit, some respect and look in the mirror - you know what you should do.
2007-04-10 21:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by SandFam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is Your relationship strong enough to handle Her indiscretions and Your jealousy? What would happen if You went out with a "platonic" Ex?
2007-04-10 21:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hanging out together is not really cheating...if that is all that's happening. Just make sure that she is really cheating before you do anything stupid. FWIW, I think I would dig deeper, there MAY be something going on. Movies with an ex? that is a couples activity really...
2007-04-10 21:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the level of your commitment to each other? Are the two of you seriously commited ot not? Are you asking her to go out? maybe she's bored... friendly? i don't think so! If a girl says she loves you, then she has to be faithful to you... if she goes out on a date with the group, it's part of her social life but for her to be alone with an ex or another guy, it simply means one thing: she's not satisfied with you...
2007-04-10 21:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already caught her, is she really your girlfriend? I am just curious, because she seems like making fools of you, why don't you feel it? You might never know if she sleeps with her ex after their dates, stay away from this kind of girl, you are just wasting your time...
2007-04-10 21:29:23 · answer #9 · answered by emma l 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
would she think it ok if you did the same,,without telling her too? friends do not sneak around and they do not have to hide the friendship behind lies either,,maybe it would be a wise move for you to be accepting (for now) and go along with them,,you are her boyfriend after all and if they are friends there shouldnt be a problem in him getting to know the man in her life.
2007-04-10 21:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋