Why do some guys get mad @woman that says"no to cruises&personal trips,until marriage?If thats what i believe.

Question

There is this guy he likes me as a gf, but I am not quite sure if I like him in a bf/gf kinda of way. He seem to have got mad when he asked if later on would my parents be alright with me going on a cruise with him for a couple of days or whatever. I told him no, not unless I am married. My parents are old school and so am I. He then wanted to know, why I still stay at home. I told him I dont plan on leaving until I am married. Apparently, it did not go well with him. He was extremely disappointed, and said I need to experience life on my own. I personally feel like he wants me to change b/c he is not happy with it. I told him I will not change my belief for nobody and if he does not like it "move on". Then he said "I think I can compromise with that", but I am turned off besides the fact I dont quite see him as my bf. I dont believe in shacking. What do you think about this situation?

Answer 1

If he gets mad he does not respect your views...

You stick to your morals girl ! There should be more like you that go with what you believe rather than going with whatever someone else wants.

Answer 2

U should ask yourself whether you like that guy as a BF ???????

or u would like to be in serious relationship with him in coming time or in future ???????


& if your answer is NO....

then straight forward tell him that u like him..... but do not want to marry him, ..... SAY he is a really nice guy, u dont have any kind of problem with him.... But till now,..... u do not want to think abt any seroius relationship, whether with him or with anyone else......

I hope he will understand.....

Try to NOT Hurt his feelings

Answer 3

I think your right. Stick to your beliefs!

Answer 4

coz they always find it surprising to discover tht women r actually cleverer thn they think they r. to hide their surprise,they get angry