I met this guy in November and we really clicked. We both have very busy lives and although have been texting / emailing since then each time either one of us suggests meeting up the other one is busy. Mainly my fault but sometimes him too. I am less busy now and he texted me about a few days ago saying he was still single and was thinking of going speed dating but cancelled and did I go?
1) Was this him finding out if I was still single?
2) He is very shy (or maybe uninterested!) should I ask him out?
3) If I was to ask him out (by text) any suggestions - direct or subtle
4) Shall I just give up
I am not worried about rejection as you only live once, but if I am going togive this a go I would like to have the best chance of success.
Advice please?
2007-04-10 22:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him
2007-04-10 22:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it..like you said you only live once. I mean he did text you so text him back and ask him if he wants to get together and make sure nothing comes up to ruin your date. You will regret it if you don't do anything and find out he is seeing someone in the future when you guys could be together now.
2007-04-10 22:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM OUT!!
he is showing u that he's single (and nearly resorting to speed dating means hes obviously looking for lovee!!)
if u've been trying to meet up for a while, hes showing hes still interested, but wondering if ur single!
so number 1) YES.
2) YES
3) just say it directly i think he wants to do it but is too shy. say something like i no ive been busy recently etc etc but ive not got much on this weekend fancy going out..?
4) NOO. go for it girl!!!!!
good luck!!!x
2007-04-10 22:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by bella x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest that you two meet for lunch. Try to feel the situation out. Is he using busy as an excuse? Just take your time and move slowly. I wouldn't stop my normal routine for him yet!!
2007-04-10 22:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say go for it,especially as you said your not afraid of rejection.just ask him out whether you make it obvious or whether you make it out as just 2 friends going out, if he says no back off if not get your best glad rags on so he knows you made extra effort because your interested then hell have more confidence to show his feelings if he feels you feel the same
good luck and let me know
2007-04-10 22:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by mimi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just write him a nice friendly e-mail, asking him out. If he's 'too busy' this time, I'd take it as a sign that he's just not that into you, and move on.
2007-04-10 22:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by jet-set 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some time the man, needs more push from the woman side.
But you have to make sure that he is really single and love you, and you both click to each other.
good luck
2007-04-10 22:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by ooowen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he likes u....so go ahead and ask him out..that is if he doesn't ask u out first....u can text him and juz ask if he'll be free on a certain day and if he was then say that u might be free as well..and ask if u guys can meet up for a movie or drink or whatever...
2007-04-10 22:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by miyuki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, you both sound like you want to be together. Good luck and best wishes for the future.
2007-04-10 22:56:20 · answer #9 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him, then just go for it, like u said life is too short. get in there girl just out right ask him, he can only either say yes or no. good luck.
2007-04-10 23:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by chazalfuss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him if i were you, maybe just send a text saying 'Ru free any night this weekend to meet up for a drink/movie?'
if he is then great, if not say 'no prob, would like to another time if your interested..'
hope that helps!
2007-04-11 00:15:56 · answer #11 · answered by purplegal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋