ok he cheated, i dnt want him he wants me but what if the opther girl wants him i would die...why do i feel th

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ok he cheated on me, he hit me roughly 3 times in our 3 year realtionship..is that bad....he kicked me few times in one day cos he thought i went to see my ex [ didnt] and he slapped me twice for silly reasons .....hes also cheated and his behavious wasnt that great either.
but we had some really good times and i know alot of men cheat and u wont found someone who doesnt,,is this true
i feel like goin bak to him cos i mis him even though i know i can do better he does want meback but i dnt know i think all ment cheat so why dont i just stick to him....
you all answered the above i forgot to mention something else..the girl he cheated me was actually a nice girl and shes been telling me herself thatnhe still loves me and that we shud get back together but i also know that because i havent been talking to him hes been talking 2her and she instead of feeling hurt is just talking to him and even being nice to him.i feel jealous and i want him bak cos of her.id feel sik if they did,.

Answer 1

Thats a crock of SH@T, I don't cheat .
A Man who truely loves his woman will never cheats.. there is abosolutley "NO" reason to cheat on somebody .. "NONE"
Time to move on and find a Man and get rid of this player.

Answer 2

Look! Not all men is a cheater... Maybe majority does but u have to leave a room for the minority. 2ndly, u should never ever go back to that bf or urs. Why do u want to be treated like dirt? Have some pride and dignity in urself, would u? U deserve better. Know that love is blind but, it can kill u, if u really let ur heart rules ur mind. Go out and get to know more people out there and lead a healthy life like going for outdoor activities with ur friends. Hope the feelings of getting back to him will fade away slowly. It takes time but u have to go through it. Respect urself and give urself credibility of gaining happiness. Try.....

Answer 3

If he hit you once, he'll do it again... he cheated, he'll do it again... no, honey don't take him bakc... it doesn't matter what he wants... what u want is comfort, a good relationship, a man who respects u... NO, some men cheat, and some men respect the woman they're with... What makes u think that he didn't force her to talk to u or even hit her in order to convince u that he wants u... ??
Forget what she said... forget that he wants u... u want him!! why?? u want to get beat up again!! & maybe when u have children, he'll hit them.... can u imagine going through those bad times for years ahead!!

There are lots of men out there who'll appreciate u, love u, cherish u, & mostly respect u.... a man hits a woman because he's a coward who thinks violence is the key to get things done.. IT ISN'T... cut all connections with him, inform someone u know about this.. or police,... just in case he want to force u to get back with him...

For your own good, & to have a good future... LEAVE HIM

Answer 4

You need to get rid of this guy. Not all men cheat, just the dogs. What your feeling is normal, but this guy hit you and cheated on you. You can find a great guy who won't do either. Don't settle for the bottom of the barrel. As for the nice girl. If he is still talking to her he is probably still sleeping with her too. Just get away from the whole mess. Good luck. Just remember you are only as good as you let yourself be.

Answer 5

C'mon, do you really mean that question, "Is that bad?" Of course it's bad. Cheating is really up to you if you think you can trust him. But hitting you, even just pushing, is bad. You should NEVER let a man abuse you. It's all up to you, but I've been through an abusive relationship, men who hit women are P_ _sy! Period, and it will never end and those type of men don't change. I bet he either secretly or openly hates his mother. A man who doesn't love his mother will not treat women good. I hope you get out of that relationship before it's too late.

Answer 6

Do you really want to spend the rest of your life being disrespected? He is a jerk. He has hurt you, cheated on you and totally disrespected you. Does he need to kill you to make you see what a total worthless fool he is? Let her deal with being treated that way. You have already paid your dues. Move on, he does not deserve your love.

Start loving and respecting yourself. If you don't, you will continue to be with jerks like this one. Get some books on self-esteem if you need to. Just please don't make the same mistake twice.

I have been there. It took years to get out of that pattern. Now I am finally happy. You will be too!!

Answer 7

Women like you are what give others a bad name. You like being cheated on? You like being mistreated? Then call him back. Tell him how much you miss him slapping you around. When you end up with missing teeth or a broken nose or ribs or dead. You will have no one to blame but yourself.

Answer 8

well first of let me say that u dont deserve to be treated that way...u can do much better...second of all let me say i have one of these guys...or did...im leavin friday. i found a real man who doesnt believe in putting his hands on a woman and who gives me the love attention and dedication that i deserve. if i can find a great man out there, honey so can u...dont put up with his sh it any longer...u dont deserve it...no woman does...even if it was only once or a hundred times...why stick around when u can find someone to treat u like a queen. and i know its hard to leave..believe me..but u gotta think about ur future. dont put up with it! if he finds someone else..so be it..let them put up with it..it wont last long once they find out what kind of person he is. good luck and be smart..think about the big picture :D

Answer 9

Of course; she is telling you that he still loves you.Thats her way of trying to get rid of him.She is throwing him back to you since she found out that he is abusive.You would be a damn fool if you take this guy back knowing that he is going to hit you again&again.

Answer 10

hi!
he was the one who approached you so therefore he never thought that you would end up liking him and maybe he wanted this to be a play relationship. all fair in love and war. but not all love stories have a happy ending like fairytales.
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