I was left hanging upside down like a fool when my relationship ended. I had found out that my bf was not being honest with me after it ended. Do you think it would help me heal if I heard an apology and some kind of admittance?
2007-04-10 23:51:58 · 13 answers · asked by lucielu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well as long as you know the truth that is the most important thing. My boyfriend cheated severely on me ( caught him red handed) and up to this day he still has not admitted it. Don't be hung up over it. Perhaps it may bring you closure if he does or it may just bring you more pain....who knows. Anyway run and don not look back. Closure will eventually come to you when you get over him in a couple weeks or months and do not think about him anymore. When this happens you might even forgive him for his wrong doing. GOOD LUCK to you and I hope that you find happiness.
2007-04-11 00:02:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Closure is a great thing. It really does close the door on old things and opens a new one.
2007-04-10 23:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was an honest apology then it probably would. But it will probably just take time to get over him. You deserve better than that, so try to not dwell on it too much. But i know that is hard.
2007-04-10 23:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
closure is a must.....but even then it can be devastating if they do some thing so messed up and all they have to say is yes I'm guilty, I'm sorry , and good bye...no they need to pay for what they've done!!! lol ...i wish they really would too lol...but if they ask for forgiveness the best thing is to forgive and forget....and if he never asks for your forgiveness ,forgive him anyway...it's much more healthy for yourself :) well good luck friend
2007-04-11 00:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to hear anything from him? He has already lied to you. Do you really think that he would give you an honest apology? Move on, this jerk does not deserve you.
2007-04-10 23:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are having a hard time letting go-----perhaps a new romance would be just the thing.-----as for closure--slam the lid and be done with him-----he is dishonest and it is good you found out sooner than later.
2007-04-10 23:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some kind of closure would be helpful to you but you may never get it
2007-04-10 23:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 14:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by rosen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would help you need closure
2007-04-10 23:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by ambidextrous25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one can not forget such relationship.But it is always good to pass on such things to history and continue life/affair with new zeal,and never mix up past with present.
2007-04-10 23:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by pritam99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋