We've been a couple for over half a year; everything started off in a real love-rush, admittedly fast. Due to job situation I had to move to another country, but he soon decided to follow me. Now that he's taken the decesion and is facing the consequences, he suddenly fears he might not be able to give me what I need/want, he questions the truth of his feelings for me, he doubts or doesn't trust in himself.
However his actions towards me are always full of affection and care, he is considerate and thoughtful; from his eyes I can only read love. He also says he misses me when we are not together and he enjoys us being together.
Neither of us have ever experienced such a great love and understanding before.
Still, there are moments of uncertainty and then we both panic. I am confused. Have even proposed to leave him alone for a while, but he doesn't want that either (and neither do I!)
I am trying to keep calm about it, but it's hard. So, what do you think I should do?
2007-04-10 23:31:48 · 3 answers · asked by photomaniac169 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm sometimes i think that we want ready solutions for everything in life, keep patience, and just enjoy being together today, tell him that he is giving u all u wants, assure him that u can feel his love all the time, doubting ur feeling sometimes is also natural accept it, dont push urself for anything and tell him also the same thing, we all r humans, so its natural that doubts may come and go, but the way u r telling things i guess love will conquer all ur uncertainties, but dont push urself towards that, everything is destined to happen in time, let that appropriate time come,till then just enjoy being with each other, hope i helped
2007-04-10 23:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by ria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. It really hasn't been long enough for you two to make a committment. He will come around when he is ready. Just don't let him wait more than 5 years to do it unless he is going to school, or it will never happen.
2007-04-10 23:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's jitters.
he would feel better if he got a good job and made new friends.
2007-04-10 23:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋