my friend got busted for forging some document concerning his visa.
he is being held in the detention cell at the immigration office at this moment.
its likely that he'll be deported and head for his country soon.
he's got a girlfriend, who also is my good friend, in our neighbouring country, and he needs to layover there to get on the plane headed for his home (there's no direct flight from my country to his).
so, here's the deal.
when i told her the news about him getting arrested for forging documents, she was deeply shocked and felt betrayed cuz she trusted him enough to have long distance relationship.
when i heard from him, he said he wanted enter her country to see her when he makes stopover there on his way from deportation.
i'm not an immigration expert so i don't know if he could even enter her country, but if he could, his girlfriend is not sure if she should meet him. she's now seeing him as half bf half criminal.
should i still encourage her to meet him or not?
2007-04-10 22:45:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing for you to do is to stay out of it. Let her make her own mind up. Because if it fails or something goes negative she'll end up putting some blame on you. I wouldn't encourage a meeting. I would do and say nothing at all.
2007-04-10 22:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well in some respect she's right, he is a criminal he should not be forging documents. she should wonder what else he's been up to cos if he can forge documents he could be doing other things. If he wants to see his gf he shoud go through the proper channels. one question springs to mind, why did he forge his documents in the first place, if he's nothing to hide? She should not meet him.
2007-04-11 05:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by nc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. She obviously wants something better for herself. As a friend you should encourage her to find someone she can love and trust. She has to make up her mind, but that is how I would encourage her if she was my friend.
2007-04-11 05:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by lily_florance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she has already been betrayed by him. You don't want her to spend her life waiting for a liar. Try to help her move on. If he will lie, he has probably been cheating and lying about that too! (lying and Cheating generally go together) She has suffered enough already.
2007-04-11 05:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nar dont get her to go see him if he is forging documents he could do more than that
2007-04-11 05:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by otsy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋