Part 2 - as mentioned before - my best mate is a guy going out with a now friend of mine. To try and shorten this story - she set me up with a mate of hers - we got on ok on our date but he started getting a bit too clingy with constant texting and ringing. I asked him to back off but he wouldnt so I just started ignoring him. It now transpires that she was the one encouraging him to do this even though she knew I didnt like it. It has now come to light though - that she is telling this guy she has ended things with her bf - and is insinuating she would like to get with this guy. Me - this guy and her boyfriend are now aware of these games shes playing - so basically - she no longer talks to me - shes trying to get with this guy she set me up with - and shes still with her boyfriend...
Can anyone shed some light on what the hell or why she is doing this?? Im guessing shes psychotic - but would love to hear your opinions! sorry for this being so long and confusing!!
xx
2007-04-12 23:15:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy met her boyfriend last night to explain to him what had happened as she was also telling her boyfriend that it was this other guy was chasing her.
She told this guy that I was the one that split her and her boyfriend up and that she cant stand me.
Totally weird! sorry guys - Im even confused typing this - I can imagine what it reads like!!! lol!!
2007-04-12 23:16:52 · update #1
Can i just add - Im not seeing this guy again either!
2007-04-12 23:19:58 · update #2
She is probably bored. Some women try to make their lives more interesting by causing dissension. Men do this also, but I have see it more in women. I think you should take her out in the back field and give her the old one two. In other words punch her in the nose.
2007-04-13 22:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by Bud#21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, she is one messed up person. Sounds like a case of the green eyed monster to me, pure jealousy. She is jealous of you and insecure and wants all the attention from these boys to fall on her. The thing is in all cases like this, people always find out exactly what is going on and people like this girl wind up very lonely as a result of it.
If it was me I would be happy that I had got to know her true colours now before she did more damage and I would move on from this and everyone concerned and date a guy that had no involvement at all.
Good luck x
2007-04-13 06:23:47 · answer #2 · answered by Kerrybobs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand your sense of betrayal and my advice is STAY AWAY from her. do not get involved or be a victim of her plot. What is she trying to do? I guess she is trying to survey her market worth? haha well I dun not think it is right for me to judge your fren. afterall you termed her as a fren for some quality you like about her.
There are alot of reasons why she is doing this but its her choice, her life she is responsible for. Just make sure you are not disturbed by her emotional life. When the time ever comes for you and her to talk or reconcile then you can be concern and ask her about it or put it totally behind you gals.
2007-04-13 06:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Humble Learner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your friend (the boy) and get the h*ll out of there. She is a nutter. And so is the guy you went on a date with. You dont need folk like that in your life so cut loose and run
2007-04-13 06:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this girl is a sneaky ***** who is probably very jealous of you. It also seems that she likes the drama of everything that she has created. It would be wise to avoid her and the nutter boy that she set you up with, she will get what she deserves soon enough.
2007-04-13 07:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by helen b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that relationship, let her have the guy to your self if she can. Step out, there are so very many guy who will be willing to have you as a good friend. Pretend that it never happened and see how she goes.
2007-04-13 06:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Stella A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does sound like a weirdo to be honest.
But she also sounds a bit ill - like wanting attention - even bad attention seems good to her, maybe try and ask her why she is acting like this and you may find there is a deep reason.
I could be wrong she may just be a bi*ch
2007-04-13 06:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by newsboysno1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes a player......so you and this guy and her bf know about the games she is playing........are her and her bf still together if they are she sould end it now and find somone better........you are not talking to her thats good..........she doesnt seem to be a nice girl i would ignore her ....and her bf is better off with out her acting the way she is........hope i have helped do you and her have msn....if you need more advice you can ask me
2007-04-13 06:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get yourself outta there! you friend is a big boy!
Usual bull girls do won't want a guy friend to anything more until they see them with someone else...
Get her out of your life!!
If she has the potential to be that manipulative of a situation then what else is she capable of!
2007-04-13 06:42:27 · answer #9 · answered by Pinky 209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My considered opinion is that this girl is a psycho hose beast and must be avoided at all costs.
2007-04-13 06:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by Nexus6 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋