Singles & Dating - 12 April 2007

Ok so this guy asked me out and my friend said yes for me!!! Than i kind of dumped him and broke his heart but all I wanted to say was I never said yes and now all of his friends making me feel very bad what should I do????Please help!!!!

2007-04-12 08:33:28 · 6 answers · asked by Cutie!!! 2

After a huge misunderstanding he moved out...he told me the day before he didnt have feelings anymore...then i found condoms (not opened)...i thought he was cheating..he never did....he did ask a girl out on myspace though...they never met up...he was jealous of my guy friends...but he encouraged me to hang out with them...he criticized my appearance...either i wasnt sexy enough or wasnt innocent enough...back to the condoms...he turned around and said the condoms were for me and he wanted to try to fix our relationship...he said that when he saw me after i came back from a trip the feelings were not there...he wasnt home when i got back and when he finally got home he just gave me a hug and acted really weird...later someone called and i could have sworn he said darling and said i was calling you to watch the game tonight...i kicked him out bc of the lack of trust...we both cried that night, he called the next day and i didnt get it in time...he didnt answer when i tried him back...

2007-04-12 08:32:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

The reason I asked is because there is this man that I met a few weeks ago. He always made it a point to let me know that he is "not seeing anyone" so I would go out with him. We have been out about 3 times already. We have not had sex yet but we have kissed alot, he touches me on my *** and breasts alot(no I'm not complaining), complements me alot and he has even put my hand on his dic* when we are kissing. He is trying to get me to sleep with him but I'm not ready. So are we dating or seeing each other? I believe that he is going out with other women for sex. I'm a 35yo black woman and he is a 45yo white male, even though I think that doesn't make a difference.

2007-04-12 08:29:12 · 1 answers · asked by PEPSI 2

she doesnt understand how bad shes hurting me because she is never single when ever she breaks up wit some1 she gets another boifriend the next second and she is mad at me 4 bein mad at her friend 4 tellin her to dump me and now i relly have strong feelings 4 her and she doesnt care and dont tell me to go 4 some1 else also star this ? so i will get more answers thanx

2007-04-12 08:24:03 · 3 answers · asked by Richard G 1

Gellin like a fellon?

2007-04-12 08:23:39 · 9 answers · asked by Leigh 3

If he tells you that he is in love with you, you have been the only one he was "in love" with ever but we now live in different cities and he knows he is making a mistake and not doing anything about it but after everything clears up on my side of the street (my divorce becomes final) and his side of the street (he invited some girl he had only known a few weeks and met in AA who's parent kicked her out to live with him), that he sees us being together in the end... is he full of shite or what?? I told him is crazy if he thinks I would "give him some time" that I think he was just using me as a fall back when he is lonely... am I right???

2007-04-12 08:13:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 08:06:40 · 8 answers · asked by Toniqua F 1

prove that you are in love with someone. I totally disagree with the wholr thing i just wan to see or just read every one else opinion on this situatio. Also why do you agree or disagree.

2007-04-12 07:41:50 · 23 answers · asked by Ashley P 2

Now, if your a prude, uptight, sexually repressed person, then please move forward, stop reading and go away, this will offend you and your tiny closed minded head will explode

You've been warned

How do you go about having a threesome my husband and I have always wanted to try, but don't know where to start, I want to try with a woman, have always been curious, suggestions?

2007-04-12 07:35:29 · 2 answers · asked by Marsha R 1

i keep letting my ex in my life and he keeps upsetting me over and over. i suffer with high blood pressure and its not good. we broke up like 20 times. over a 3 yr. period and i decided to just be friends. so he kept doing the same things what caused us to break up. it really annoys me very much. its like im living the past daily. he has lied and broke promises and did many things behind my back. he is even trying to get under my skin as friends. he is very manipulative and tries to convince me that he is going to do better even as a friend. then he'll turn right around and say he isnt doing anything to me. i finally see that i will have to burn a bridge with him completely if i want to have peace in my life. but the anger that i have towards myself is grand. im upset at myself for letting this guy treat me like this for yrs and i regret having wasted my time extremely. ive cried and been upset for yrs and now its in my system and its causing me to have bad flashbacks. what do i do?

2007-04-12 07:28:27 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4

What is considered ladylike when making out with a guy?

How do you know if you are being ladylike or not when making out with a guy?

2007-04-12 07:21:22 · 6 answers · asked by wildncrazysurvivor 1

i am a 19 year old girl and i find myslef waking up everyday wondering whats wrong with me. why cant i find a decent guy and why doesnt anyone want me. what is so terrible about me. i think it is the way i look. i am no supermodel. i am 5'7 and i m like 220-225. i have brown hair and highlights and hazel eyes. why cant i be happy and find someone to love me for what i have instead of what i look like. i have feelings to and idk why i am always getting passed over for my friends. am i that horrible and not pretty. i grew up with people telling me that i am not pretty and no one will want me and i am starting to bealive that. idk understand why me? why do i have to feel this way and feel unattractive and unloved. will anyone ever want me?

2007-04-12 07:19:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 07:18:27 · 9 answers · asked by basem 1

I have known people who tell me they had found their soulmate, them relationship goes to pot, they met a new someone, then all the sudden that is their soulmate?

How many soulmates can one person have?

2007-04-12 07:13:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-12 06:59:17 · 11 answers · asked by Florida-Fan1 2

2007-04-12 06:57:29 · 32 answers · asked by Lola L 2

Well, me in my infinate wisdom decided it would be a great idea to fall in love with one of my guy friends. I've felt this way about him for two years, however, he's dating one of my newer friends(known her three months) . I want to hate her, but I can't. Help!

2007-04-12 06:55:33 · 10 answers · asked by Stephanie 1

when a man wants to have sex with a woman really bad, does the desire some from her not putting out so easily and you being extrmemely attartced to her, or could you have feelings for her and that causes you to want her physically? I hada guy hold me one night till i slept,he made no moves the whole night and he and i are so attracted to eachother since. He told me i was killing him. I wont put out until I know he will stick around and it wont be just for the sex.Could he have gained any feelings from that night, and could that add to him wanting more?

2007-04-12 06:54:55 · 4 answers · asked by kelly k 1

First i would like to say thanks for taking the time out to answer this one for me.
I am 24yrs old,Been single from last 3 yrs just because i didnt find sum1 who i really liked.Finally i met someone who i happen to like very much.He is a cop 30yrs old.He gave me his number,he has my number.Doesnt really call me unless i call him.
I asked him out on this coming weekend and he said Yes he will like to hangout.
He was the one who gave me his cell i didnt ask for it to begin with.So should i carry it on or just back off..because seems like he is not all that intrested.He have a very dull personailty but he is handsome.What you say?

2007-04-12 06:32:28 · 47 answers · asked by rema s 1

i don't know! just dropped to the floor after he came, got back up after about 10 minutes of showering him with water, said ''i can't do this'' and left. the thing is, we had already done it. whats up with that? i can't figure it our. he was'nt drunk or anything....

2007-04-12 06:28:43 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering if anyone out there in Yahoo land has ever left someone or been left because the other person's ex was a terrible person, or your ex was a terrible person. Even tho the ex is supposedly in a happy marriage, she has to have her NOSE into every detail of your life!

Im curious because SO MANY ex's cause problems, I want to know if them causing problems really works to end the new relationship!
Thanks

2007-04-12 06:26:47 · 17 answers · asked by Angel Eve 6

From a philosophical sense, I know everyone fantacizes and maturbates. But, if you're in a serious relationship, doesn't maturbation tread very close to cheating? In my case, I know she does (and I do, too. I'm no saint), and it's fine in the sense that it's just fantasy, but because we are so open with each other, shouldn't we be content to wait until we can do those things with each other? I don't know if this is just a pride thing for me or if I am making a valid point. That is specifically what I am wondering. What do you think?

2007-04-12 06:14:33 · 30 answers · asked by randyken 6

over a year ago he held me till i slept, he was so sweet. I was still upset about cathcing my x of a few years cheating(they r mutual friends) He told me a couple months later that i was'killing him'. 9 month later i called him to tell him how i still think about him,he said it was mutual and he had no idea i felt that way but he started seeing someone.But he thinks im the cutest girl alive,although he is with someone else. It has been a little over a month since and no sign from him,so i am letting it go,i dont want to get in the middle of his new relationship and be 'the other girl'. Although i still think about him,will it ever fade? does he ever think of me?

2007-04-12 06:12:28 · 3 answers · asked by kelly k 1

2007-04-12 06:09:22 · 14 answers · asked by Lidge 2

my bf of 3 months just broke up with me about a month ago...he just told me he felt like we were better friends...he called about a week after we broke up after i called him and left a voicemail....we were very close friends before we dated...and now we dont even talk...i hate being able to not just go up and talk with him when i want....my best friend talks to him sometimes...and she asked him if he was just never going to talk to me again...and he said no i just dont know when, but i will eventually... what does this mean??? i know from being a girl that they are always emotionally attached to their ex4 a while...and usually want to talk soon....but guys r different....why does it take them forever to feel comfortable around their ex? how long do u think it will take him to talk to me?? should i call or email just saying hi and see how he is...or should i wait until he talks to me???? thank you 4 all your help

2007-04-12 06:06:36 · 15 answers · asked by Lo 1

see we already have done things together but he wants to hangout more and no me a lil bit mroe before we date.. one night one the computer he told this guy to stop flirting with me stop talking to me and if we hangout not to touch me.... and he told this guy that we are going to date... see we act like were dating but were not official yet... im getting sick of like waiting for when we can hang out hes in florida right now and when he gets bak were going to the movies.. so hopefully after the movies we can officiallly date

2007-04-12 06:06:17 · 25 answers · asked by softball_gurll13 2

over a year ago he held me till i slept because i was still bitter about cathcing my x cheating(they r mutual friends)he was so sweet that night,although he was nervous about breaking the'guy code'.I saw him a couple months after and he told me i was'killing him'.I called him 9 months later and told him I still think about him,he said it was mutual and he had no idea but he started seeing someone,so i let it go.Then i ran into him a couple weeks later and we were like magnets the whole day,and at night(when we had been drinking all day,it was a holiday party,)so we were both pretty drunk and we ended up kissing uncontrollably until i remmebered he has a girlfriend and told him we had to stop,he understood.Since he is friends w/my x and other friends of mine,i heard through them that he does not remember us kissing,and that has got to be a lie,is he saving his a$$, or did he really not remember?

2007-04-12 06:05:22 · 6 answers · asked by kelly k 1

To summarise...

I got dumped.
Not happy about it at all
I was replaced within a week (though allegedly by accident)
I don't have the luxury of avoiding or asking for space due to my job and some other stuff.

Aaah!

Being civilised on the outside is easy, the stuff on the inside isn't.

2007-04-12 06:05:09 · 21 answers · asked by Captain K 2

We broke up last year for about 6 months & he of course found someone else quickly. He was only with her for 2 months but she got pregnant. He wasn't sure it was his & honestly thought it wasn't but got a DNA test done to make sure. She even let him know there was a slim chance that he wasn't. He just got the results 2 days ago. When we got back together, he was completely honest with me about the possibility that it was his; he never tried to hide it from me. I was just being naive believing that it wasn't his. They've worked out a schedule for both to have the baby at different times. I, however, am not sure if I should stay in this relationship. I don't want the child as a constant reminder (though I do not blame the child) but I also don't want to lose my bf either. I don't know if I can handle all of this & I don't know what I should do. He wants me to stay but says he would understand if I left & wouldn't blame me for it. What should I do????? I'm so confused...

2007-04-12 05:56:47 · 22 answers · asked by Me 1

Is it sluty to have dated no sex no nothing just going out on dates with 21 guys and you are 14 years old in the 8th grade and you started dating in 6th grade and now you are in 8th grade.

2007-04-12 05:56:44 · 3 answers · asked by softballchick33 1