Singles & Dating - 16 April 2007

Hi so I've been wondering this for a while and since Yahoo! answers came out I thougt hey now I can ask so....

I'm 21 and I'm HIV+and have been for 3 years. Completely healthy and stable. I work full-time great guy blah blah blah so on and so forth. I've been with both men and women. But as I'm becoming a bit older I realize I only want to be with women and I want the whole picket fenc dog yard and all that fun stuff one day. I was wondering if I would ever find a woman who isn't halfway around the world who would accept my status. I know I'll probably get a lot of responses saying it's all about love but... My question is I guess this is for the ladies... If you went out on a date and found out the guy you were dating had HIV what would you do? How would you like to find out? Would you date a REALLY GOOD GUY that just happened to have HIV? Or am I totally screwed?

2007-04-16 23:52:28 · 12 answers · asked by just_wondering 2

My sister told me that many of her female coworkers are single and not looking. Why? Don't women want to be with a man?

2007-04-16 23:35:04 · 17 answers · asked by Phillip 4

k for you regulars here - you will know that my best mate is a guy whose girlfriend has been trying it on with another guy that I know - when what she had been doing came out in the open - her bf met up with this guy who showed him text messages with her saying she wanted to be with him etc. During this time she slated me to the other guy - today her bf (my best mate) has told her that he knows what she was doing behind his back and what a surprise - she has tried to blame for it saying she was only talking to him to try and set me up with him and that Im a b!tch that never wanted her going out with my best mate and was trying to break us up from day one. This is total crap as me and her had become friends with me obviously not realising what she was saying behind my back.
My question is this - now that her and the bf have split up - I feel she will hold me as responsible when telling people why they broke up - what is my best way to deal with this?

2007-04-16 23:30:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

New at a restraunt and often called peers to trade shifts- which led to one host to call daily and consistently to gab for hours. by the time he made his desire for a ralationship clear, we had gotten to know eachother by phone; though not to my satisfaction- I doubted the sincerity of a 19 y.o. who threw parties on weekdays & whom i could hardly distinguish the level of alcohol content @ a given moment. Honestly i by no means tried to lead him on, though it may seem so as i am sometimes naive and friendly. In days follwing his rejection, he began dating a mutual friend- in a relationship of convience (for months). Though even when he's w/ her, shows signs of his attraction to me. However, he is so verbally hostile/angry/aggressive towards when i have to work/talk with him. My question is, is it his damaged ego that makes him act that way, is he still smitten w/ me or does he hate me & find me unbearable? & how can i rise above & communicate effectively & professionally w/ him at work?

2007-04-16 23:01:17 · 3 answers · asked by Natalia 1

She is not really fat i just try to get her to lose some pounds. She is 5.4-5.5 126pounds. I told her i wanted her to be around 115. I am working on my weight and she blows me off when i ask her if she wants to work out.

2007-04-16 22:55:49 · 42 answers · asked by alrazod 1

In other words, is it an appropriate thing to do if you thing its right to propose to your girlfriend in highschool but you both know that you'll get married when your like 20-25 years old? Not saying to avoid doing it later but say you have the money now for an expensive ring and you feel you are at the peak of your relationship, is it acceptable?

2007-04-16 22:52:48 · 13 answers · asked by ProFessa_Connartyst 2

2007-04-16 22:52:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend asked me to wear her tights (pantyhose). To be honest I enjoyed it and found them something of a turn on. However, I am not sure how I should respond if she asks me again, I am straight and I don't know if I want to make a habit out of it.

2007-04-16 22:50:48 · 28 answers · asked by Carlos Gomez 2

2007-04-16 22:46:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've really been missing my ex-fiance for the last couple of weeks. We havent talked since around January (I stopped talking to her) and I've been wondering if it's a bad idea to send her an email telling her that I miss her.

2007-04-16 22:44:37 · 12 answers · asked by Jesse B 1

he have no clue about his gf is cheating on him.His gf is my friend.But she's a *****.She talk to me like she's ok with me.But it's the other way around.
we're not in the same school.but we'll be seeing each other a lot this year for the same activity each year...i think my apearrences is great and his cute either...how to win his heart???help me....

2007-04-16 22:37:54 · 11 answers · asked by radleef J 1

i have been seeing a girl on and off for 2 years, she has moved to england twice to to live with me but simply cant settle here, she has a good job in holland and a great life, i have the same here, a great job and a very charmed life!
i cant live with without her and she feels the same.
now she wants me to move there, she will take of everything and i realy want to move there, i dont speak the language and i not sure what i will do as a job, should i move and give everything up? or should i stay and end it?

2007-04-16 22:33:06 · 14 answers · asked by damien t 1

I have a crush on a guy. We talk on msn and we stay in contact by messages. My friends told me that he also has a crush on me because we met up and started french kising. But we've only met once. I think he is shy to tell me that he likes me. Should I tell him that I like him, or what???

2007-04-16 22:31:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

We talk to eachother constantly on msn and facebook. BUt physically we barely talk. Although on my b-day there were signs like she sat beside me, and gave me pics of us on her cell, i don't know whether it is a frdly jesture or not. although we don't talk much when we keep it short. When there are flirting chances like spare-time, she spends it with other ppl, pretty much everyone except me. BUt she someones does like touch me like feels my abs, touches my arms and stuff. But dude this is confusing, does she like me? if so what should i do next?

2007-04-16 22:25:23 · 2 answers · asked by treborplus 1

wats the scientific reasons behind this

2007-04-16 22:24:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have decided I want to try my best to try and get my ex back. She ended things 3 mths ago as "her feelings had changed". They changed pretty quickly, 3 wks before she was telling me she loved me, she said we should move in etc

I was gutted when things ended. I decided to give her space for a while. She got back into contact with me. She met and she was clearly interested and acting as if she still had feelings for me. The next time I met she was the opposite.

So I decided to write to her and say how I felt. We had a long chat. She said in reply I "was a wonderful person and whoever I ended up with would be as lucky to meet me as she was". I found that weird. She later said that she didn't say that.

I decided that I was getting nowhere talking to her about us so I decided on no contact.

After a mth maybe I will re-contact her. What should I do to try and get her back? I am thinking I don't mention the relationship but just work on getting to know each other again? Tips?

2007-04-16 22:19:08 · 12 answers · asked by hantsguy1977 1

2007-04-16 22:08:25 · 11 answers · asked by sybylla h 1

im 15, a 19 year old guy asked me if we could kick it. i said yes. and asked him when we were going to. now he keeps asking me about it. hes always asking me when we're gonna hang out. i dont mind and im still gonna hang out w/ him. but what do you think he really wants out of this??

2007-04-16 22:06:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this girl at my school who has every single guy wanting to know more about her, date her, and sleep with her.

She's only 15 though she knows how to keep people wandering.

She rejected the most popular guy in school,
& Turned down the offer to be in the popular group at school.

She would have to be the hottest chick in school, which is most likely why all the guys have a bet going on who can get with her first.

All I know about her is before she came to our school she was hanging out with two guys bumming around and she got in trouble with the law for CAR SURFING with her two friends.

She's apparently never done drugs or doesn't drink which is good.

But she can be the biggest smart **** without even saying anything, she just has this mischevious look about her like she knows something everyone else doesn't.


How do i get to know her better? Please help I really like her [Along with everyone else]

2007-04-16 22:02:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am best friends with my ex husband and for a while we even lived together as best friends we have a child together and i think it is easier for her to see us getting along. the problem is it is causing me some problems when it comes to dating. there is a guy i like and he likes me to i will see him on wed (i already posted about him) and he thinks that me and my ex are more then friends even though both my ex and i have told him differently and i normally hang out with my ex at the bars we both like the same places and it is easier to be there with the ex because he doesn't drink and i ahve a sober ride home at the end of the nite. but lately i have been thinking of telling the ex to stop hanging out at that bar where my crush works so that i have a chance to really be with my crush. is that wrong ?

2007-04-16 21:55:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend is not aware that I like this girl. We all get on well together, but if I were to make a move on this girl it may upset my friend, which I do not want to do. Any ideas please?

2007-04-16 21:54:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married 2years ago and my husband and i had some issues,, n we still do. n one day i decided to get online n chat with other guys. then i met this guy we became good friends n now that guy wants to meet me....even though he knows that i m married. I m so confused? plz advice me,,,,

2007-04-16 21:54:19 · 20 answers · asked by moshak 1

Here's the deal! My boyfriend is 174cm tall because he is a goalkeeper and I'm only 163cm tall.
I don' know if this can be a problem. Not only this, but I don't have a perfect body, but I'm a good person. I think because of the height and of the size of my body he will doubt me for someone else, although he says that he loves me. Help me.

2007-04-16 21:51:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you sometimes put what you think they want to hear to try and get a best answer or tell the blunt honest truth.

2007-04-16 21:50:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-16 21:45:08 · 7 answers · asked by 2kool4u 5

about my bf

2007-04-16 21:42:28 · 5 answers · asked by Danya s 1

i was talking to a guy friend of mine who is really a great guy but when he drinks he picks up females and you know what he does or if you think about it you will. somehow we got on the subject of sex and i said that i won't sleep with a guy who is drunk because i would want the guy to remember what happen and he said trust me any guy who sleeps with u would remember it. is he being a friend or does he want more then friendship

2007-04-16 21:41:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've had sex with my bf 3 times now, and I'm still not sure what to do. It never lasts long, only until he cums. And he never lets me know what he likes, or asks what I like. So my question is, is the girl supposed to do anything during sex, or just lay there while he thrusts?

2007-04-16 21:40:32 · 18 answers · asked by yahoo member 2

2007-04-16 21:40:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my ex broke up three months ago, however i did not know why it happened (he dumped me, giving me no reason). Now I have found out the real reason why from other sources, which was basicly a misunderstanding. I tried to contact him by emails (he works at a mine site) and have been telling him my side of the story and how i truely feel about this, he did reply to some but he has not replied to my last email and that was three weeks ago. It was an open email, and asked if we could work things out but still has not replied yet. Does this mean he's avoiding me or is he thinking about it? All of my friends are telling me that its better off moving on, but i love him so much. Is it worth fighting for? I know whats done is done but I am certain that its not over and so easily, we made mistakes but we can learn from them and make the relationship stronger right? Or am I just losing it? Should I email him again or give him more time?

2007-04-16 21:39:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous