Me and my ex broke up three months ago, however i did not know why it happened (he dumped me, giving me no reason). Now I have found out the real reason why from other sources, which was basicly a misunderstanding. I tried to contact him by emails (he works at a mine site) and have been telling him my side of the story and how i truely feel about this, he did reply to some but he has not replied to my last email and that was three weeks ago. It was an open email, and asked if we could work things out but still has not replied yet. Does this mean he's avoiding me or is he thinking about it? All of my friends are telling me that its better off moving on, but i love him so much. Is it worth fighting for? I know whats done is done but I am certain that its not over and so easily, we made mistakes but we can learn from them and make the relationship stronger right? Or am I just losing it? Should I email him again or give him more time?
2007-04-16 21:39:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that he's just thinking about it. well, it does really take some times to consider getting back to a past relationship.
if he doesn't wanna get back with you, he would have replied you and made things clearly. If he hasn't replied you, very likely he's still considering.
dont send him another email right now. it will look like you're pushing him. just give him some more time before you send another email, like 1-2 weeks or so.
2007-04-16 21:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to follow your heart. this is like a double standard question here...i could say yes give him more time and let him think about what he wants to do next but i am also a firm believer in if you love him FIGHT for him and dont give up...so my suggestion to you is do what your heart is telling you to do. You can also do what your friends are telling you to do and thats go on and when he is ready to talk and work things out an dif you still want to be with him then go for it. Noone can tell you what to do because we arent your heart only you can decide. Good Luck its a hard decision but you can make it through no matter what the outcome
2007-04-17 04:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by dede 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the ball in his court. Email him again, let him know how you feel, tell him that you'll give him a definite amount of time, and then let him know that you're both free birds if he doesn't want to come back. If it works, great. If not, you'll have a good cry, but then you'll get over it. You'll see.
2007-04-17 04:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by Michigan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has gone three weeks without any communication, chances are he is already over it. I would just starting looking elsewhere and try to think of ways to cheer yourself up..
2007-04-17 04:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by Chris W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart but think it over...i think you can still ask for him back and it will really help if you talk with him personally. if you feel that he's been avoiding you already, let him go. you'll see, sooner or later he might then know your worth and you might not know that it is he that will sk you to get back to him. i really understand what you're feeling and i know it ******* hurts...:(
2007-04-17 04:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by pRiNcEss_c",) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you posting the same question more than once? Just get over it and move on with your life.
2007-04-17 04:42:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it more time. It'll work out.
2007-04-17 04:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by Angelacia baybeeeeee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother with him then...move on....You'll be fine
2007-04-17 04:42:15 · answer #8 · answered by M J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋