Singles & Dating - 19 April 2007

I am a 23 year old girl and I am getting married next year, i love my fiance to bits and cant wait to be married to him. I have been with him for 6 years and we have a healthy sex life/good fun and we are best friends, but....i recently went out with my pals from work and for some drunken reason i gave a guy my phone number! He has been texting me and knows i am in a relationship but turns out he's a really nice guy and a good laugh so we have agreed to be friends. I have met him for a drink on 2 occasions since and both times we have ended up kissing. I like the attention and he is really sweet but i know i wouldn't have a relationship with this kind of guy long term.

I think maybe i am freaking out about getting married so young and just need one last little fling before I tie the knot - or am I being a total cow by doing this behind by fiance's back????

2007-04-19 23:55:41 · 67 answers · asked by Sophia 2

2007-04-19 23:54:09 · 1 answers · asked by gasparin 3

My boyf of 3 yrs refuses point blank to give me a peck on the cheek or mouth let alone give me a cuddle if i visit him at work. He says its very unproffessional and doesnt think its right especially in front of his colleagues. He is a Manager & works for a big store.

I have argued this on numerous occasions saying its fine to greet your partner without having tongues going down throats, just a peck is a nice greeting but he still wont do it.

All he does is say hello, wont even touch me.

His colleagues all know of me & know we are an item. He has showed me off as his girl many times as if im a trophy or something, so he is definitely NOT ashamed of me!

However ive noticed he greets his work colleagues with a peck on the cheek?!!

We are a great couple and very much in love.

Is there any method to this madness? Is he right? He says i should just get used to it. Im having trouble trying to understand his mind, and tend to feel like im in a loveless relationship!

Help

2007-04-19 23:54:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi..

This is a wee question for the Boys.. although ladies feel free to help me out.. you might have a clearer idea of whats going wrong than me and my fellow buddies...

Im 22.. attractive (well, we know when we are right : P)Fun.. up for anything..have loadsa intrests and ambitions and great friends! god..all that sounds pig headed but believe me.. its honest!
Been in a handful of relationships that ment anythin in the past.. but im having a bit of bother these days...

I was with this guy.. lets call him Neil.. for 6 months on and of till February.. and now i feel id really like to start something meaningful again with someone..
But the kinda guys i seem to attract are totally non comittal, way too young..(most my age) and clueless on how to jus generally be with a girl!

Im probely looking in the wrong places as the majority of times i meet these guy when im hammerd on a weekend.. but im a bit of a party girl.. Im trying to calm that down a lil now.

Thanks guys
xxx

2007-04-19 23:52:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-19 23:51:42 · 11 answers · asked by Violet K 1

I've met this guy, unattached, caring, educated and gentle...After knowing each other for quite some time, i was surprise one day when he said that he missed me and liked me very much... People say his a good guy and not the player type... In the end, i became attracted to him too... Now, i'm just wondering why isn't he asking me out.... Yes, he's very busy but too busy to spend time with you? Is this guy being honest with his remark or just fooling around? i'm confused...

2007-04-19 23:47:03 · 10 answers · asked by SushiGurl 3

yeasterday i found out that i was pregnant and i told my bf today and he broke up with me we have been dating for 2 years do you think he just needs to handle things

2007-04-19 23:44:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-19 23:41:30 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

John* and I have been on and off for a while now. The first time we broke up was maybe 6 months ago. A fortnight or so after we broke up, we started getting close again. He would always say Hi, call my name and tap me on my shoulder and smile his beautiful smile. I couldnt help falling back in love with him.
After a month of this, he started to ignore me, and whenever I would look at him and ask a question, he would look away and give me extremely short answers, like he didnt want to talk to me. Then, next month, he would be nice and sweet and flirty again. The same month, he asked me out, and I accepted. During the time we were going out, he started being mean again. After one week, we were over..again. Then after 2 weeks or so, he started to text me, to instant message me thing like "ur so cute" etc etc. He would help me with my homework, and phone me at night.
A week after being nice to me. He started to ignore me agn. He would hug girls and flirt with them in front of me. Help!

2007-04-19 23:38:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

EXPERIENCES AND KNOWLEDGE AM i asking too much to just say thank u YAHOO?.

2007-04-19 23:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i recently split from my boyfriend and posted a question on how to deal with a self esteem issue, in which i said that my ex was controlling,yes he had those tendencies but i think it came across as though i was not able to even breath, i think i was angry at the situation and had just focused on that to help me deal with the split,
I was with him for 3 yrs and he brought many good things in to my life, it was a regular relationship with up's and down's, and our downs became too much for me and effected my self esteem, so i apologise to anyone who answered me thinking i was an abused woman! and to him if he ever sees this x

2007-04-19 23:34:13 · 12 answers · asked by maid marion 2

her husband also complains the same thing. poor fellow.

2007-04-19 23:31:32 · 24 answers · asked by comrade 4

Am with this girl that so wonderful and I feel great when am with her.I know I fallen inlove with her but shes worry about my family that does not like her at all .she says if your family does not like me whats the point in been together? I tried to make her understand that shes gonna be with me not them and that they will have to accept her regardless of how they feel about her due to the fact that this is the woman that I want to be with .
Shes a very joyful lady,very sociable,cheerful and friendly and may be what my family does not like is that shes 25 and enjoys to go out and have fun wich I have no problem what so ever about it. I feel that there is nothing I can say to her except that i will be behind her 100% regardless what my family says and that i will love her forever and ever.what do you all think i should do?...

2007-04-19 23:30:16 · 8 answers · asked by s374rc 2

so i work with this girl. i really liked her cople of months ago. seemed like she was intrested in me as well. so i asked her out. but it didn't work, second tme she said she was bussy. she only started talking about "work realated" things.
so i backed off. juz try to be frnds with her and a good co-worker. and i try to forget that she turned my offer down. i was cool. on her b-day last month. i drew a flower on a paper, n wrote "HB-day" and since then, i noticed, she been trying to be sweet with me, nice, and been showing some real intrest in me..

i would still go out with her. so i wanna know how can i ask her out AGAIN? cuz i got turned down twice before. she's bein ratehr obvious about liking me but still i'm scared.

how should i ask her out now? What do i say?

2007-04-19 23:29:38 · 9 answers · asked by S. 1

a year younger than a girl...could they still go out with each other? (date)

2007-04-19 23:27:37 · 16 answers · asked by Taylor 2

The person that we know we can't have, more then anyone we can have?

2007-04-19 23:18:04 · 21 answers · asked by Kristy 4

A girl 11 years my junior is interested in me. I'm early 30's. I've already made it clear I'm not interested, but everytime I talk to her makes her think that I somehow am. We are a part of an entertainment group so I can't avoid her. I don't want to cause a scene as she tends to pout. I also don't want to be nasty. She sometimes acts as if she owns me, as when I first joined we were coupled up for a few things. Last week she got all stroppy when she thought I complimented another lady, when I didn't, so her imagination is ticking as well. I need a way to do this where we can still communicate in a civil way. Everything I've tried just keeps her coming for more, even when I'm stern, makes her more into me. It's gotta stop but minus the drama, so I need a female perspective. How do I get her to leave me alone, and without lying, like saying I have a girlfriend?

2007-04-19 23:17:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girl friend has just decided to leave me beause I couldn't convert to Muslim. I am a christian and we have been together for seven years. She said she has waited for me this long hoping I would convert to Muslim. Now I am feeling very lone and so much depressed. I have not had any girl friend before. she was my first and I always wished she would be my last but it didn't work that way.
Would you please confront me with your words........?

2007-04-19 23:14:58 · 16 answers · asked by Sam 3

My lover of five years has just asked me to be his girlfriend, finally, after some hardships we went through. We were together last year, but some **** happened, and we ended up lying to each other a lot, and we lost each others trust. He has finally decided that he can work things out with me, but he is still hurt from the things I did to him. I want to show him that he can trust me, that I am not the type of girl I used to be. I want him to see that I have changed for the better for him. What is the best way to go about doing this, to make him see that he can trust me again, and that it is okay for him to truly love me again? What would also be some good ideas to do with him, to spice things up? We have been together for five years, exclusively, and we have done pratically everything there is to do in san antonio. Any good date ideas too?

2007-04-19 23:14:36 · 5 answers · asked by Francesca O 1

Since breaking up with my Ex, I'm not sure I want to start dating again but want a companion, how do I go about a relationship like this?

2007-04-19 23:01:06 · 5 answers · asked by Ed S 2

I develop a crush over someone I meet online, but never over anyone in real life. of course I keep my mouth shut becasue I feel like a real idiot.
If I can manage to get over the person, then like two weeks later I'm either falling for them again, or Someone else if I can last a few months.) plus It really screws with my head, becasue I can't never seem to stop thinking about whoever it is at the time.

-It's nothing to do with looks, becasue they never really bothered me. everyone I've met socially I find to be an asshole in some way.(-plus- I've never even seen their picture and don't really need to.)
-Don't tell me to go get laid, because I really don't feel the need to be aimlessly f*cking someone I know I don't actually like. It's never bothered me before.

So... Throw me some opinions, guys.
I don't even know these people and they're barely even considered online-friends.

2007-04-19 22:56:01 · 6 answers · asked by phyrdraka 1

2007-04-19 22:35:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me, watching the moon rise over the ocean(in good company)
on a big sandy beach, lieing in the dunes at 3.30 in the morning.

2007-04-19 22:25:43 · 15 answers · asked by Gentleman 2

So many people listen to other people and most of the time there just giving the wrong advice because they have no one or they been through a bad experience themselfs

2007-04-19 22:11:52 · 16 answers · asked by Chocolatemac 1

Question...

2007-04-19 22:08:52 · 15 answers · asked by Little Mac 4

she is 36 and iam 21 years old i meet her in yahoo chatting she used to come online daily for mee and chat for three hours daily and she says that she loves mee more then anything she also told that she will come to india and now i feel hurted coz she left mee i cant even write my exams when i think of her iam crying for her daily if i send her message she is replying that ur your young to mee but when i ask her that do u love mee then she dont answer anything she loved mee i know that i cant stop thinking of her she used to call mee daily on my mobile and she used to talk now if i call her she is not lifting her call and last day she told mee that she loves a guy by name gin billy he is frm uk london any one help mee plsss i cant live like dis iam addicted to drinking wine and smoking too iam drinking wine just to forget her i cant forget her did she love mee ? or she just acted as she love mee ? hay i love her truely i decided if she dont come back i will die for her i love her

2007-04-19 22:03:38 · 13 answers · asked by john 1

I really wanted this feeling to fede... i don't know how and when.. its been a year seens we broke-up but still the pain is fresh when-ever i see HIm... He doesn't have any Fiancee right now, and i don't have BF also.. I have many admirers but no one of them can replaced my EX inside my heart... what shud i do?

2007-04-19 21:54:11 · 14 answers · asked by Chinese Cutie 2

could it be he's falling in love already?

2007-04-19 21:52:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

John* and I have been on and off for a while now. The first time we broke up was maybe 6 months ago. A fortnight or so after we broke up, we started getting close again. He would always say Hi, call my name and tap me on my shoulder and smile his beautiful smile. I couldnt help falling back in love with him.
After a month of this, he started to ignore me, and whenever I would look at him and ask a question, he would look away and give me extremely short answers, like he didnt want to talk to me. Then, next month, he would be nice and sweet and flirty again. The same month, he asked me out, and I accepted. During the time we were going out, he started being mean again. After one week, we were over..again. Then after 2 weeks or so, he started to text me, to instant message me thing like "ur so cute" etc etc. He would help me with my homework, and phone me at night.
A week after being nice to me. He started to ignore me agn. He would hug girls and flirt with them in front of me. Help!

2007-04-19 21:50:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had been dating my Ex for a year and half, and she decides to break up with me out of no where on Mypace no less. Were both 20 and she acts like a middle schooler and does it on MYSapce. I can't sleep thinking about her. I'm hurt but yet angry. Whats the best way to get over her but yet get back at her for burning me the way she did? We were both planning marriage and everything. Any ideas?

2007-04-19 21:50:35 · 11 answers · asked by Ed S 2