Singles & Dating - 19 April 2007

Here is what I have learned from a very painful love experience. I have been fooled emotionally by a guy who is emotionally unavailable, so he felt no consequences of his actions and was unable to take responsibility for anything. If I am correct, there are ALWAYS SIGNS that someone doesn't feel the same way back and is just using you for this or that reason to make themselves feel better. Usually it's something that is stronger than your conscience, but it's NOT an EXCUSE! So after receiving many of these signs, you confront them about it and they deny and promise eternal love. You believe because love is blind. But it NEVER works out! So next time, you should be strong and walk away at the first sign of your partner being untruthfull. Actually I am so grateful this guy happened to me, because I would've never realized that YES, the world is corrupted and people, besides your own family and best friends, are...

2007-04-19 06:10:15 · 5 answers · asked by stargazer 2

ever since my ex has told me that he still has feelings for his ex, he seems a little distance and it seems weird.Also he doesn't seem that physically attracted to me.Does he think I'm mad at him or is thinking about her thinking I'm okay with it.When we talked about it I told him it didn't bug me but now he
s gotten all distant its starting to worry me.

2007-04-19 06:04:09 · 11 answers · asked by Patti c 1

I dont have one but I see all these other girls with them and they boyfriends so what is your opinion on them?

2007-04-19 05:59:47 · 31 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4

I met the two guy's at school, i only have them for one class period. The two guy's are in the same class with me. They asked me out on Monday both of them, one of them asked me in lunch time, and the other one asked me in the morning before school started. I did not answered to the guy in the morning because i am not sure if i like him or the other guy.

2007-04-19 05:57:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

what the best way to maintain a long lasting erec tion?

2007-04-19 05:57:46 · 13 answers · asked by tony t 1

2007-04-19 05:55:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my boyfriend and I started dating over a year ago, he spoiled me with all kinds of attention which was a huge breath of fresh air because I'd dated nothing but losers in the past. I returned the attention of course, spoiling him in the process. He'd always talk about how he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me constantly saying "when we get married..." and sending me text messages saying how much he missed me and loved me (once again, I returned the affection). I moved in with him at the three month mark. Now, a little over a year later, I no longer get the cute text messages. I no longer get the smile when he comes home from work. I no longer get the cuddling on the couch during movies/tv. He no longer helps clean after I cook. I no longer get the "when we get married.." (instead he tells people the timing's not right when he used to descirbe the kind of ring he would get me). I cook, I clean, I try to be affectionate, but he just constantly complains now. What happened?

2007-04-19 05:54:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i posted on here a couple days ago about how i was worried cuz i gave someone on the internet my cell number that i had been talking to for a very long time. Because i was worried i told him i was changing my number so not to call it or text it. He then proceeded sayin that he isnt like that and if i want to we dont have to talk at all online if i am uncomfortable, he also said not to change the number because he would not call me or text. So we were talkin and then he said that he is kinda upset at me that i would assume he is being a perv or a guy older than himself. he then said he would forgive me but it would take a while for him to not be mad. so what does everyone think? tips anything? (plz dont tell me to not give out my cell number again cuz believe me i have had enough of that and i wont do it ever again!!!)

2007-04-19 05:53:33 · 2 answers · asked by SMasewicz 3

2007-04-19 05:52:59 · 5 answers · asked by ellisd1950 3

2007-04-19 05:49:47 · 37 answers · asked by Tess 1

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2007-04-19 05:46:34 · 31 answers · asked by Voight-Kampff 3

I had a fling with the guy who i share an apartment with and we ended things only because of diffrencies ...Well i wanted to become his friend but after we agree on nothing more than friendship...We stopped talking and i dunno why...Its been a week and 5 days and everytime i do try to talk to him he is always kinda rude so i just forget even trying if he is gonna be rude to me...I think i made a mistake because we both work at the same office and i told one of our co-workers who is a guy and his friend that we havent spoken and i dont give a care if we do or not but i only said that because i was mad at the time. My friend saw that we wasnt talking so she asked him whats up and how come we dont talk anymore and he said because Juan (the guy i told) told him what i said and it made him feel bad so he just stopped talking all togethor...She told him that it was bothering me and he said it was bothing him too but last night he wouldn't try talking to me not even once and like i said when

2007-04-19 05:46:16 · 9 answers · asked by L♥VIN LIFE 1

there is this guy that i met and he seems like a real nice guy. Well just the other day he asked me out, i told him it's really complicating for me because there is this other guy who wants to go out with me. The reason why it is so complicating is because i just met this guy. And the other guy i have known for 3 years. I am just so confused mostly on what i want. I want to date both because they both make me feel like iam a person worth while. It's just hard to tell each that i am not ready for a realtionship until i know for sure. How can i tell them both how i feel about them with out each getting mad with me?

2007-04-19 05:45:44 · 21 answers · asked by Kidd 2

I reallly like this girl a lot, and she knows I like her. However I haven't told her yet. We hung out today, and she was really fun/funny to hang out with. However I just get the feeling as though she dosen't like me the way I like her. We talk and laugh, but she flirts and talks about other guys all the time. Even though I'm not her Boyfriend It does kind of make me jealous because I really like her. Should I just tell her I like her, or should i just play it cool and remain friends with her? She calls me randomly out of nowhere and we talk about serious stuff and stupid stuff, but I just don't get the feeling she likes me. I have a lot of money which might be the reason why she hangs out and talks to me. I don't know though, what are some signs that would show a guy that a grl likes him? Another thing today that was just awkward was when we were hanging out with a bunch of her friends, I just talked on my cell phone because I didn't know her friends, and I felt really awkward.

2007-04-19 05:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by BAS 2

Imagine that you have been seeing someone for 6months but now you are both in separate countries, but will be together in same country soon. However, while u have been apart, u have met someone and started to see them, but she has now found out about the girl u were seeing before her and technically still are. She confronts u about the other girl, (bearing in mind that in 3 weeks u r leaving ur country for 6 months to where the other girl would be), what would ur reaction be to the confrontation? would u want to be kind to the girl that u have just met to spare her feelings and not hurt her?

2007-04-19 05:42:39 · 27 answers · asked by Loli 2

What do guys think about when they have a crush on a certain girl? does he think about what she whould look like n****? does he think about what s** whould be like with her. the guy that likes me always lifts his eyebrows at and i wonder what he looks at to make him do that?

2007-04-19 05:42:30 · 16 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1

Im the type of female who loves to wear sexy clothing in the privacy of my own home.Or some times I prefer to be completely nude, I don't have a man or anything but I was just curious to know how any of you men felt about your woman doing such a thing and is it a turn on or a turn off. And I wanted to know if there were any women out there who felt secure enough about teir bodies and sexuality too try this. Because I see a lot of women who get angry about their husbands wanting them to dress sexy for them while doing housework, you washing dishes, laundry, cleaning, etc etc.Because they feel that their husbands look at them as sex objects.But I say so what! And who cares! Im that type of woman who loves doing those kinds of things as well as putting on a strip show and dancing for my man I love it , its like a passion and a honor to peform this type of behaviour . So men and women how do you feel about all of this?

2007-04-19 05:41:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was driving me crazy and pushing my buttons. I found myself getting upset and almost got physical with her, so I immediately seperated myself from the situation to calm down. I am planning on getting back together with her this Sunday. I cleaned my house up and added some plants since she was always whining about the smell and cleanliness. I quit smoking for both of us. What else can I be doing to legitimize all the time Ive taken off from her?

2007-04-19 05:40:44 · 5 answers · asked by mmikle 2

Do you think I have made a bad start by asking a question rather than answering one first?

2007-04-19 05:39:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

It has been over 2 mths since the breakup. I'm really tired of going through mood swings. One moment, I'm feeling better that he's out of my life. The next moment, I miss him so much and I just wish that I could be with him again...

How do I deal with all of these??

2007-04-19 05:36:35 · 27 answers · asked by Grace 3

He needs to be Blonde hair and Brown eyes

2007-04-19 05:36:08 · 20 answers · asked by Erica 1

Ever since I have started dating, the boyfriends I end up with always end up hurting me. Jan. of last year, one of my ex's cheated on me right and front of me. And later on during the summer, I found out that one of my past boyfriends were cheating on me with three different girls and engaged to another one too. At the same time, I started dating another guy but later on during the Fall, he wanted to enslave me.... Why is this always happening to me? Why can I not just find the right guy ? But then again... how can I really know if this guy is my Lifemate? How am I to regain my trust in the male species?

2007-04-19 05:35:59 · 15 answers · asked by Angel Of Lost Souls 2

(teens) I read just about everything E.R.Burroughs wrote, you know Tarzan, John Carter of Mars. It had an effect on me. There was nothing Tarzan wouldn't do to protect and keep Jane. That guy even broke a lions back that was after Jane, with his bare hands! When Jane was rescued from Africa she went all the way back to England, maybe it was America? Does that stop Tarzan from getting her back? Hell No, he goes all the way to England or America to reclaim his mate. (And they hadn't even had sex yet!) He didn't even know where England or the U.S.A. was.That really got to me. I'm all grown up now. But I still retain that romantic notion instilled in me from reading those books. The idea that a woman is special and LOVE between a man & woman should be an unbreakable bond. Tarzan and Jane had the kind of Love. Is this stupid to feel this way? Is it wrong to want to go out on a limb for her, to respect her, even whorship her. Should I not want to give her the last bite of my only bannana?

2007-04-19 05:34:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've told you once, i've told you a.......now......never......again....!

2007-04-19 05:32:54 · 12 answers · asked by trueblueplayaz 2

Ok I dated this guy and we broke up.A month or two later he asked me to a formal dinner/dance.I was dating another guy at the time.I told him I was planning on breaking uip with him anyway.So I agreed to go.We danced and he even kissed me.It's now been about a month and he hasn't rly talked to me at all.He thinks that I lied to him about the time that i broke up with my BF.A friend of mine talks to him alot and says that he still likes me.She says he's playin hard to get.What do you think.Any advise.I still rly like him.Should I just forget him or what?

2007-04-19 05:32:50 · 4 answers · asked by Sunny D 1

im REALLY confused.. i'm 13 years old and i ask this girl (same age) out. She said no.... thought in a nice way :) but... ever scince then....
when someone is in love with another person you can't help looking at them. In lessons for example she'll try and sit as near as possilble ...(we have 4 and sought of 5 lessons each week) she would always say hi when ever we walk past each other but usualy.. im jsut to shy to asnwer back and today.. i was in the luch queue, and her and her m8s came aswell i didn't really look but she stoot nxt to me and i had my hand sligthy closed and a bit open and she starting i think... rubbing her had agaisnt mine..... and then says "hi julian" and being an idiot i would be.. i smiled and waved my hand...im so shy.. anyway....... what do you think this tells u? i dont know if i've already asked this question if so sorry..:) thank you

2007-04-19 05:32:12 · 17 answers · asked by apples and pears 4

i have this weird relationship with one of my friends,we recently slept together for the first time but im not sure it was the right decision as our realionship is annoying, one minute we get on fine we laughing,messing about the next minute were having massive arguements over little things.he said im the only person who can get to him.

2007-04-19 05:29:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so I have really hard trouble verbally expressing myself to anyone, especially my boyfriend. I've never said the words "i love you" verbally to him (but I want to) because I grew up hating love until I found him. He tells me how he feels verbally and It makes me happy and fall in love with him more, but I just upset at myself that I cant return the same thing.

But what I do is write him email and letters or leave long messages on his AIM telling him how I feel because it is the only place I can really express myself without being speechless or tongue twisted or afraid. Do you think its wrong of me to only express myself through written words then spoken?

I've tried to tell him how i feel verbally, but it doesn't come out and I stuck there in silence. If it matters in any way, we've been together for 1yr+

But at times, I feel like I'm being desperate whenever I leave him letters or messages over internet expressing my worries/thoughts/love/feelings/doubts/anything. anyone else?

2007-04-19 05:29:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everytime i see this guy james i like i have the urge to just rip off his clothes. and i know he likes me but i was wondering if he feels like doing the same. what do guys think about when they have a crush on a girl. indetail answers please

2007-04-19 05:25:43 · 10 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1