Singles & Dating - 23 April 2007

my boyfriend of two years is emotionally killing me,i love him a lot and the way things used to be but for the last year he has been mean, we never go anywhere together, if we do its me tagging along to help him at work, any time i ask if we can go for dinner or anything he gets mad at me and says he has no time and that i dont respect him and his business, i am so frustrated cause its only me that he does this to , if anyone, i mean anyone else comes around he'll drop anything just to please them, it has caused a lot of fights latly, and he just acts so cold and heartless to me, he lies to me about small things, then tells me that its cause id just get mad, i tell him that id rather be mad than to find out later and have to wonder the truth. i dont know what to do he makes me feel so hated, unloved, and he never shows me a bit of emotion, if i cry he says i just feel sorry for myself, and he says things like "no wonder everyone hates you"even when they dont,why cant i leave him????

2007-04-23 23:45:40 · 10 answers · asked by dunseithbc 1

should i......go mad with my boyfriends credit card on clothes, underwear and shoes....i'm so tempted he said i was allowed a few items online...but....that's no fun lol Should i be a little minx and do it or be a good girl and not? if u were my boyfriend would u kill me lol!! x

2007-04-23 23:30:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-23 23:04:18 · 10 answers · asked by Sang 1

so i am 20 years old and engaged to a 54 year old man (don). he treats me good but i cant help but think of all the problems we will have in the future. i already get mad at him for absolutely no reason, and i just dont think i can truthfully say that i love him. i met a guy at work that treats me very well and i think that i am in love with him. he has had some problems but is doing his best to make it all better. his name is anthony and is 24 years old. i hear his voice and get excited. i see him and just want to crumble. i dont want to hurt don but i dont want to end up miserable. i also have a 5 month old by don. and my son loves anthony. i dont know what to do. the wedding is june 9th of 2007. please help!!!!

2007-04-23 22:35:31 · 11 answers · asked by Tammi D 1

Well my last kiss was when i was freaking 7!!! So i dont really count that as my first kiss, im 15 now, and im interested in this guy, we're not going out, but i wanna kiss him, i just dont know how, i dont know what to do, im nervous about it, and i also wouldnt let him hold my hand, i kept my hands in my pockets the whole time, I feel like he'll be able to tell ive never kissed anyone before, and ill be embarassed because im 15 and that really old to have never kissed anyone before, help!! wut do i do??

2007-04-23 21:13:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

she has a boyfriend and she keeps having sex with him and everytime i am with her she tells me to join in but i have always said i am saving it for marrige. what can i tell her to make her stop pressuring me?

2007-04-23 21:11:11 · 8 answers · asked by in love :) 2

2007-04-23 20:46:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

he shows interest by asking me whether i wanna watch a movie(even if it was in a group), whether i want to listen to some ideas he's got, whether i've done my homework. he's curious about my family, and even said my friends are his friends. he eats with me, shares his food, sent me lots of songs(love songs, others, etc) and told me quite a lot about himself and his life. sometimes i suspect he's angry when i talk about other guys(he changes the topic or completely disregards what i've just said) he's generally concerned, asks me whether i'm ok, that i look really tired, etc.
however, he doesn't call, doesn't text, sometimes doesn't talk to me in a week or two. he's never asked me out one on one.
i like this boy very much i don't want to lose this one. can you tell me why he's acting this way? does he like me or not? what is he trying to convey? i don't want him to become disinterested after a while. :(

2007-04-23 20:30:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-23 20:25:38 · 18 answers · asked by vijay s 1

Why is it when a guy first sees a girl, they see their bubes or butt first instead of their face and smile?

2007-04-23 20:20:12 · 15 answers · asked by blondie_cheerangel 3

it jus sux. i remember you saying "ii hate it" now IM the one that hates it, i fell for you sooooo bad. i loved the way you talked to me, the way you were there to listen to me, the way you told me how sweet i was...i wanted to be as sweet and as loving as i could be jus for you, i tried SOOO hard but baby, im askin you not to do this..please? i know im not the kind of guy you'd usually go for but i'll change. i love you. you'll always be in my heart, if only....things were different, how much i wish it so...her name is Sabrina and no she aint a witch, i love this girl. shes so amazing in every way, she has her faults but we all do, its jus that hers were so small. i loved waking up to your voice in the morning, it was the best surprise ive ever gotten but...then recently i woke up and...you werent there anymore, i thought my life had ended, no reason to live but life goes on i hope. maybe i can still be with you, i'll wait as long as i have toi dont think i'll ever get over you EVER.

2007-04-23 20:18:05 · 5 answers · asked by saeuta 3

2007-04-23 20:11:25 · 21 answers · asked by Bobby 2

i m from a very conservative family n i too think its not right but he is traveling 4 three days just to meet me, n we re goin to attent a marriage of a comman friend . just one month before should i surrender?? even i m tempted wid this thought but thinkin about morals n athics. both of us r virgin . my parents know nothing about this meeting. should i break their faith ??? i dont want to break my fience heart too.

2007-04-23 19:57:15 · 25 answers · asked by vanice 1

I am a college educated young black female and I have never had a serious relationship of any kind. Not only have I never had a boyfreind, I never had anyone that I would consider to be a close freind. I think that I am somewhat attractive and likable. I try to treat everyone with dignity and respect. So whats the deal. Just wondering what everyone else thinks. Are some people just destine to be alone?

2007-04-23 19:56:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

not me but may be you also!!!

2007-04-23 19:55:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many men out there are willing to date a woman who's overweight? I'm not talking morbid obesity here, let's say 40-60 pounds overweight?

2007-04-23 19:48:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-23 19:45:17 · 23 answers · asked by Cass 1

To find other men attractive, even so far as to 'crush' on one while dating.

2007-04-23 19:42:28 · 22 answers · asked by Banana tree 4

you know what should a man do for his sexual desires? should he lay with a whoore?

2007-04-23 19:41:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this is going to sound funny buy im almost 26 and have no idea how to talk seductive to my fiance. and since he is at work i want to send him a seductive text message. thing is i dont know how to talk like that. I was shy all my life and now i need to know how to tell him i want him without really using the words "i want you" any help?

2007-04-23 19:37:46 · 8 answers · asked by mojosbaby41472 2

It seems as if every guy I've dated always had wandering eyes and went out with other girls on the side. Believe me, I don't have any tolerance for cheating, so am I just setting myself up to be a fool?

2007-04-23 19:36:38 · 12 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3

i know everyone has a seperate opinion but still..ill average out the results Lol....
plz mention ur own ideal match that u want ur guy to be like.

2007-04-23 19:34:58 · 7 answers · asked by Tr 1

Does income matter? I'll be making six figures next month and I'm 23 female. Should I strictly date professionals or it doesn't matter? What do you guys think? Thanks

2007-04-23 19:21:14 · 4 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3

me and a guy are the best of friends but now i like him....and im pretty sure he likes me....im not sure but today i think he wanted to kiss me! the story: we were walking back from a assembly thing and we were talking(about him smiling and being happy) he asked me how im going to get him to smile and i told him i might have to do something drastic....he looked slightly suprised and when i turned to him we were REALLY close and it was almost like we were about to kiss.....im not sure if he would have or not but right then his friend yelled to him and asked were he was going(since he had missed his class:p) well i was like ok and started to walk away when i heard him mutter under his breath"damn" i walked away and felt almost in a daze....



what should i do....should i tell him how i feel or wait from him to come to me(we're also going to the movies friday with one of my friends....its going to be a scary movie) please help i really like him and everyone says we'd be PERFECT together

2007-04-23 19:20:51 · 8 answers · asked by Laur 3

my ex of 2.5 years cheated one me,i gave him another chance. He changed fully,uno things got better. Until i found out that while we were on a break 6 months ago he cheated then. For the last 2 months we have been apart, but he has also been begging etc wanting me to take him back etc etc. Howver the other night we saw each other in town, he fully madeout with another girl in my face. This has fully put me off him.and proves hell never change. How do i get over him and move on?

2007-04-23 19:05:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were a guy would you want to be approached by a female?
Would you want that person who is kind of a stranger to tell you how she felt and get it over with? Or would you prefer her to be a freind first?

What would you do if you like someone. And was scared to death to speak to them. In fear of looking like an idiot. How would you want the girl to drop hints that she likes you?
In my case there is a 10 year age difference I'm almost 21 and he just turned 31. Both work normal jobs dont go to school. So on and so on.

2007-04-23 19:02:29 · 5 answers · asked by Snowflakes 2

I know this guy and he is diggin me we've been talkin for a while, I use to date him about 3 years ago, then we lost touch and I just found him again about 2 months ago. We have been chatting and talking on the phone, sending video messages and what have you. But I can't shake the feeling that he has a girl, and will not disclose that to me. Should I leave him alone, I have tried I told him I know no woman in her right mind would let you be single, he is a great man, almost no flaws, I know someone had to snatch him up by now, but he says no. I told him if it were the case I would gracefully bow out and not interfere with his life, but he keeps pursueing me just as I am ready to leave him alone, what is he doing? help tell me something.

2007-04-23 19:01:18 · 9 answers · asked by Kbella 3

in person,we have been friends nothing more,a call here or a call there,from time to time, he is in the military, and he stays busy,so we both decided a long distance relationship is out of the question,but time has passed he moved 3 states from me due to his job,an now we have the chance to meet,but im not sure now,i mean i enjoy chatting with him, and i know i like him, and i know if we meet ,there could be something there to start a relationship.but...i had not heard from him in 6 weeks and he calls me and says his job is sending him to my town for 3 nites and wanted to know if i finally wanted to meet the him in person,an to be honest,i want to but,i want more from this,than i think he wants,or im not sure what to think or do,he is a nice person ,but has not had the best luck in relationships,he has been married 3 times and 4 kids he is 46 im 40 and i decided to not be with a man untill i knew it was for real next time,so how do i know ,what do the men think is this a booty call ?

2007-04-23 18:53:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my boyfriend and I split this past Sunday, because he doesn't enough time to spend with me and he said it wasn't fair to me. Our relationship was only a month long, and I felt that this wasn't a great reason to split. Any advice on how to convince him to come back?

2007-04-23 18:51:22 · 16 answers · asked by sweetdazzleberry 1

ok im sad about soemthing and im 13 years old can any 1 talk to me and make me feel better

2007-04-23 18:38:04 · 17 answers · asked by girl_that_is_blue 2