First kiss, i feel old, like i should have already had mine?

Question

Well my last kiss was when i was freaking 7!!! So i dont really count that as my first kiss, im 15 now, and im interested in this guy, we're not going out, but i wanna kiss him, i just dont know how, i dont know what to do, im nervous about it, and i also wouldnt let him hold my hand, i kept my hands in my pockets the whole time, I feel like he'll be able to tell ive never kissed anyone before, and ill be embarassed because im 15 and that really old to have never kissed anyone before, help!! wut do i do??

Answer 1

There is no technique or whatever for a first kiss for girls. I understand that if you force a first kiss, you will regret it. So let it happen naturally and let your boyfriend initiate it. No one can tell you at what age you should have your first kiss. There is no "too old" for a teenage girl. Only you can tell, but it sounds like you are ready.

You will have to let your boyfriend hold your hand though. That was always my first move before I went in for a kiss when I was in my early teens. If you don't allow the hand contact, your boyfriend will never get that you are ready for a kiss and be too shy to make the initial move.

Answer 2

being 15 and never been kissed is not old and not the end of the world. it is better to have your first kiss with a guy you really like. you see, when your emotions are involved, kissing is so very sweet and wonderful. why not wait for the right man to come along and experience the sweetness of your first kiss?

Answer 3

well, that things take time and the time it lacks u, because u r not too old, i think u r right, start by letting him hold ur hands and that stuff, then wait till u both go out, u can't kiss someone like that, well u can but it would carry a lot of problems

Answer 4

just go at ya own speed if you havent kissed any1 before its beacuse you probly havent found any1 you like and trust enough so no 15 isnt old when you think about it im 18 and i only just started datin women last year some people said that was realy late but i never found any1 i was interested in so wot would b the point in datin .if you realy like this guy it probly wont be long before you kiss him .

Answer 5

Nah, I'm nearly 15, never been kissed and never had a bf...I don't feel old, when it happens it happens and I'll just wait. Your only 15 your not old in any way so stop worrying!

Answer 6

You are "over-analyzing" your situation. Let it happen naturally. Don't worry about when the kiss will happen. He likes you enough to spend time with you, that is what counts. You know, this could be his first kiss, too.

Answer 7

dont rush kissing. Don't be embarresed about being too old. you are way too young. You did the right thing not holding his hand. At that age all they want to do is get in your pants.

Answer 8

first take you hands out of the pockets.
kissing a boy isn't that a hard thing to do. he probably wants to kiss you just as badly but since you are anxious and nervous maybe he thinks you don't want him to. next time you go on a date and you get hem say thanks for a great time and put your hands on his chest or shoulders, or grab his shirt collar. he'll do the rest ;)

Answer 9

I'm a guy, I haven't kissed anyone, much less go out with them yet, and I'm 16. I want my first kiss to be special.

Answer 10

Make a start.. By being frightened of 'nothing' you won't get any.. Forget your fears, take your hands off your pocket and start the kiss...