should i......go mad with my boyfriends credit card on clothes, underwear and shoes....i'm so tempted he said i was allowed a few items online...but....that's no fun lol Should i be a little minx and do it or be a good girl and not? if u were my boyfriend would u kill me lol!! x
2007-04-23 23:30:13 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jezz some people r so miserable today, i argee with a few people i gave him a text n he said it was fine to geta few other stuff as long as its not thousands! Y r some people saying im shallow :S No way am i shallow i spend alot of money on my boyfriend for a fact i brought him a pair of timberlands the other week from my wages!
2007-04-23 23:42:37 · update #1
well really its depending how much ur really goin to buy???? if its like £200 not bother me but £2000 then i'll kill u lol (joke tho) dunno its really up to u cos in the end u and ur bf will end up payin for it all so if i was u ENJOY UR SELF!!!!!!!!!!!! lol gd luck!
2007-04-24 01:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by amy_baby123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through it before. Frankly speaking, if I'm your boyfriend, I would not kill you, but thank you. Credit limit is only 2 times your salary. Take out 2 months of your salary in a year, you still have other 10 months to help you substain. Saving my *** a lifetime with 2 months salary, I guess thats the price most people are willing to live with. I would only blame you for not doing it soon enough.
He already implied he can't afford you too much things, so he said you are allow a FEW things online. Not ANYTHING. Credit card isn't money you have now. Its money in future. use more of it, you'll have lesser in future.
2007-04-23 23:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by henry_fy7d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Don't do onto others what you do not like others to do onto you!" This has been my code of life and I would advise you to seriously think ahead of the consequences of abusing the trust and generosity of your boyfriend. Overdo it and that will be the last time he trust you with his credit card, but if you use it wisely and with care, there will be lots of future opportunity for you to buy more things. Kill the golden goose for the egg and all you have is one golden egg but by taking good care of the goose, ther will be an endless stream of golden eggs to come. The choice is yours - decide and be wise about it!
2007-04-23 23:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by Seng Kim T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can if you want but rest assured he will be furious. This sends a clear message out that he cant trust you. Dont take advantage, Im sure if you ask him nicely he should say yes..also its very disrespectful to just spend and not ask. Keep the peace and ask.
2007-04-23 23:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mercia L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he wouldn't have given you the card in the first place if he didn't wont you to use it , just don't go to mad with it you could end up regretting it and your boyfriend may end up killing you .better still use your own card instead .
2007-04-23 23:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by fafandloo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women starved themselves, threw themselves infront of the kings horse, protested for equal rights....
and yet you ask this question. Pay for it yourself, at least someone would have some respect for you. Or at least let him take you out and you go shopping together instead of boasting you've got his credit card and you're going to take advantage of it.
2007-04-24 00:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by dee-lightful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think you should go mad just get the things that you realy do need by him letting you use his credit card he has showed that he trusts you completely don't break the trust that he has put in you he has also proved how much he realy does care about you
2007-04-23 23:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by joan_tipton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can afford it - go for it,,.... make sure u buy some 'special' items to soften (the wrong word I know!!) the blow.
If he can't afford it - just buy what he can then kick him up the backside and tell him to earn more money!!!.
2007-04-23 23:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if i was your bf you'd be dangling off a bridge after a stunt like that but also i wouldnt be stupid enough to entrust a woman with a credit card thats like giving a kid a gun :)>
2007-04-23 23:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him specifically how much your aloud to spend, that way you know how much you can get away with, or at least find out his limit, lol.
2007-04-23 23:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by talj_23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun and I need some new boots size 10 1/2 steel toe with gore-tex. Have fun, let me know when you got my boots.
2007-04-23 23:34:26 · answer #11 · answered by mundo808 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋