me and a guy are the best of friends but now i like him....and im pretty sure he likes me....im not sure but today i think he wanted to kiss me! the story: we were walking back from a assembly thing and we were talking(about him smiling and being happy) he asked me how im going to get him to smile and i told him i might have to do something drastic....he looked slightly suprised and when i turned to him we were REALLY close and it was almost like we were about to kiss.....im not sure if he would have or not but right then his friend yelled to him and asked were he was going(since he had missed his class:p) well i was like ok and started to walk away when i heard him mutter under his breath"damn" i walked away and felt almost in a daze....
what should i do....should i tell him how i feel or wait from him to come to me(we're also going to the movies friday with one of my friends....its going to be a scary movie) please help i really like him and everyone says we'd be PERFECT together
2007-04-23 19:20:51 · 8 answers · asked by Laur 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok...nothing happened today but he did get into a sorta fight w/ his (now ex) best friend and something was up....he just wasnt himself....well yesterday i said that i was asking him whats wrong and flirting and all that stuff but today i sorta did the same thing(not fully) and after school he was like "i dont hate you and you don't bother me its just annoying when you keep asking whats wrong when theres nothing wrong" so i joked w/ him(because my friends were there to) and was all"ok then i swear im not going to talk to all week until friday(movies) and he at first was "fine" but then he was like"wait youre going to talk to me!"(sorta like he was going to make me)...idk what to do....im not going to ask him again whats wrong and sorta take a break from flirtying so much(i dont a lot....i guess just less then i already am) so im not sure what im going to do because i really like him and im really hesitant to tell him how i feel since i dont want to ruin are friendship....PLEASE HELP!!!
2007-04-24 13:25:18 · update #1
if i were you, i wouldnt tell him yet how u feel, just let things take its course. Oh and at the movie u gotta sit beside him too if u can that way u can like hold his arm and stuff durring the scary parts (PS: Guys realllyyy like that..) i can also garuntee u that u guys will have a momoent like after that assembly some time in the near future, and just do wat feels right... good luck!
2007-04-23 19:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by david edwards 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take the chance and tell him how u feel even if he doesnt feel the same way it never hurts to get it off ur chest and use the movies to help u tell him and if he likes you hell tell but sometimes you just cant wait on a man to make the first move and some guys think its nice not to have to make the first move. As for the whole asking him whats wrong all the time if u ask and he says nothing just tell him that u are there if u need to talk take the chance in the end no matter what its better to tell the people u love u love them to not say it at all then have something happen where u cant tell them. good luck
2007-05-01 23:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! This scary movie will bring you close to him once again. You can do the girlie thing and grab onto his arm when you get scared at some part during the movie. Guys love that. They feel like they can protect you. If you think that he feels the same way then I say there no time better then now. You can ask him in school tomorrow if you want to be sure. That way you don't make a fool of yourself at the movies. Good Luck and have a great time
2007-04-24 02:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are going to the movies friday....and it is a scary movie.......heck be a girl, when guys tell me that i have no balls . i tell them that i have them they are just high up . anyway sthe point of telling you that was....grow some and tell him all the signs are there my boyfriend hates it when i ask whats wrong and if you to were about to kiss and he said damn because he didn't get to kiss you well there you have it honey he likes you tell friday at the movies want to be bold you kiss him at the movies don't wait for him to make the first move you make it.
2007-04-26 08:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him, say "There was something that I wanted to do yesterday." Then kiss him. He will be glad that he didn't have to miss the moment again!!
2007-04-24 02:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviousely he likes u other wise he wouldnt have said damn under his breath so i thnk that u should just tell him how u feel about him and if he doesn tfeel the same way then its his loss and he doesnt care for u!
2007-05-02 01:15:15 · answer #6 · answered by scout {{a.k.a princess}} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chica, jus tell him how you feel, it sounds like he's really into you, you only got one life to live, so live it and after highschool you might not even be friends with this boy, so go for it. good luck
2007-04-24 02:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by Laurena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it don't think about it just do it
2007-05-01 22:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋