It seems as if every guy I've dated always had wandering eyes and went out with other girls on the side. Believe me, I don't have any tolerance for cheating, so am I just setting myself up to be a fool?
2007-04-23 19:36:38 · 12 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Come on dude...you can't tell by just becoming acquainted with some guy if he could be the type of outgoing dude that would probly not be happy with just one woman in his life?
all these women act like it's really hard to tell the type of guy that is a player...I'm sorry, but I think women like you are attracted to those kind of men because they seem to be outgoing and confident (or something to that effect), and then you act all surprised when he cheats on you...if it happened to you once, then I would call it a coincidence - but it didn't, so I won't
2007-04-23 19:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you look for in a guy? If your priorities are shallow, you'll end up with a shallow guy who'll cheat on you. Maybe you could try getting to know a guy a little before getting into a relationship, instead of jumping into a relationship right away. Watch for red flags and if you see them, don't date the guy. There's nothing wrong with being single for a while. Just be a little more cautious... nice guys are out there, you just have to take the time to sort through all the crap to find them.
2007-04-24 02:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by Iris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself...Why am I attracted to these types of guys in the first place? Is it the fact that you like to have control or is it the fact that there is drama associated with this type of guy.
Also have you dated guys that have been nice to you, but you have found boring.
The best place to start is firstly work out what level of relationship you are looking for...then once you can answer that then maybe you'll be able to work out why you like to date players.
2007-04-24 02:45:00 · answer #3 · answered by O2Phone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely dating the wrong guys. Try looking for the one that is not trying to pick up every girl in the room.
2007-04-24 02:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try dating a guy you wouldnt normally date. remember if these guys are incredably attractive, that might be your problem. its harder to find attractive guys who dont let their ego get the best of them. im not saying all goodlooking guys are like that, its just there are alot. and im not saying date someone bad looking. just a little lower than your norm. also try looking in other places. church has decent guys if you are a christian. they arent all good, but you might be easier to find a nice guy there. also if you date someone with connections with your group of friends, its easier to keep your eye on them
2007-04-24 02:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't blame yourself. take a vacation and have a fun fling. them come home, a new and improved woman, and try again. just take some time off of the dating scene. good luck.
2007-04-24 02:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by LoVeLY LaURa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I date idiots!!-LOL welcome to the club. my problem is they never realize what they had until I'm practically breaking up with them, then they want me...Y is that??.LOL
I think if u just change the type of men u go for, if ur mind just says not my type then u go for him. cause sometimes we just need a to change our perception.
That's what I'm trying to do now, difficult i tell u, but i think its working....(",)
2007-04-24 02:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's because you haven't found me yet.....I am to shy to ask a girl out.....But I know I wouldn't treat a girl that way.
2007-04-24 02:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by NDN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-04-24 02:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by explorer_dv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you like tough bad boys that know how to lay it down
2007-04-24 12:56:42 · answer #10 · answered by greeneyedflavor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋