if he seems interested and later disinterested(in a cycle), does he stlil like me?

Question

he shows interest by asking me whether i wanna watch a movie(even if it was in a group), whether i want to listen to some ideas he's got, whether i've done my homework. he's curious about my family, and even said my friends are his friends. he eats with me, shares his food, sent me lots of songs(love songs, others, etc) and told me quite a lot about himself and his life. sometimes i suspect he's angry when i talk about other guys(he changes the topic or completely disregards what i've just said) he's generally concerned, asks me whether i'm ok, that i look really tired, etc.
however, he doesn't call, doesn't text, sometimes doesn't talk to me in a week or two. he's never asked me out one on one.
i like this boy very much i don't want to lose this one. can you tell me why he's acting this way? does he like me or not? what is he trying to convey? i don't want him to become disinterested after a while. :(

oh jst to add, i wasn't talking about my ex boyfriends. i was saying something ridiculous some guy said to me and he seemed like he was upset! i never had a bf!

Answer 1

At first he sounded sweet but then i got a really wierd feeling as i read further. I don't think that you should tell a guy that you like about ur ex-boyfriends. But if it is a friend and he gets upset and changes the subject he seems like a possessive person and if you start to date him he might become too possessive and strangle ur relationship. As for the not calling, texting, etc... that's odd! Either he is playing too hard to get (and when you play too hard to get people don't want you in the end because there is only so long that a person will chase you) or he likes to feel wanted. I think that he likes to be liked. I'm sure that he must have some feelings for you but i dont think that he will want to be in a relationship. Maybe look around and if you meet someone else great! If not just see what happens with him but dont stop looking at other guys or turning off to other possible relationships with other people cause this guy might just be messing you around.

Answer 2

there are two scenarios:
1. you are reading into it too much, and the only reason he asks you to listen to ideas, talk about family, general concern etc. is because you ask him about these things and hes only responding to be polite.
2. he is too shy to mess up the friendship or too shy to make a bold move such as call, text, initiate conversation.
regardless of what it is, i think you know deep down inside. if you're really unsure, then maybe you should call him first and see if he takes the hint from there. invite him out one on one if thats your style

Answer 3

That's what you call taking it slow I would make sure if I haven't heard from him in a week or two not make myself readily available not answer the phone tell him you've made other plans play hard to get men don't stay interested in woman who are at there beck and call don't call him let him call you always.

Answer 4

It seems like he enjoys having someone "chase" him. Even if you do not chase him in the way that is distasteful or desperate, he might just enjoy having someone who likes him but has no commitment to.

If you've got smarts, you'll hit the floor running 'cus this one has heartbreak writting all over him.

Answer 5

Seems to me he's either indecisive or afraid of becoming further involved coz that would mean making a committment!

Answer 6

If he hasn't made a move, he is probably not ready to. Just be nice to him, and have a good time. There is no rush. If he wants to ask you out, he will when he is ready.

Answer 7

SOME MEN LIKE PADDLING SOME DON'T, I USED TO IT'S UP TO THE BLOKE.