To find other men attractive, even so far as to 'crush' on one while dating.
2007-04-23 19:42:28 · 22 answers · asked by Banana tree 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope iwouldn't act on them
2007-04-23 19:47:42 · update #1
its not wrong at all, many married ppl have crush on other ppl too some act on it some dont , its not wrong to to have the crush but if your married and act on it its not a good thing to do
2007-04-23 19:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's absolutely nothing wrong with looking. Attractive people are everywhere. You can't go around with your eyes covered.
As far as having a crush on someone, is it a "fantasy"-type crush or someone that is in your everyday life? Fantasies are perfectly normal - everyone has them. But if you longing to be with someone else, then you might want to seriously consider whether or not you are committed to the person you are with.
2007-04-24 03:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by feefee2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is pretty normal to find attractive qualities in those other than your significant. As far as the 'crush' part, I think the more you 'crush' the more you should question your current relationship.
I'm not saying there would be anything WRONG with you at all... far from it. But the healthier your current relationship (and the healthier you are in general) the less you would be 'crushing' on someone else.
2007-04-24 02:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Fluffy Pants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal. You have eyes. Cute guys are everywhere. You're gonna notice.
One thing to ask yourself though is how serious of a crush you have on that other guy. Is your crush a sign that something is wrong in your current relationship?
If you're not happy with your current partner talk to him about it, and if nothing changes break up with him. If you really are happy, then don't worry about noticing other guys. Just don't act on anything like that, and you're good to go.
2007-04-24 02:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Iris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it's not wrong, and in my opinion wrong to lie to yourself and say you don't. The thing is "Is your man secure about your relationship enough not to let it get to him?"
The common problem with guys is they think their girl isn't suppose to like anybody else but them. If the guy put as much time into his relationship as he does worrying, he won't have to worry. He has to know his girl, and for lack of a better word "love" her so strong that she doesn't need anyone else, and if it's true and he has nothing to worry about, he will know and she will know.
So i say crush all you want, like or love all the celebrities you can come up with. It's not your fault unless you start screwing around on him.
2007-04-24 02:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It not "wrong" at all. "Dating" has a limited commitment implication, unless you have been dating seriously a few years or so. Other people are attractive and always will be other attractive people. If you have the urge or curiosity to "experience" some of them, then obviously you are not "dating" seriously.
2007-04-24 02:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humans are sexual beings. It is completely natural to have small "crushes"/ find other men attractive besides the man you are dating.
As long as you don't act on it.....
2007-04-24 02:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, since when is it "wrong" to look? Or dream? Or have fantasies? I've been in love with Sandra Bullock for years and have told this to my wife. I was broken hearted when Sandy got married. I've never met her and never expect to but that doesn't stop me from having my private fantasies. And I still love my wife and wouldn't trade her for a dozen Sandys. But I still enjoy my fantasies. Nothing wrong with dreaming. It's when you let your dreams become a reality and you spend your life in your own dream world, that's when it becomes a problem. Or, you act on your fantasies and abandon your loved ones. So dream, but carefully.
2007-04-24 02:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember dating is about trying different people and its ok to look while dating. Be respectful to the person while you are on a date and try not to look around while, as your not really giving the person a real go
2007-04-24 02:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by O2Phone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as humans we arent that stupid to just ignore something that looks good and you want it. Its like eating chocolate cake, but if you see a strawberry cake you want it also. So it is wrong to find other men attractive and want to have something to do with them if your currently have a partner either married or dating. You should find your partner #1 sexy and have eyes for him/her only.
-Mike.
2007-04-24 03:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by Mike33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋