Singles & Dating - 23 April 2007

All we do is fight, because im not showing enough attention towards her, i dont do much for her in the relationship. is there any point in staying together?? its stressing me out and more often than not I am not happy with the situation. We have ups and downs. When its really good, its really good, when its bad, its really bad. Please help!! I have to seek therapy now!! weve only been seeing each other 6 months, and i feel like im not ready to be in a relationship and give my all to another person. Shes 21 and Im 24.....i dont know if that makes any difference, but i need advice quick.

2007-04-23 10:17:18 · 36 answers · asked by chrisj7682 2

I am hot with great muscles and abs. I want to go on hifive to get more women. Would it be better for me to put a picture of me online with my shirt off so the girls can see my muscles and abs and my pants sagging a little bit?

2007-04-23 10:15:16 · 26 answers · asked by UVIHope 1

we were friends for long time so i dont really NOW HOW TO ACT when we are out chillin friends and and people we really don,t know them but they are friends of my friends sometimes guy build up conversation with MY girl and i am in two minds should i go and get her attentions not in a me allowed want to talk her WAY, but on the other hand i want to give her space. when is to much space is to much space?

2007-04-23 10:14:12 · 4 answers · asked by stephen c 1

From since I have been in college I have found it easy for women to come at me. Some of them flirt at me and stuff like that. I receive presure to some extend to sleep with them. In my heart I dont want but I feel that there is so much pressure from other people to sleep with them. What should I do?

2007-04-23 10:12:49 · 7 answers · asked by UVIHope 1

or does get in the way of a good relationship

2007-04-23 10:11:38 · 41 answers · asked by barz 2

2007-04-23 10:09:56 · 14 answers · asked by Gabrielle 1

This happen at least 20 yrs ago. I was living at my parents house & my dad was away for the night.My then GF stayed over. Later on that night she got up to use the bath room. When she went into the hallway she looked down it & saw this image. I know she was'nt lieing because she came running back into the room crying histarically & leaped back into bed. Needless to say I was so scared I could'nt move.You see the thing is that my mom died aprox 10 yrs before & I was wondering if she came back to watch me because I was sinning. If so than why did'nt this image ever appear to me?She was very religious & never alloud a girl in my room with the door closed. Or do you think it was God? Like I said, this was at least 20 yrs ago but I think about it quite abit.

2007-04-23 10:09:55 · 4 answers · asked by jimbobob 4

My boyfriend and I don't agree about alcohol. I choose not to drink because my father had some alcohol problems and because I'm underage (my boyfriend is too). He does drink, he doesn't go crazy all the time, but it still bothers me a little. I know I can't tell him not to do it because I don't want to be controlling and I want him to have fun, but he doesn't want to compromise at all. He thinks he shouldn't have to because he doesn't agree with me and thinks my viewpoint is not normal or sensible. Am I crazy or is he being insensitive?

2007-04-23 10:08:30 · 25 answers · asked by bella1290 2

i have recently split up with my boyfriend because he really wasnt into having a relationship, he says he is not ready. the other day however he phoned me up telling me he missed my hot body n the fun we had n asked if i would meet him for some no strings sex!

i still really like him so i would easily do it but do you think this is degrading in anyway.....am i being used?

or should i look at it as though i am using him?

2007-04-23 10:04:51 · 30 answers · asked by EMMA B 1

man, I'm about to be a college sophmore, I'm 19, I'm gonna be 20 next year(January), & I can't believe I'm still a virgin & haven't had a girlfriend yet, all I've done is kiss a girl, tongue to tongue. It was through truth or dare, the girl was not attractive. What should I do people?, well I was born with Asperger Syndrome, which is a main reason why I'm shy, I have braces & I wear glasses cause I'm near-sided, thats probably another reason why I don't succeed with the ladies. I'm not overweight which is a good thing, man I'm starting to give up, there are times I don't feel like having a girlfriend since I didn't have one earlier, I'm starting to think not everyone is capable of having a boyfriend/girlfriend, & there is not a special someone out there for everyone, only the lucky people. If I don't have a girlfriend & lose my virginity before I'm 21, I'm just gonna get a gun & blow my brains out. Why was I cursed with Asperger Syndrome & shyness?.

2007-04-23 10:04:45 · 8 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6

2007-04-23 10:03:03 · 24 answers · asked by Alpha Misty 1

2007-04-23 09:59:14 · 24 answers · asked by sassy! 2

I love first kisses, they can range from sweet to passionate..

my very first kiss, I was 14 and he tickled me until he was kinda over me and then he just leaned down and kissed me..
that was many years ago and I miss the idea of a first kiss..

tell me how you approached, or were approached for your first kiss!
best story gets the points

2007-04-23 09:58:35 · 14 answers · asked by jldn2008 2

ok...

soo like...im trying to think of somthing REALLY nice i can do for my girlfreind for no reason at all. like...

i need some ideas on what you girls find sweet and romantic. i'm gonna try not to use your EXACT idea, but i wanna get a few pointers. im sick of supprising her with the same old flowers and a fancy little catch phrase on the card.

i need help please!!

lol thanks!

2007-04-23 09:56:48 · 4 answers · asked by billiard_man07 1

My bf really wants to do this, with a male or a female. I am a female. I would like to suprise him, but I have no idea how to choose someone, how to set it up, where to look, how to make sure the third party knows their place. I want to make it a good experience for both of us, but it is my first time and I don't want to look too inexperienced and have things be akward. Any insights and advice would be helpful. PS how do I insure that the person I choose doesn't have VD?

2007-04-23 09:53:43 · 21 answers · asked by susan 2

Im sure that there is at least one girl in here that has been with a guy that has a girlfriend. What is it like for you? Did it bother you? And to clear any misconseptions i am a guy and i would never cheat on my gf.

2007-04-23 09:53:43 · 4 answers · asked by TX-ftball 2

I've seen movies that say if they place thier glass close to you or if the body's are unconciously turned towards each other, that the person likes you -
what other ways, what other tests can I do to see if this guys likes me?
I have a maddening crush on this really sweet, really shy guy, the kinda guy you KNOW will not make the first move. To top it off, he has a g/f who doesn't appear to like him very much, but they've been together for 3 years.

2007-04-23 09:51:32 · 12 answers · asked by jldn2008 2

some respect girls a lot less because of it and some dont really think it makes a difference...help me out! and i also need your info on what a girl should wear to dress sexy, and what she shouldnt wear as far as looking slutty

2007-04-23 09:50:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl at school was talking to her friends about another girl and this is what she said "She is so weird, she doesn't go out with anyone." So, she was saying that that girl is weird because she has never had a boyfriend. I am the same as that girl they were talking about. I don't go out with people in middle school because I think it is a waste of time. Doe this mean I am weird? Was anyone else like this?

2007-04-23 09:50:08 · 47 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2

How do I make myself more appealing to my boyfriend, who claimed that he was "bored" when talking to me?

2007-04-23 09:48:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean something, that if i called him it when he was laying in bed that night he would be thinkin about it. i dont want something sexuall, just something to make him think about me.... something to confuse him

2007-04-23 09:47:54 · 6 answers · asked by redneck girl 1

describe your perfect girl.


2 easy points!!

thanks in advance! :]

2007-04-23 09:44:48 · 20 answers · asked by duhduhduhd 2

I dont understand why. I am not even wet or cold.

2007-04-23 09:44:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 24 year old female who is beginning to lose interest in her boyfriend of 6 months. I adore him. We have a great relationship. We have become very close over the past several months.

At some point, maybe one or two months ago, I began losing sexual attraction to him. He has obviously noticed.

First i lose interest, then i get ansty, get the wandering eye and then I want out. And I can NEVER even provide the guy with a legitimate reason for my actions. That is the inevitable course of my relationships. I often used to chalk it up to "he's just not right for me" until this time around, I'm very frustrated. I would LOVE for him to be "right for me" but I can't force it. I am the common denominator in alI my failed relationships. So the problem must be me, right?

Thus far, I have not been able to find anyone who can relate to this experience. I'd prefer a relatable discussion to a series of know-it-all answers.

2007-04-23 09:43:53 · 12 answers · asked by misha s. 1

My mum wont let me talk to my cousin because he has a drug problem. I know that sounds bad but hes my cousin and one of the best friends ive ever had! She wont let me talk to the guy i love for the same reason! My school friends and me just dont seem to get along! I go to a grammar school and nearly everyone there is bloody perfect. Take for example in an important gcse exam i got a B and i was very pleased about it. But then my teacher asks me if i wanted to re sit the whole exam again because she was expecting better results! My mum wont let me go out any more either because the school keeps calling up about me having behaviour problems and unauthorised absences! i know i shouldnt bunk school but i cant help it! i really need to get away from here i cant stand it! The only way out i can see is when i turn 18 and get to go to university! i cant wait that long and i dont know what to do because i really cant cope especially without my cousin and guy!
please help me work this out! thnx

2007-04-23 09:41:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey yall. There was this guy that liked me. he even told 1 of my friends. He would walk me to classes hang out at my locker, hug me, poke me, tickle me, spend luch with me instead of his friends. I liked him alot. then on friday and thursday of last week he wouldn't even talk to me, He'd totally ignore me!!! In fact, he even hung out with this chick who smokes different stuff and does nasty crap. Now, today, he was flirting BIG TIME again.

Now what should I do. Should I like just move on and forget him cause of what he did???

Help plz...

2007-04-23 09:40:22 · 9 answers · asked by Chelle 2

2007-04-23 09:40:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

assume you are boring because to them you appear to have a boring job?
Once I mention what I do, I don't get a chance to say much else. I do have a life outside of work, most of the women I have met on the West Coast judge guys too quickly, I never had this problem when I was on the East Coast

2007-04-23 09:39:37 · 13 answers · asked by Honey monster 2

There's a guy I like and I didn't straight out tell him but I think he got the hint and he told me he liked a girl but their friends were keeping them apart. And he was getting sick of it he wouldn't tell me her name and my parnets and my friends think Its me but I don't know. I talked to him on yahoo almost everyday and in school but he kinda hurt me so I didn't talk to him at all today is what I'm doing right? If not what should I do? Please help me! Thank you.

2007-04-23 09:36:19 · 15 answers · asked by **JaeAnswers! 4

k well i think my boyfriend chris likes my best friend mia because i mean after lunch we were all hanging out and just talking & i mean i was sitting next 2 him & stuff but i mean then we all got ^ and moved so i mean when we were walking he couldnt keep smelling her hair & i mean her hair didnt smell good today it smelled like burned hair cuz she straightens her hair everyday & she has naturally curly hair but anyways and i have no clue why he kept smelling her hair and then at the end of the day me and chris are both walkers so we walk home together & then he couldnt stop talking about mia & i mean he never talks about me & he said ohh man dude i got 2 call mia sometime & all mia says about chris is jordan eeewww i cant believe ur going out with him & she thinx he is ugly but he isnt and everyone likes him except for her & i mean i have never stopped liking him! & he pushed me into my friend kooper and i pushed him back and he went into the wall! and he has a bad burn on his leg~!~!~

2007-04-23 09:36:18 · 17 answers · asked by Jordannnn 2