How do I make myself more appealing to my boyfriend, who claimed that he was "bored" when talking to me?
2007-04-23 09:48:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you ask your boyfriend how you could be more appealing to him? Don't change yourself too much though. If he wants a different woman, he should find someone else. If he said he was bored talking to you once, no big deal. If he's bored with you in general, it sounds like you're not what he's looking for and you'd both be better off dating other people.
2007-04-23 09:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not our job to entertain some one every minute of the day and if he is going to be putting you down like that why would you even want to keep him around? But if you do and want to put up with the insults that are bound to come later then read more books, not all fiction, on things that interest him so you can talk about it, go to some movies that he likes or to sporting events that he likes. But if your not in to those then you are just being fake and he will know that. Best advice is to dump that zero and get a hero that don't think that the real you is boring!
2007-04-23 09:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend a few days NOT talking, and see how bored he is after that, if he is still bored, then you dont need to be with him. but i imagine that he will break down and call you and be far from bored. chances are you are not having enough alone time to be interesting to eachother. if you know what they do all day they arent that interesting, ya know, guys like a little mystery. something to discover every day.
2007-04-23 09:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bobby L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is bored then you may want to talk about things that interest you both. However, he also needs to as well. Kinda sounds like talking is not what he wants. More like what he wants to get. May want to think about getting a new man.
2007-04-23 09:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about him. My guy friend talks about himself all the time. He said there's always more to say since he's the greatest thing on earth. Or talk about something he wants to talk about. Ask him what he wants to talk about. If he can't come up with anything tell him that he's boring you.
2007-04-23 09:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 23:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on some lingerie and lay in your bed with candles lit and soft music playing and say 'come here you bad boy, I been a bad girl' ya know, somethin like that!
2007-04-23 09:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprise him randomly. like some day wear a super push up bra with a low cut shirt. some day give him a flower. some day run up behind him and hug him. just change your routine a little bit when you hang out. and give him little i love you gifts sometimes.
2007-04-23 09:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by chantrelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let hin UNbore himself. You're not around to be his slave.
2007-04-23 09:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try naked, and playing... and a few other things I can think of... :D
2007-04-23 09:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋