she has a boyfriend and she keeps having sex with him and everytime i am with her she tells me to join in but i have always said i am saving it for marrige. what can i tell her to make her stop pressuring me?
2007-04-23 21:11:11 · 8 answers · asked by in love :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
congratulations for your decision..i just wish other teenagers will have the same thinking as yours..anyways, about your friend..be firmed with your decision.if she can really sense, and if she is indeed a true friend to you she would not advise you to do that.if she insists, then its about time for you and your bestfriend to go on separate ways..she's not a good influence to you.goodluck!
thanks!
2007-04-23 21:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ever let someone pressure you into doing anything that you are not ready to do. That is why we have our own minds. Tell your friend that if she wants to have sex, that is her business, but you are waiting for the right person. Tell her that if she is really your friend that she would not try to push you into something you do not want to do.
I just hope that she knows enough to use protection, or she will be missing the fun of high school while she is taking care of a baby.
2007-04-23 21:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a mew friend. Theres no reason anyone at age 14 should have sex unless they're really wanting to be stupid and doing stinky diapers next 2 years.
2007-04-23 21:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by cnn360coffeebubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm saving for marriage too and if I was in your position then I would tell her in private somewhere straight off that you don't want to have sex and if she chooses too then that's fine for her but stop pressuring you to aswell because it's your decision not hers.
2007-04-23 21:15:38 · answer #4 · answered by sumthing_to_say_12 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
stay away from your best friend? she is not a good influence for you. if you can't stay away, make sure you won't give in to the pressure she is exerting. you have your own life, your own decisions. don't let anybody influence you by doing something you don't want to do. tell her to respect your wishes and stop pressuring you. if she won't, my advice is to look for another friend.
2007-04-23 21:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep telling her that your not going to do that, act like it's grossing you out or something, lol.
If that doesn't work just straight up tell her your not going to do that. XD
If you don't want to, you don't have to, And if you don't want her to talk to you about having sex, ask her not to..
My best friend is like that with me, I asked her to stop talking about sex around me, And she did.
Just try it. XD
2007-04-23 21:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by Ambberrr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threaten to tell her mom if she keeps asking. Tell her that it makes you angry and that she is disrespecting you as a person everytime she asks and just because she makes a stupid mistake doesn't mean that you have to.
2007-04-23 21:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by Kelsey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell her flat out YOU ARE NOT INTERESTED and let her do what she pleases and what pleases her.
2007-04-23 21:22:08 · answer #8 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋