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my ex of 2.5 years cheated one me,i gave him another chance. He changed fully,uno things got better. Until i found out that while we were on a break 6 months ago he cheated then. For the last 2 months we have been apart, but he has also been begging etc wanting me to take him back etc etc. Howver the other night we saw each other in town, he fully madeout with another girl in my face. This has fully put me off him.and proves hell never change. How do i get over him and move on?

2007-04-23 19:05:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Well, I think you just answered your own question. You know now for a fact that he'll never change, so you tell yourself to move on and you do just that. That's the easy part. Getting over him won't be that simple. It'll take time for you to get past the pain, as well as all the good times you two shared. You might also be angry at yourself for a while for taking him back so many times after he "f**ed" you over. Every time you even think of getting back together with him, just picture him making out with that girl in front of you. Tell yourself that your dignity and self respect are on the line. If you take him back after this, he'll walk all over you b/c you've pretty much given him the OK. If he keeps begging to get back together with you, it's b/c he wants to be with someone he thinks he can mess with. Don't fall for it again. Cut him out of your life once and for all and let time and karma take care of the rest.

2007-04-23 19:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by girlie 4 · 0 0

Hi,
I have been in a similiar situation, except i had 3 three children with my ex and that makes it a bit harder... we were together for 6 years too.. let me tell you what i did..

Every time i thought about him, or saw him,,, I made myself think about all the terrible things he did to me and my children.. If you keep thinking about the bad things trust me that will get you through alot....
Another thing i did was went on yahoo personals, im not saying you have to do this, but i found someone and we are getting married in august and im happier than ever now..

Good Luck and Have faith in yourself..
Dont be mistreated ever!!

2007-04-23 19:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by debbie 5 · 0 0

Yes he screwed you over but good. He keeps telling you he wants you back , But you know in your heart that he will never change. You know that there is nothing to be had by getting back into a relationship with him , Except pain and suffering!
Is this what you want? I don't think so! So get over him and move on, Because he'll only hurt you again and again.

2007-04-23 19:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 0 0

It is hard, all you can do is take the time to get over him. Don't go looking for a rebound guy because you'll end up making a mess out of your feelings and his. He doesn't seem to be worth it, so just kick back and focus on making yourself better. Pamper yourself, hang out with your friends and don't look back.

2007-04-23 19:11:31 · answer #4 · answered by gotstobe06 2 · 0 0

Just move on.. The sooner you move to someone else the sooner you will be over him... It will take a little while, but in the end you know you deserve better than him... That's all you got to think of is that he is a looser that doesn't deserve you.. Your a princess and thats how u should be treated...

2007-04-23 19:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Begin realizing that you deserve someone better than that. What he did is totally direspectful to you. My suggestion is to put on your best looking outfit, go out, grab you a new hunk, and start partying. It won't take him long to see what he will be missing. Too bad it will be too late for him!!!

2007-04-23 19:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0 0

Good for you - get the heck away from this man! He does not deserve you! He isn't worth it! You can do so much better!

Hmm.... you should get pamphlets about male enhancement surgery sent to his office, have someone really embarrassing call him at work, etc.

2007-04-23 19:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by superfish 3 · 0 0

It's just going to take time. You need to give yourself time to move on. You should pack away anything from your relationship and go out with your friends. Just live your life and you'll realize that one day you are just completely over him.

2007-04-23 19:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by Valerie 4 · 0 0

Remove his phone number from your speed-dial, and go have fun without him. Date a few guys, and remind yourself that he did this to you! He doesn't deserve you!

2007-04-23 19:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0 0

if you want to get down, down on the ground....cocaine. if you got bad news, you wanna kick them blues....cocaine. I'm not suggesting you take cocaine, put the song on and do a funky dance

2007-04-23 19:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by big_round_geriatric 1 · 0 0

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