Why is it when a guy first sees a girl, they see their bubes or butt first instead of their face and smile?
2007-04-23 20:20:12 · 15 answers · asked by blondie_cheerangel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
becaues its in their genetic makeup
2007-04-23 20:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by Clarissa M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think guys that like your body instead of your personality will never "love" you. And that's what you expect of someone that likes you will eventually do right? Not all guys are like that, find one that will appreciate you as a person and also happen to enjoy your body's appeal. There are ways to test things like that. I.E don't go look in the wrong places like clubs, bars, or don't dress in a manner where you know it's distracting and attracting the wrong kind of attention. Guys are very visual creatures. Most men's eyes do gravitate towards your face, but boys will always be looking where they aren't suppose to. There are good guys out there, but woman to woman, you know you look at a guys face and automatically size him up before you let him approach you anyway. It's second nature. So it shouldn't really matter, cause it's hard thing to change, what matters is why they stay around you and if it's for the right reasons.
2007-04-24 03:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These guys like to smile a lot and be happy....so they incorporate personality and body when liking a women...... the body causes a guy to smile before the personality is revealed. So that way they or we win off the bat. However if a guy doesn't entertain your personality but your body, then he might just be a lil immature or just a freak.
2007-04-24 03:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Marly Mar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys unlike Women are first attracted to a female threw looks, that's how God made us. This is a fact. From there certain things follow. From me being of the male Gender I can personally tell you, Personality is if not more then half of thee equation. Men will sleep with a pretty women just to get a nut. But if shes dumb...thats the extent of it. Why would u want to hang out with dumb people that dont intrest you?
2007-04-24 03:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Rich C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy likes you only for your body then he probably doesn't like you or has not had the opportunity to get to know you other than your body. If you want a guy to like you for you don't give him your body until you see that he likes your personality. You want to make sure you have things in common and that he is going to treat you well. Anything worth having is worth waiting for.
2007-04-24 03:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by driver fixer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be meeting the wrong guys. A lot of guys will look at your boobs before your face, but there are heaps out there that will look you in the eye too. It helps when it comes to being attracted to personality if you have something to talk about too. The bimbo act only gets you so far........
2007-04-24 03:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by Barkditch 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
look personality is very important, thats who that person IS. but cut us some slack... the outside is what we see 24/7 and i mean hey a mate has to be attractive. actually i think theres sometimes physical attributes that connect with personality attributes that must be there....if that makes sense.
2007-04-24 03:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by pinksonthewing 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because, according to studies, men think about sex all day long, and women only think about it a couple of times a day.
2007-04-24 03:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because we see the body first... and much much later your personality!!!
2007-04-24 03:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by AdultMALE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men look at your face and smile, boys look at the boobs first.
2007-04-24 03:23:17 · answer #10 · answered by <~*Megan*~> 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do some girls always ask this question?
Only most guys do that, not all of them.
2007-04-24 03:23:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋