Singles & Dating - 19 April 2007

they say sex on the first date often end up to be one night stand but what if your so attractive to each other both of you can't hold back. Does that mean the chance of a relationship is doomed and if not and you end up with that person for a long time does the fact you already had sex make the relationship less exicting?

2007-04-19 05:23:22 · 15 answers · asked by brownskinrose 1

My boyfriend is amazing. Everything would be perfect except for one thing he is joining the military. I'm still in high school so i don't know if we should call it off...

2007-04-19 05:22:09 · 18 answers · asked by Lizbiz333 2

i'm pretty self conscious in bed so how what do guys like when girls on top? i havent had a lot of experience with being on top but i want to please my guy..please help!

2007-04-19 05:22:06 · 29 answers · asked by badreligionbeauty 1

2007-04-19 05:22:03 · 7 answers · asked by WEST SIDE EL KASPER 1

Last summer, my boyfriend of 3 years confessed to me that he cheated on me, we broke up. It was really hard to get over him.
Then last fall, I started seeing this other guy, V, he said that he loves me, but at the time I was not ready to fall in love again. There are many times I kept pushing him away and now he's afraid that he'll get hurt so he built up this shield and he's afraid to love me as much.
I realized now that I have fallen in love with him, but he told me that career is his main priority right now and we are at different points in our lives. I want a serious committed relationship, but I don't think he is.
I'm moving to another city in 2 weeks and I'm not a long distance type of person. But I will try to make it work if he is committed enough. I don't know if he will though.
What do you think?

2007-04-19 05:21:44 · 9 answers · asked by azzurra 1

I really want to be in a relationship and have never dated anyone. I am 24 years old and I'm tired of running into guys who are only attracted to me for my looks or just want sex. And I'm starting to think the relationship thing is not going to happen.

2007-04-19 05:18:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay well
i have a boyfriend that i love very much and he lives about 3 hours away.
so he's close.
well i just saw him last weekend but saturday is the last day ill be able to see him until next month..i really wanna see him !
also i have another concern.
i got hurt really really bad in the past by my ex boyfriend.
i really dont want te same thing to happen again.
it hurt me soo bad that it took me months before i was completely over it .
i just really dont want him to hurt me,and he tells me he would never do anything to hurt me.
i just love him so much.
any ideas? advice? something.
thx alott.

2007-04-19 05:18:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have started liking someone who is in a relationship but is trying to get out of it. should i leave him alone or try

2007-04-19 05:11:32 · 34 answers · asked by Jess 1

I dated this one guy a few months ago and he was my friend before...we never dated until this jan because of the age difference ( 4 years...don't worry I'm 18). We never had sex but we did everything up until that. Ever since we broke up, he acts sometimes like we're still dating. He calls me names, and he likes sleeping with me but he's never tried anything on me ever since. Lately, though i miss having him around and i know that we weren't too great at the relationship part, but the sexual was amazing. Do you think it would be bad if i ask him to be friends with benefits for a while?

2007-04-19 05:10:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have known this guy for about a year. Over the year we have become REALLY good friends. Funny thing is that we just admitted to each other that we REALLY like each other...as in more than a friend. We have been dating officially for 2 months. Considering we are best friends and now dating, what do you think is the worst thing that could happen if we move in together? A year of friendship and two months of dating. I'm sure he is my soul mate. What do you think about moving in together?

2007-04-19 05:10:45 · 13 answers · asked by Bunnikins 2

I started out likin this boy at school a lot but then it jus got stronger and stronger as i knew and talked to him longer and then we were talkin but never went out cuz stuff happened and then we stopped and started again..he treats me bad sometimes but most of the time its all good..but he tol me he likes lots of girls nd sumtimes he likes me cuz i asked if he liked me or not cuz i was gettin tired of his games..soo wat shud i do? how can i get over him? i tried like 4 times over the year nd it jus wont go away..if nethin its jus gettin stronger nd my heart is achin for him to notice wat he does to me..

2007-04-19 05:03:35 · 20 answers · asked by ~Bahamian_Queen~ 2

theres this guy that i'm seeing- we never got into a relationship (yet) because we both just got out of a bad one (i guess we're both each others rebounds) but we became friends with benefits. and now he thinks that i only like him for that--and says that it's only lust. (not love)...and he wants to slow down this "friendship" by taking the "benefits" part out--so we can get to know each other better (and that will show if i actually love him, and not just lust him)

but the thing is....its not easy to go from being friends with benefits, to only friends. cause if you get the benefits part taken away from you, it will put a gap in your friendship, cause you were so use to only doing just that. i guess it means i only lust him, right?

how would you deal with this kind of situation??? when your feelings are lost.

2007-04-19 05:03:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-19 05:02:21 · 13 answers · asked by chanz8teen 2

2007-04-19 05:01:24 · 3 answers · asked by EaglesFan69 1

This guy james at work let me see him check me out the other day. and he always lifts is eyebrows at me?

2007-04-19 05:01:19 · 21 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1

ok ive asked this question a couple of times....but i still havent recieved the right answer... i am 16 and i want to wait til marriage to have sex and everyone says that every guy will leave me... but there is still a a chance of a guy leaving if i do it so im really confused im thinking maybe i should change my mind about the whole save it till marriage thing

2007-04-19 04:55:08 · 60 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1

I am torn as to what to do!

My ex ended our relationship out of the blue 3 mths ago. She was the love of my life!

She said her feelings changed in a short period and ended things. No amount of me persuading her to do otherwise had any effect.

I have now met someone else. We have loads in common, and I can see me and her really working. In fact, I could see us being together long term, sometimes you just get that feeling and I have only been out with her 4 times!

Trouble is, she is not my ex!! I know I will forget about my ex over time!

My ex has now been hinting that she made a mistake. What do I do????

Do I totally forget about my ex, blow her out, and concentrate on the new girl or see what is there with my ex??

2007-04-19 04:50:06 · 26 answers · asked by Paul S 1

What happens next?

2007-04-19 04:48:19 · 2 answers · asked by tigresspunk44 2

I'm bored.....................................................................

2007-04-19 04:46:23 · 12 answers · asked by Dylan B 2

2007-04-19 04:42:17 · 42 answers · asked by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3

Ok so me and my boyfriend were together for 6 months. He was my first love and we broke up a little while ago. We told eachother that we still wanted to remain frineds because neither one of us could imagine not talking to eachother, Now we just hook up but still act like we are together, just without the title of boyfrined and girlfriend. I dont know if this is something i should continue to do or not. It sounds so bad to say but sometimes i feel that its better to have a part of him, then to not have any of him at all. What do i do?

2007-04-19 04:42:16 · 23 answers · asked by confused 1

is there any place that you always wanted to get laid at or in?. let me know,give me idea's i can take on myself.thanks and have fun!. life is short!.

2007-04-19 04:41:59 · 7 answers · asked by allforzaye 1

2007-04-19 04:37:09 · 34 answers · asked by zara berry 1

You capture my heart
When I just hear you laugh
And though we are young
You're my missing half
When you're playing with children
And showing them love
You make my heart beat
Like your sent from above
You capture my heart
With your captivating beauty
And inspire me to make
Caring for you my duty
When you're walking, you move
With such style and grace
And I could study all day
Every line of your face
I'll search high and low
Until each other we find
But now for today
You exist in my mind
I'll learn your inner beauty
On the net when we chat
And know as you type
That my heart's where you're at
When we are apart
It's you I will miss
And long once again
To taste your sweet kiss
I'll embrace you so close
Each night and each day
But for now I will search
Till I find you .................Someday

2007-04-19 04:31:52 · 11 answers · asked by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2

all my crushes didn't like me...
one of them used to stare at me and suddenly stopped staring...
there was guy that I was like 99% he liked me (I didn't like him) he used to stare at me always...and now he doesn't look at me anymore...I dunno what other boys told him about me...boys in my grade are so stupid and mean...I wish I had a bf...I really need someone that loves me...
I never had a bf
I'm not ugly
there are girls who are uglier than me who have bfs
why all this?

2007-04-19 04:31:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents and i have never gotten along very well...i am hanging out with a guy this weekend who they have never met. I told them i was going to be staying the night at his house b/c he lives pretty far away. i am 18 just to let you know. So they told me that if i went to his house then i had to move out....i was like fine....i told them i was going ne ways. I have my own car, but the title is in their name b/c its cheaper. Can they take the car away even though i pay for it all?? also, they cant do anything about me leaving since im 18 can they??

2007-04-19 04:29:13 · 13 answers · asked by gibby411892003 1

became friends through chat.till now never seen each other.the relation was fine for some months.two months back suddendly the guy messaged the gal saying dont mesage me here after .she calls him but he disconnected the call.two of them didnot have contact for some months.after two months that guy sends mail to the gal saying sorry ..and has written mail saying " he had mistaken and wrongly send the message to her...and requested her to give her the phone number so that he can talk to her.he has specified that itz too late that he has realisd his mistake and came to know from the other friend with whom he was suppose to be angry before".now the suggestion what i wanted to know is is it good for the gal to keep in touch with that guy ,i mean should she give her number to that guy or not..is that guy is just playing fool with that gal..or just he wanted some time pass with that girl...

2007-04-19 04:27:49 · 1 answers · asked by abc 2

me and my boyfriend have been together for 14 months now. its a very like protective relationship, hes very protective of me and gets very intimated by all my other brothers friends. last week we finally had sex for the first time. after we had it, like all this week hes been acting so different, like he had no interest in me. i would get very emontional and moody all the time because you dont act like that to your gf, espesically after she gives her virginity up to you. last night he told me basically he just doesnt care about anything anymore, only school. he doesnt care about me and him or our relationship. he told me he loves me so much and everything. nd broke up with me. idk what to do, ive been such a reck and everything. its even harder cus he was my bestfriend b4 this, and were in the same classes, and hang out with the same friends. and its not like we can get new friends cause we all hang out every weekend for like forever now. IDK WHAT TO DO, IM A RECK PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-04-19 04:26:14 · 18 answers · asked by chrissy 1

So what was I doing in that daydream you had about me and you today?

2007-04-19 04:23:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello..What will I do on my situation,I met this guy,couple of weeks ago.we had a great time together,then suddenly he stopped communicating with me.then last week he wrote a message saying he was sorry for not talking to me,because he was too busy with work,he asked me if still want to have contact with him and I told him I totally understand his situation and im not at him(but actually I was wondering why he disappeared) then I got a message from him again.he was saying he likes me and its not fair on my part to see him coz for the next few months he will be busy with his work and business and he cannot give me the attention I deserve..

My question is whats the best thing to do? Why he has to come back then he’ll just say those things…Is this his way of dumping me?Is this goodbye?

2007-04-19 04:23:16 · 10 answers · asked by britanny 1