all my crushes didn't like me...
one of them used to stare at me and suddenly stopped staring...
there was guy that I was like 99% he liked me (I didn't like him) he used to stare at me always...and now he doesn't look at me anymore...I dunno what other boys told him about me...boys in my grade are so stupid and mean...I wish I had a bf...I really need someone that loves me...
I never had a bf
I'm not ugly
there are girls who are uglier than me who have bfs
why all this?
2007-04-19 04:31:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't say I'm pretty...
maybe you guys didn't understand....its not my personality...because if it was for that I would have been the top 1 girl chose by boys in my grade...pretty and ugglier girls are all bi.tches in my grade...I have a very low self-esteem of my self and I'm trying to think that I'm pretty...my personality is one of the best in my grade...you guys are suppose to bring up not down... :S
2007-04-19 05:42:34 · update #1
Hunneh trust me there is nothing wrong with you - it's them...you're just going through a phase when anyone who is isn't pretty or busty would easily blend in therefore become invisible..I never had a boyfriend..same goes from my friends who are super gorgeous...!
I remembered being so upset about the ugly girls having boyfriends and all but actually its the best damn thing that ever happened to me.....boys your age are looking for one thing and one thing only...they dont care who they get on with...
stop looking for love and chasing after guys..lyou'll end up disappointed..et them come after you...that's how you know if they're worth it.....
2007-04-19 04:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Perfection Personified 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie it has nothing to do with your looks, it's all personality. It's not nice to call people ulgy. Yes in your eyes there may be individuals that might be unattractive to you. But that doesn't mean the whole world see through your eyes. So don't call anyone ugly. Just maybe say not your type. So how can you say your crushes, just because they stare doesn't mean anything. So I suggest get a pet or spend more time with your parents if you are craving love. You will a get a bf when the time is right. And for some reason when you are looking, they never come. When you stop or give up, he will fall right in your lap. So try to make friends with the opposite sex first and see what happens from there.
2007-04-19 04:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by misscancer10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so desperate for a BF? Is it for fun, for your self-esteem, or what? Just sit down, take deep breath, and think about this question carefully.
Then think also these few things:
1. Do I behave properly? I don't know your face, but I prefer an ordinary girl who behaves nicely to a beautiful girl who behaves poorly, over-acting, etc. It's too scarry!
2. What if I cannot get BF? And what if I can get one? For every choice, you have to pay the price. Are you ready to pay the price? Are you mature enough?
3. What about your parents? Sometimes they are against your decision, to have a BF, and if this is the case, you will face a very hard challenge.
Just don't worry. I am over 25, but up to now I haven't had any single girlfriend for my whole lifetime, although there were some interesting girls. I am just not ready. I want to concentrate on my career and study first. Actually, I know some women over 30, and they haven't married, but they devote their time to do very noble social works. I admire them because they have made a brave decision for a good and sound reason. And I see their lives are not ordinary lives, they are extraordinary people! Think about higher and greater purposes, just like Mother Teresa....
2007-04-19 04:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by r083r70v1ch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not all about looks you know.
If you got a **** personality who wants to be with you.
I'd take the freakshow over the boring mundane mono clone anyday.
Maybe the guys are losing interest because they are too shy to make the first move. So why don't you?
And its not always the guys that stare at you that like you... If my boyfriend hadn't made the first move I would have never known, I never caught him looking at me.
So be nice, RADIATE your (I'm sure) sparkling personality and be friendly to everyone, even the people that no body likes or talks to, be bold, stare back, and make the first move.
P.s, a person below me said wear makeup, remember its not about looks.
2007-04-19 04:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by Yvette! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF at any point in life, you feel like you NEED to be loved... Something is wrong. Maybe you should talk to your friends about any rumors or anything they may have heard. As far as saying uglier girls have boyfriends... Maybe they are ugly on the outside, but very nice people... and maybe you need to be a little nicer or friendlier. Good luck
2007-04-19 04:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have a bf until I was 21, and I am really beautiful. But as long as you love yourself it don't matter who love you it all start with you. You will get a boyfriend when the time is right. Just hold on nothing is wrong with you my dear. the right guy will come along.
2007-04-19 04:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Asia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll put this simply: YOU DON'T NEED ANYONE TO BE HAPPY!!
NEVER go into a relationship needing love. It's unhealthy AND it's going to set you up for failure.
I didn't have a boyfriend unti l was 17. I wasn't kissed until I was 19.
Take my advice: love life NOW. Don't complain about what you don't have, and just ENJOY the life you have.
2007-04-19 04:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sounding a bit desperate this alon may turn guys head away... the shear fact that you say you need one shows your not ready for one mentally.. you caught up by a fad of having one than needing one!!! slow your jets and get happy with out one that confidence will be seen and will given you more chances of actually having a meaningful relationship...
you and no woman needs a man to be happy, relationships are not to be taken lightly you have more than your own feelings at hand with them nor should they be taken so seriously that they arent fun either....
alow yourself to find happiness with in yurself before you try to make your self happy with a boy... b/c if you cant be happy with yourself first when the guy comes alog you still wont be happy and causing you and him more problems:)
you have plenty of time for boys:) trust me...
relax and find your inner hapiness and stop being so desperate to find love it will come to you when our ready for it:) it always finds a way:)
2007-04-19 05:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by patricia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young and cute.
The right one will come along as soon as you know it.
If you try too hard you might get a mean one and you dont want to settle for less.
Sometimes its about the personality. Work on being more friendly and upbeat.
2007-04-19 04:38:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family loves you. Be happy for that. You don't need anyone else to love you right now. And if you find someone who will love you, but you go into it with that attitude, you're just asking for trouble. Be happy for what you have. Relationships will come in time, don't rush into anything.
2007-04-19 04:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by vospire s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋