I really want to be in a relationship and have never dated anyone. I am 24 years old and I'm tired of running into guys who are only attracted to me for my looks or just want sex. And I'm starting to think the relationship thing is not going to happen.
2007-04-19 05:18:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tell alot of people that women have so much power over a guy that most women don't even know they have. You control your body not a guy. You know what you got to set a standard for yourself and let guys know hey if you want this you got to commit and that justy don't mean just a long relationship that also means something call a ring around my finger before i give up the goodies. Love does exist but if you really want to find true love you got to let guys now form the jump cut yourself off from them. That is the true test don't let them get to close or let them touch a certain body part i mean you got to set it up to make a man really love you and want you. Hey my girl do it and i am telling you i will wait forever and i love her so much more because of that because she values herself i'm not saying that u don't but you have to set it up and i promise you if you do that u will meet that one that is willing to wait and you will be happy.
2007-04-19 05:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by blaw7162000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does.
Re: age 24 and never having dated, this seems to be becoming an issue for you. Are you sure your really trying?
1) Men need time to get past the fact that you're pretty. This is a good thing. Well done. You pass the first cursory examination without even trying.
2) Men need to get over the obsession with where the next bonk is coming from before they can even contemplate tenderness. It has to be that way round. There was a species that tried it your way round. They became extinct in one generation.
3) Try finding someone you fancy, break your dry spell, and persuade him that his next few bonks are coming from you. You'll be amazed at the mileage and leverage that gives you, and the undivided attention he can give you once his mind is free of worry.
4) Then, you can get to the bit with all the cuddles and spooning that you want.
2007-04-19 12:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by Vitruvius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's exactly what I used to think, and then I just met him. That was a year and half ago and we are now engaged to be married next year. Whenever someone told that he will come when the time is right, I never believed them, but in the end that's exactly what happened. Just go with the flow, live your life like you don't care if yuo had a man or not, and when you least expect it, he will come to you too!
2007-04-19 12:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by AMS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not interested in a relashionship but I'm told 100 times I'm a good lover... What do you do tonight ?
Kidding... True love exists. Don't look for it. Have fun, and one day, you wake up near a guy... And you think to yourself... It's him.
Be patient, laugh, have fun, take care of yourself, don't pressure the guys you meet or date, let things go naturally, break up quickly when you don't like something , cos life is short, and you'll find him. love
2007-04-19 12:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're just the same. You still fall in love so love still exists. Love is just hiding to a person that matches on what you are looking for. It is really hard to a find but you don't know that he is just beside you, waiting to be seen. If you had found that person, don't let it go! Trust me, it really goes away easily
2007-04-19 12:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by Xandra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does exist, you know when its there. Say you havnt seen the person and you talk or arrange a met up you get that warm feeling inside. Maybe thats just me but its addictive!
2007-04-19 12:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Millsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't go out looking for "love" because the first sweet guy you think you may actually like...you'll just end up falling for him too hard and getting hurt. thats good that you dont want a guy just because he thinks your pretty. just hang in there, someone will come along soon enough!
2007-04-19 12:24:19 · answer #7 · answered by alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love exist. really it does.
Theres lots of guys out there that will love women for who they are and not just looks and sex.But Most women seem to not be attracted to those types, apparently Being in love and caring makes you a wuss. and women seem to not like wusses.
2007-04-19 12:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me alot of mistakes to find the right guy, my best friend, my soul mate and I love him the most for giving me my baby.
Its about getting exactly what you want at the cost of giving someone the same thing back! shazaam!
2007-04-19 12:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by almost_angelic_jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to receive Love you must first give Love...Love is a learned emotion and you are not born with it... It is an acquired learning experience.... It is a gift you give yourself and others.....
2007-04-19 12:29:02 · answer #10 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋