Hello..What will I do on my situation,I met this guy,couple of weeks ago.we had a great time together,then suddenly he stopped communicating with me.then last week he wrote a message saying he was sorry for not talking to me,because he was too busy with work,he asked me if still want to have contact with him and I told him I totally understand his situation and im not at him(but actually I was wondering why he disappeared) then I got a message from him again.he was saying he likes me and its not fair on my part to see him coz for the next few months he will be busy with his work and business and he cannot give me the attention I deserve..
My question is whats the best thing to do? Why he has to come back then he’ll just say those things…Is this his way of dumping me?Is this goodbye?
2007-04-19 04:23:16 · 10 answers · asked by britanny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't seem like you're being dumped to me. If that was the case he wouldn't have sent you a message at all. He's explaining himself to you because he obviously likes you. Tell him you'd like to continue talking to him, even if it's just by email, for the next few months, until his work calms down some. Then the two of you can work on getting together if you think it's still worth it.
2007-04-19 04:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by misguidedrose18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, same situation as what im in
no it does not mean that hes dumping you
my bf and i went out for a few months, and then he got very busy with work and so he told me that he wants to take a break and its been 2 months now, and i plan to give him until summer, if by then he doesnt come around, then i plan to move on and go to a convent (jk)
so just give him some time, and if he doesnt come around, forget him and move on
2007-04-19 04:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by sweethyedreamer213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i say go your different ways. if he claims he's too busy with work, then he's not ready for a relationship and another commitment. Maybe just stay friends and see where it will go?
Or take a 'break' and 'see other ppl'.. Just dont hang on to someone who isnt going to take the time for you.
2007-04-19 04:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say goodbye. If he real;y wanted to stay in contact with you he would. Even Presidents of the United States have courted women while in office. He is lazy, and you will always be going thru this routine.
2007-04-19 04:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
imo, well this guy needs to know that is if he wants to be with you and everything, then he needs to make sacrifices for someone they want to be with. He most likely is not dumping you but seems to put his job before his love life. you need to ask him if he really likes you and if he does, then he has to do something about this job of his.
2007-04-19 04:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Stanski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's goodbye in the best way possible I guess. He's just giving you the brush off!
2007-04-19 04:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Lady C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion - guys are jerks, they dont admit the truth but instead they come up with loads of excuses. I think you need to move on - if he really wanted you, he would do all he can to keep you, not telling you what he said. Move on babe & find someone who can treat you right!
2007-04-19 04:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by chasey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he being very considerate if you ask me. hes being up front about not being able to commit a lot of time to you. take it for what its worth. if its meant to be then it will work out. in reality hes telling u not to commit to just him and wait around for this relationship to develop. hes telling u he cares but dont get your hopes up, keep dating and enjoying your life with or without him.
2007-04-19 04:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 06:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know him but it could be his way of letting you down gently.
2007-04-19 04:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋