I really wanted this feeling to fede... i don't know how and when.. its been a year seens we broke-up but still the pain is fresh when-ever i see HIm... He doesn't have any Fiancee right now, and i don't have BF also.. I have many admirers but no one of them can replaced my EX inside my heart... what shud i do?
2007-04-19 21:54:11 · 14 answers · asked by Chinese Cutie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just think about it this way " the world is made up of only men and women, you're young and guys will come and go like crazy" life's too too short to be sad over an Ex. its hard but you needa get out and be happy. you cant keep comparing him to other guys, cause they're not him. but why not give them a chance, it might turn out to be something really good!
2007-04-19 22:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel bad because you have allowed him to live rent free in your head. You have created a fantasy of what your relationship was like though it was grounded in reality it has become some mythical life force that would not be at home in the real world. Just move on if you quit taking it out to play with it you will find it quickly recedes into the background and becomes the tiny little memory of what was long ago. Don't toy with your own emotions!
2007-04-19 22:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear things didn't work out. You know, I could understand how you are feeling because I have been in the same exact position but not for 2 years it's a little less. Honestly, time heals. I think the best thing to do is to remove him from contact, because if you keep in touch you will not get over him. I suggest hanging out with your friends, doing things you love to do. Try not to think about him. Think about other things, open your mind up. Have fun. Time heals, trust me! You'll be alright :]
2016-05-19 03:45:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well look at why you broke up with him in the first place? Maybe it's not ment to be between you too........even though it hurts and trust i kno you have to let go and move on and find someone else. I don't care what no one says ur always gonna have feelings for him because u obviously love or had loved him at one point or another and he'll always have a special place in ur heart weather ur together or weather ur not together anymore. But i say you should still move on to someone better thats gonna treat you right.
2007-04-19 22:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by снυlα вαчвεε 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my dear dear girl, I really feel your pain.
You are so fortunate however that you do see him still,
honestly I once felt this way about a boyfriend and I wish so badly that I had seen him again, I would have told him everything - forget pride, forget rejection, forget anything else except the feeling in your heart..... you owe it to yourself and also to him to tell him the truth about your feelings.
I know it would take alot of courage for you to do this but please believe me - it will be too late if you leave it for much longer, do it soon...... the worst thing that could happen is for him to tell you that he doesnt believe he shares the same feelings for you - and then you can get over him...... but remember he could still have these feelings and that is what I would go with, be positive, it may work out with him.
Good luck sweety, I really feel for you and you really owe it to him but especially to you to try once again.
God bless you, grant you the love you deserve. X O X
2007-04-19 22:04:54 · answer #5 · answered by gudsport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his doors are still open then try to reconcile with him. Maybe he's just waiting for you. But if not, then just try to move on. Go somewhere else and burn your bridges that connect you with him. It's hard but it's a must.
I'm in the same situation like yours. I don't even use a cellphone anymore because I'm afraid that he'll contact me. I'm almost successful. But he got Mom's cellphone number and sent me message on my birthday.
I'm almost successful on getting over him but he keeps on pulling me back.
And I hate it!!
2007-04-19 22:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by peperoni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with different guys, even if they aren't as good in your eyes atleast they want to be with you not your EX. So just live on and go out have fun then eventually just totally forget about him since you've found alot of different friends.
2007-04-19 21:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
C IF U DEPARTED for any reason then okay and if only ego problem was there then go & talk to him else forget. It s in ur favour
2007-04-19 21:59:19 · answer #8 · answered by cool guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but your always gonna have feelings for him. They may subside but you will always care about him. just try to get on with your life, try to meet some nice guys, go on dates and the feelings will get less.good luck
2007-04-19 21:59:15 · answer #9 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up over something he did, it's foolish to go back. If you broke up over something you did, it might be time to ask for forgiveness. If you mutually broke up....why?
2007-04-19 22:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋