John* and I have been on and off for a while now. The first time we broke up was maybe 6 months ago. A fortnight or so after we broke up, we started getting close again. He would always say Hi, call my name and tap me on my shoulder and smile his beautiful smile. I couldnt help falling back in love with him.
After a month of this, he started to ignore me, and whenever I would look at him and ask a question, he would look away and give me extremely short answers, like he didnt want to talk to me. Then, next month, he would be nice and sweet and flirty again. The same month, he asked me out, and I accepted. During the time we were going out, he started being mean again. After one week, we were over..again. Then after 2 weeks or so, he started to text me, to instant message me thing like "ur so cute" etc etc. He would help me with my homework, and phone me at night.
A week after being nice to me. He started to ignore me agn. He would hug girls and flirt with them in front of me. Help!
2007-04-19 21:50:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He plays games. Either keep playing them with him and get frustrated or move on and be content with someone who doesn't play stupid games.
2007-04-19 21:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you like an instrument. Question is, are you going to allow him to do so? Or get firm and move on? He will pull all the right strings when he senses you're tiring of it and as soon as you let down your guard and feel safe, he'll do it again.
He plays games. He's immature and has issues and not someone you should waste your time on. He's not for you. Anybody that does this and plays these games does not deserve to have someone in their life.
He needs to learn a few lessons and going back to him continually is not going to help him. You are in actual fact giving him access to do the same thing to you time and time again, which is never going to teach him anything. You're literally giving him permission to continue.
Leave and do NOT go back for more, unless you wish to be a glutton for punishment. You're worth much more than that and he's an idiot.
2007-04-19 22:00:49 · answer #2 · answered by adam_antics34 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You want help you got it! Cut all ties with this ''man'' after everything i read he is the exact same way my ex was and btw his name is John. What your bf or ex is doing is playing with your head. He is making you believe he loves you guys like this don't change and all they really want to do is please themselves they don't give a crap who they hurt. He is flirting with girls because he is the type that is selfish and doesn't care how you feel. He most likely is cheating on you im not just saying that because of my experience with my ex but because i know this type too well after putting up with all the bs on and off for years. Not only are you being out to be his fool he is risking your health what if he gives you an STD like my ex did to me it's not a joke. You may love him and it is hard to just cut all ties from the person you love but you gotta do it for yourself. Prove to him you are NOT a fool and enough is enough and that he doesn't deserve you. Time heals all wounds you need to move on and find a guy that is a REAL man and doesn't play games with you.
2007-04-19 22:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it*s never easy with these type of "boys". I call them boys cos that's what they are. Clearly he is not that into you like you are into him. Try to be who you are and don't wait for him. There are others who are out there and might be interested in you. He clearly can't decide who he wants or he is just not ready for any commitment at all, but if you are then move on. Don't waste time on him.He might realize that you there is something more to you than he knows and that he had taken you for granted. He is not worth it. It may be difficult to detache yourself from him but believe me in the long run YOU ARE BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM he doesn't love you or respect you the way you should be loved and respected. Stay true to yourself and trust in yourself to find someone more worthier than him. YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY AND YOU DESERVE THE BEST INYOUR HAPPINESS. Hope this helps.
2007-04-19 22:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by Roan29 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
:-s that guy's a total jerk!
I say YOU start ignoring him and NEVER look back again!
Obviously he's just playing and having fun with you, but when he gets bored or something "better" comes along, he starts ignoring you, of course he knows he can do that because next time he talks to you, you'll be there waiting for him with your arms and heart open... I say give it a 180° turn and then just YOU ignore him completely... And even if he begs don't take him back, and never take him seriously again, not only you'll get rid of a scum bag, but you'll give him a taste of his own medicine!
Be strong, girl!
2007-04-19 22:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lizzie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 08:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can, try to ignore him the next time he calls. See how he would respond. Let him have the taste of being ignored by sby he likes. If he comes back again and treats you better, he likes you. If not, may be he is just lonely and you can just forget about him.
2007-04-19 21:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is playing you sweetheart, best is to cut him out!! Greet him but don't reply to his text msg or respond to his flirting, let it run like water off a ducks back. You deserve better & i'm sure you'll find someone that treats you like a lady! Be strong! GOOD LUCK!
2007-04-19 21:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Lolla D 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends, refuse to accept his texts, and move on.
2007-04-19 21:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lmfao what a dick.
well.. Find someone sexier who you get along with and make sure he sees you with him.
2007-04-19 21:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by phyrdraka 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋