she is 36 and iam 21 years old i meet her in yahoo chatting she used to come online daily for mee and chat for three hours daily and she says that she loves mee more then anything she also told that she will come to india and now i feel hurted coz she left mee i cant even write my exams when i think of her iam crying for her daily if i send her message she is replying that ur your young to mee but when i ask her that do u love mee then she dont answer anything she loved mee i know that i cant stop thinking of her she used to call mee daily on my mobile and she used to talk now if i call her she is not lifting her call and last day she told mee that she loves a guy by name gin billy he is frm uk london any one help mee plsss i cant live like dis iam addicted to drinking wine and smoking too iam drinking wine just to forget her i cant forget her did she love mee ? or she just acted as she love mee ? hay i love her truely i decided if she dont come back i will die for her i love her
2007-04-19 22:03:38 · 13 answers · asked by john 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can understand you have known her only through net. She was probably first female you have been deeply in contact with and you have felt sense of security with her. Its call virtual attraction as you are not living with a person and have only experienced good side of her and fall in so call virtual love. But true love is when you see a person in real and able to spend time with them see them and their acts in reality. Once u have done this and fall in love then you can call a real love or else its emotional dependency or attraction which caused by hormonal changes in your body. Smoking only will give you health problems as well drinking wine or alcohol will make you feel better for a short while but in long term it will increases you depression and it will make things harder for you. Get over this man first concentrate on your study and exams because that where you future is. Once you have a bright future you will get lots of girls like her and better coming to you. Good luck and be happy. Spartan
2007-04-19 23:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by Spartan Total Warrior 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have went out with 3 asian gurls 2 were from the phillipines
Phillipino women are the most wishy washy females of the asian community .... I have spent allot of time in these households .. I learned that if you can win them over it wont last Anyway .. so dont wast your time .. she told you what you wanted to hear untill she found something else ... plus she was to old for you .... STAY UP PIMP ... Women from India are HOT too and better from a relationship stand point ..
No Women is worth Die'n 4 .. be strong MOVE ON
2007-04-19 22:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by duckalinie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen kid and listen good. The reason she is not talking to you is you are a broke as_. I have heard so many times about these chicks trick guys like you for money.
Kiddo, stop trying to make friends online, go out and make friends in real. If you have more friends in yahoo than in real life, you need to get a life.
Concentrate on your exam, get a job and chicks will come by themselves...
Now, if you still want to destroy your life... stop drinking wine. If you don't want to live like a Man, at least die like a Man. Get Chivas, or Black Label, and drink straight from the bottle. When you smoke, take filter out. Get a knife and write her name on your arm. Than jump off the tallest building you can find.
But before you do that, apologise to your parents for wasting there money. And there love to you mean nothing. And than while at it, blame them for raising a sissy like you.
2007-04-20 01:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Indy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got too wrapped up in something you should have been cautious with. Now you are acting the fool. Get a hold of yourself. The studies are twice as important as some woman who treated you nice from a distance on the Internet.
2007-04-19 22:07:25 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u r just 21 & she is 36...
I can understand that Love has no limits & boundaries..
but sometimes it happens that when we spend more time with someone we thinks that we are in love and then sometimes it also happens that we find our true love and realised that we are having just friendship between us...
might be because of age diff she realised or prefer a man to be her age in her life as a partner and she always looks you as a freinds to whom she loves.....
i can understand your feelings but you have a life ahead...
you will too find true love of your kind...
so cheer up....
2007-04-19 22:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by Truth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't met this woman, then you're not in love with her, you're in love with the idea of her. Sounds like she has the same problem herself. Find someone you can meet in person and appreciate some physical proximity before deciding that you're in love.
2007-04-19 22:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by House M.D. 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey john
believe me it was a guy impersonating a women he enjoys doing what he did to you.
so it is better to forget him [her]
2007-04-19 23:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by 8th wonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET REAL!!!!
you need to see a psychologist or psychiatrist...
it's all virtual love!
2007-04-19 22:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by jeung_gorgeous 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What kind of exams are you writing because you are an idiot
2007-04-19 22:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try 2 understand her...leave her way...
Love & leave..take it easy policy.....
U never played` musical chair'?..just go & sit on vacant chair.
That`s it...
2007-04-20 04:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by swaagat143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋