My boyfriend is taller than me. Can this be a problem?

Question

Here's the deal! My boyfriend is 174cm tall because he is a goalkeeper and I'm only 163cm tall.
I don' know if this can be a problem. Not only this, but I don't have a perfect body, but I'm a good person. I think because of the height and of the size of my body he will doubt me for someone else, although he says that he loves me. Help me.

Answer 1

There isn't much difference in your height! My b/f is ALOT taller than me, but this doesn't bother either of us. For him, it might make him feel more masculine & like he's protecting you, and all girls like that don't we! (Whether we admit it or not)

As for your view of a "perfect body", it will be totally different to you b/f's view of it! The girls you class as having a perfect body are those whose jobs depend on it, so they spend like 5 hours a day in the gym. If every girl had that amount of time (which would only mean they don't have a proper life) then we'd all look "perfect" in our eyes!! But then, we'd all look the same. You say your b/f loves you, so he wouldn't be with you if he didn't like your body! All men love women's humps & bumps, although we hate them. But each "imperfection" that we see on our body, is what men see as their perfection!! Love your body (Height AND Weight) for what it is. If your really disatisfied with it, then why don't you do some activities together that will make you feel more secure with your body. Such as swimming, or home exercises!!

Good luck, & chin up! Nobody (especially women) are completely happy with themselves. X

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Not a problem, girl. He chose you because of your inner beauty not on your look or something else. Your inner beauty shines, and this will outweigh others and balance up all that you think which is not perfect. Appearance never matters, believe me. Put yourself in your boyfriend's shoe, will you choose a pretty girl with attitude problem or a ok looking girl with inner beauty? Don't worry too much. Trust your boyfriend. Anyway, by reading your question, I don't think you look bad, you probably lack of confidence. You are beautiful, always think this way :) Cheers, don't grumble anymore. You are good enough. You are a nice person, thats what matters the most.

Answer 4

Clearly your lacking in self esteam. Not unusual for girls over the age of 10 (most problems in this catagory is related to low self esteme).

First off, get rid of this stupid "perfect body" idea. Its the magizines sales ploy to get girls to buy more products. I belive girls on average think they are 30% more ugly then they are and its a fact that they think they are 30% fatter when they look themselfs in the mirror.

What you need to do instaid is work with the hand you have been delt. The grass is always greener on the other side, but you will find the girls who have it together have already worked out this much already. Best of luck

Answer 5

you relatively won't have a concern :3 I actually have a element with this guy who's additionally approximately 9 inches taller than i'm. i'm 5'5-5'6 and he's 6'3. human beings say we pass relatively properly jointly. And plus, once you hug, you will pay attention to his heartbeat <3

Answer 6

Height don't matter one bit, if he says that he loves you then listen to him and believe him.I am 5'4 and my guy is 6'2 my body ain't that great and we are so happy in love believe me when i say it won't cause a problem.If you doubt him well that will really cause a problem between the both of you.

Answer 7

That's only a very small difference in height! Besides, height doesnt have anything to do with love at all, and love works in mysterious ways.

Answer 8

In a fair few cases the guy is taller than the girl. But its not a bad thing or anything.
There is nothing wrong with him being taller, doesn't stop you from doing anything

Answer 9

Taller than you is better. The height isn't a problem, the important is that you love each other.

Answer 10

HEY lighten up, read this and relax!! My wife is 1.48cm and i'm 1.65 and one of my wife's friends is 1.40 cm tall her husband, wait for it, 1.89 cm tall, their kids are taller than the father [ his family all are between 1.95cm tall & 2.05 cm tall]
he's the pygmy as he call's himself!! good for a lot of things, YOU HAVE NEVER TO USE A LADDER, NOR WILL YOU FALL OF ONE! they are happily married for 27 years and we are godparents to both kids{ADULTS NOW!!}