Singles & Dating - 16 April 2007

I keep finding myself chasing a guy and then once he likes me I no longer like him. And then once he thinks that I'm not interested anymore and he gets a girlfriend I want him again. And begin the chase once again. And then once he likes me yet again, I no longer want him. And theres only so many times that can happen, then guys just...label you as a tease. I really want to stop this. I've tried just stopping...and forcing myself to stay interested. But I can't. And when I think about it I want to scream. Because even just the thought of being in a relationship where a guy actually likes me....freaks me out for some reason. I've read that it has to do with fathers that haven't exactly been fathers. My dad abandoned me when I was 11. Does that have anything to do with it?? Has this happened to any of you guys?? Thanks in advance

2007-04-16 16:08:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, we have been really tight for many years. we went to school together our whole lives and started to be really close in highschool. after we got out and went to college it was really hard for me to see her with other guys. We now live and work within minutes of eachother and we are able to see each other daily. we are very physical and flirty but its not enough for me. she dosent show intereasted in me in that way. but i havent asked. i want her to be happy so i tell myself that if she wanted it, then it will happen. she always says that we will wed when we are older but its kinda a joke. Ive never told her how i felt bc obviouly i dont want to lose the friendship but its tearing me apart. i want, need and have to tell her how i feel but when, where and WHAT do i say. damn i love this chick and its killing me.....

2007-04-16 16:05:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i asked this girl to prom and she said i dont know i might be going with someone else. what does this mean? and what should i do? We have known each other for a long time but are more of aquaintences then good friends i asked one of her really good friends if the girl was going to prom with anybody and her friend said no she wasnt and that i should defintly ask her. I asked her last wenseday and I havnt talked to her since then  Since she is shy i didnt want to do anything big or public idk i just thought she'd perfer i not so i just asked her "if she would like to go to prom with me? and she said idk i might be going with someone else i said thats cool if you want to think about it and let me know and she said yea she would. sooooo im just a guy so i need a girl to interpret this for me. she is really beautiful but shy but she isnt the type thats got a ton of guys after her and prom is only a month away exactly o and we're both juniors. so what does this mean? and what should i do?I don't want her to go with me if she doesnt want to and just thinks she is doing me a favor or somethin like that wouldn’t be right and I don’t want that. I asked her Wednesday and today is Monday but I don’t really see her that much at school we don’t have ne classes together…sooo idk what should I do and its really too late for me to find somebody else to go with so don’t tell me that…..

2007-04-16 16:05:21 · 3 answers · asked by greg d 1

everytime i break up with my boyfriend i want it to be 4 good, i dont wanna go back to him. but 4 some reason he will call my cell and leave me soo many voice messages crying and stuff and idk how to end it. i always go back to him and im sick of it, and when i dont talk to him , he will go cry 2 his younger sister and then she will come and talk me into talking to him and going back out with him. idk what to do anymore.

2007-04-16 16:01:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay.. uhm theres this girl in my history class that i like and want to be friends with. How do i start up a conversation?

2007-04-16 15:58:14 · 20 answers · asked by aznguyy 2

I just moved to a new school and gotten out of a 2 year relationship and still havent gotten over it. Well at my new school I told my friend that I thought that this one girl that is in our class is cute. Later that day he tells the girls best friend and it goes around. The girl doesnt talk to me but looks at me sometimes. Its been a week now. What should I do?

2007-04-16 15:55:02 · 3 answers · asked by ADRN 1

I fell for my best friend. It didn't work out. We stayed best friends. He got back with his ex. I was cool with that. Then we started breaking the rules. He told me he loved me and wanted me to be his girlfriend. He said to give him time and that he only wanted me. We hung out everyday all day with the exception of work and sleep. We were perfect. Just as soon as things were as good as possible things went wrong. My cousin went to his house one night to talk to him. He wasn't there. It turns out that he was with the girl he said he didn't want. I told him I knew the truth. I am crushed. He thinks we should still be best friends. This isn't the first time he has hurt me with her. He keeps saying that I promised him we would always be best friends, but is he really my friend? It's hard!!! We were lovers like the in movies. We took pride in learning about each other. I was his spice girl and he was my chicken nugget face. Now I am his fool and he is my heartbreaker. Should we be friends?

2007-04-16 15:49:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has a bf and he really likes her but she doesnt really like him. Now he is also my friend. Ive told her to just end it but she wont. Do i tell the guy the truth or leave them alone?

2007-04-16 15:46:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend is todally ok with me likeing her ex boyfriend and he asked me out and i said idk because i needed to talk to her....but idk i feel weird doing anything with him.....but I LOVE HIM and he loves me to and my friend encoureges me to do stuff with him.....i need some advice should i or not?? and what should we do i hung out with him at my neigbors house that they are building that is empty and we had fun and did stuff....what do i do?

2007-04-16 15:42:58 · 15 answers · asked by LilS [ LOGANS BABE :D ] 1

guy i thought i was going to be with decides to get his own room well everyone goes to the concert and as the night goes on i get pretty drunk and end up spending the night with one of the other guys and now i feel really guilty the guy i was going to be with explained that he was feeling really stressed and just wanteda room by himself so now i feel guiltier i didn't plan on sleeping with this other guy it just happened what should i do?

2007-04-16 15:38:45 · 8 answers · asked by blues girl 2

help from both girls and guys plz!....i went to middle school with this girl and we had a little bit of a thing and we were really cool..but this year i ended up going to differnt high school and we still talk online and stuff ... she says she has feelings for me as i do also. ive seen her a couple times this year but its been kinda awkward around her... i just feel like i dont know what or how to act around her now and i dont know her any more. also im suuuper busy with sports year round i play 3 which means i dont have much down time...so if we wanted to be together or hang out id be difficult....I REALLY need help...idk what to do i mean im soo into this girl... help

2007-04-16 15:37:22 · 9 answers · asked by slice 1

boys massaged during a BJ and if so what about a gentle pull to intensify the Org.?

2007-04-16 15:36:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-16 15:29:45 · 1 answers · asked by James Y 1

Just 3 days ago my bf and broke up after almost reaching one year of our relationship..... I love him so much and he loves me to.. the reason he broke up with me is because he thinks i can do better and he wants us to be happy.. plus he thinks its for the best :'( i don't id rather be dead! he still wants to be friends but i want him more then that...! I havent left him alone since, i have been constantly calling and texting him telling him i need him, the msgs i wrote and he wrote make me cry everytime i read them....!!! I want him back and im fighting but he keeps saying no.. Do i have any chance with him... what do i have to do to get him back???? Please help everyone and some males advice would be good...i wish i was dead i honestly do but im gutless... i need him so much!

2007-04-16 15:24:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not excluding family, but to not be in or ever be in a relationship....

Some days I think I would be better off, I also think some times I think I might be happier to be free....not to have to answer to anyone but myself. But to do whatever I wanted with out giving explaination....

Anyone else feel that way & why?

2007-04-16 15:23:35 · 11 answers · asked by Whos your mama? 3

Has this ever happened to you? I don't feel normal.?

I'm a college girl. I sometimes make guys feel uncomfortable. It's definitely not that I'm attractive. I'm average. I think I stare at the guys I like a little to much. Is this all in my mind? Is there something wrong with my body language. I should get a makeover.

2007-04-16 15:17:15 · 12 answers · asked by mmmmm 1

Okay, here's the idea. my friend at the time (when I was 13), we will call him T for short, had some problems with his family. After attempting suicide and recovering, he took his aggression out on his mom a few weeks later. I took it upon myself to search for him. I found him eventually at the park, wandering alone. He jumps me after I tell him to come back home and he holds the same knife he used to stab his mother to death and holds it against my neck. He tells me that I am not even worth killing. as he walks off, he promises to meet me again, and tells me to hate him and remember that day forever. A few months ago, I got an email from him. the email asked if I forgot about the events that happened five years ago. He promised to see me very soon. I decided that I want to finish this thing once and for all. I promised myself if I met him again, that I would kill him. Tell me if I am wrong for thinking this way.

P.S. I know it sounds alot like Uchiha Itachi and Sasuke.

2007-04-16 15:12:08 · 17 answers · asked by chris c 1

when your girl that you have been dating for three months dumps you because it turns out she has a fiance. What The frick does that suck or what?

2007-04-16 15:09:58 · 35 answers · asked by khorrl 2

2007-04-16 15:07:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend talking to me on msn. I told her "You deleted me on myspace but it's okay" and she said "WOW" and went on with her conversation. I'm acting like it doesn't matter but it does matter.

2007-04-16 15:06:21 · 15 answers · asked by Pretty 1

Me ad this girl know eachother prety good.....but I tell her about me mostly on IM..is it a good way to get her to fall in love with me or to like me?

2007-04-16 15:02:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

look i need advise.there i a rumor going around that says my boyfriend is cheating on me and i'm no tsue if it's true or not should i break up with him or not?

2007-04-16 15:00:24 · 17 answers · asked by sunsetsweety 2

I'm so sad, I don't feel as confident and cool as I used to, I don't have a boyfriend currently because all the guys I've been with have been nothing but heartbreakers,jerks, and play too many games. Now I have this thought in my head that that's how all guys are. I'm trying to convince myself that that's not true but I just can't stop thinking it. My so called "friends" are nothing but fake and I don't feel good enough for anybody... How Can I overcome this?

2007-04-16 14:59:00 · 14 answers · asked by Chicago 4

2007-04-16 14:51:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to a concert that my drum teacher was playing last night, but he was acting very awkward and strange. He had asked me to come and told me about it several times beforehand, and he and I have a friendly relationship that is different from most students and teachers. I've been taking lessons with him for almost 2 years and he's only 9 yrs older than I am (I'm 19, he's 28). When I saw him after the show, he gave me a hug and then I introduced him to my friend and he ignored her presence for the rest of the time. I talked to him a bit, but he was acting weird and being awkward with everyone. He didn't introduce people by name, which was strange. I was a little confused and frustrated, so when he said he needed to go start packing up his drums, I started to leave, and he said "wait, are you leaving?" and then said "make sure you come say bye to me before you go, I'll be on stage." We stayed a bit longer while he was packing, but he kept glancing over at me every minute or so.

2007-04-16 14:49:06 · 12 answers · asked by Max 1

There's this girl at my school and every single guy that goes to my school wants to get her in bed. They have this bet going about who can get her first.

She's 15, has long wavy brown hair, blue eyes, olive complexion, she has a beautiful smile, her teeth are that white that they would glow in the dark, she's at least 5'8 and really fit


She rejected the most popular guy in school [all the girls want to be with him]

how do i get her to notice me?
I feel like i have no chance when she gets asked out around 10 times a day..

she has a nice personality too, and she refuses to be with the popular group!!

I really like her, how can I get her to notice me? she's 15 and i'm 12

2007-04-16 14:49:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have gone out for a day.
We got back together after a misunderstanding.
I am scared because whenever we "talk" we get agaruing about a misunderstanding.I know that he is really sweet, but I like him very much.I am scared because he usually takes things really fast.

2007-04-16 14:45:41 · 4 answers · asked by kristench22 2

I have been a relationship for about 3 years now, and have been on the verge of ending it several times over the course of it. She is a great person and I enjoy her company a lot. I guess you could say I care about her a great deal, but I don't know that I can honestly say I am "in love" with her. She is very in love with me though and it makes me feel like a snake to not feel the same for her. Every time I have tried to break it off in the past she has completely fallen apart and begged me to give it more time. She says she is willing to wait for me to start loving her the way she loves me if it takes forever. I felt like that could happen at first, but am now having serious doubts. How can I break it off with her without appearing to be a monster. I've tried to do it in person, but that just leads to her falling apart and me feeling sorry for her and giving in. I have tried it over the phone but she shows up minutes later at my house. This sux ! HELP !

2007-04-16 14:36:52 · 5 answers · asked by confused 1

i'm 13 and i give a lot of good advice for yahoo questions,singles and dating. but i never use my own advice.i really want a boyfriend and i like 2 guys.i'm tall athletic long brown hair thin and a pretty face so y can't i get a boyfriend

2007-04-16 14:31:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy at work was looking at my arm and asked if i shave ..and i told him no.. he said he wanted to know because he said you can't tell that i have hairs there..and then i told him i used to shave but i stopped and he said "why because you cut yourself ?" and i said no and i realize he asked me if i shaved because i have scars that look like i cut myself but i told him, i'm just clumpsy but i stop shaving because i didn't feel like shaving anymore..he tends to be flirty and sometimes cocky.. he's engaged,

2007-04-16 14:22:49 · 22 answers · asked by amanda 1