I'm so sad, I don't feel as confident and cool as I used to, I don't have a boyfriend currently because all the guys I've been with have been nothing but heartbreakers,jerks, and play too many games. Now I have this thought in my head that that's how all guys are. I'm trying to convince myself that that's not true but I just can't stop thinking it. My so called "friends" are nothing but fake and I don't feel good enough for anybody... How Can I overcome this?
2007-04-16 14:59:00 · 14 answers · asked by Chicago 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its not you sweetheart look most guys are complete bastards alot of them act like that for no reason and i can tell you now im not one of them i hate the fact of how some guys treat women i have the same feeling about things and do you know how i over come it i think to myself im a great guy im not an arsshole like alot of guys and theres a girl out there for me so really sweetheart lift your head high and just think to yourself that your a beautiful woman and that you shouldnt get down over scumbags that the only thing they need is a steel cap boot jamed up there arss and permently placed there dont feel sad about this all and hey if you want to talk to me more about this because i know what your going through then im willing to talk not a prob and i give you my word im not one of these heartbreakers or arssholes that have treated you like **** in the past the first look at a guy like this i want to punch out so yeh be happy about yourself life your head high and think to yourself that im better then these bastards and i dont need to let them bring me down so i hope it helps
2007-04-16 15:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Bluetail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness (just like sadness) is a state of mind. Make a choice. It's up to you. Simple as that. Right now you're choosing to be sad. You're concentrating on the things that you don't like. It's just as easy to do the opposite. Start by looking at yourself in the mirror as long as you can until you start laughing so hard that you can't help but forget all about sad stuff.
Your life and your happiness isn't and shouldn't be about other people. It's a fool who leaves his happiness up to others. In order to have friends you have to be on. Be your own best friend and stop lookin for boyfriends to complete you. That's what's making you so sad. Woman up, dammit.
2007-04-16 22:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find yourself. and you'll attract the right type of guys.
once you find yourself you'll find a guy that is not interested in you only for what you look like. be more careful when choosing a guy, and get to know them.
and those don't sound like friends to me, so leave them. find yourself some real friends, go to a church or somewhere where people have no prejudice and they actually want to share love.
but most importantly, don't depend on a guy! no body can make you happy, you are the only one that can be happy if you think you're happy, stop caring about guys and become a little more selfish, find things that you like, do things you want, and spend time with your familiy. that's the key to happiness. (however corny it might sound) Think Happy Thoughts.
;-)
2007-04-16 22:16:08 · answer #3 · answered by chemMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop dwelling on this aspect of your life right now. Start getting involved in something other than your love life. Perhaps some college courses in a subject you're interested in or some volunteer project. You may even meet a worthwhile attraction while doing so.
2007-04-16 22:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by ersof59 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are describing depression. There are two cures: You can go on an anti-depressant, or you can remove the cause of the depression. Search for a guy who is not a jerk, and a girl who is a true friend. You will find them.
2007-04-16 22:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Spearfish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well find some other ppl that you can trust and that are real and just find some guys to be your friends there are the best so that all you got to do is just be cool and kick it with ppl and have cuz life is short to be sad trust me i'm going through the same thing and i'm getting numbers from guys and we just friends and we just gonna kick it in stuff and as time pass you might find what you looking for
2007-04-16 22:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by sweetncuteladi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were to seek out some volunteer opportunities you might find yourself around people who care about people in general in the process; however, some of them may simply be trying to build up résumé material.
http://www.volunteermatch.org/ may be a good site but there are probably others as well.
Good luck.
2007-04-16 22:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by night_train_to_memphis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First YOU ARE BETTER by your own words the guys have all beek jerks,, That only means you want better and LADY YOU DESERVE better NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS than your heart desires...... Your on the right track........ You will be fine, spread your wings, learn, live, and Keep up with what you feel you should have in life.....and go after it... YOU ARE OK KID-O
2007-04-16 22:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to a bar, hit on a good looking guy, take hime home and sleep with him (it will make you feel powerful to be able to let loose like this). Then, have him leave; no spending the night!
The fact that you can accomplish this with little difficulty should cause your confidence to skyrocket :)
If that doesn't work, I suggest switching to girls
2007-04-16 22:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by panzertank75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
transfer to a new skool or watch a funny movie like eurotrip
2007-04-16 22:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋