Singles & Dating - 16 April 2007

She cheated on me and I broke up w/ her three weeks ago, she called and cried so many times, and says she real sorry and wants me back.... she wants to hang out later today, should I have sex with her?

2007-04-16 04:08:38 · 18 answers · asked by Ronny W 1

I'm in love but it's just not going to work out. I'm 23 and he's 40 and although we have spent a wonderful year together I had to face facts: We want different things out of life. I broke everything off on Saturday and it was the hardest thing I ever had to do.

I feel like I'm not going to be strong enough to go through with this because of how I feel about him and especially since he did nothing wrong. I just keep telling myself that this was the right thing to do. It will be easier now than five years from now.

Give me some advice Yahoo! friends, please. How do I get over this? How do I stop myself from calling him? What do I do if he shows up on my doorstep? How long will this hurt?

Did I do the right thing?

2007-04-16 04:07:18 · 13 answers · asked by Red 2

can you kiss someone if you just had a tongue ring put on your tongue? if not what or when is the best time? i mean after how many days/weeks can you kiss someone again (french kiss)?

2007-04-16 04:04:42 · 13 answers · asked by superbry 2

okay well i spent the nite with my boifriend cause he was very sick and i kept him company so i left in the mornin and told him i would be back after i change clothes n he said okay so h called me and i went ova to his house and he was mad and tryin to make arguements for kno reason, and i think its either because hes going to a boyz program within two weeks and hes mad or because i heard he was talking to another female and hes guilty and tryna flip da script.so yestaday i jus let him chill on sunday cause he acted so violent towards me afta i was tryna care for him while he was sick, what should i do,, im so confuzed????

2007-04-16 04:03:03 · 9 answers · asked by clarrissa w 1

ok..well heres the deal...my family took 3 pictures of me and in one pick there were 2 white, light circles on the wall......the second one they were beside my head and the next one was huge covering half of my body...there was no flash or nothing in the camera.....any ideas???

2007-04-16 04:01:35 · 23 answers · asked by drummerzrhot 2

there is this girl in my school who i've liked since the beginning of the year but i keep chickening out when i try to ask her and the year is almost over she lives near me so i could problably still see her in the summer is it worth it to ask her out?

2007-04-16 03:56:52 · 18 answers · asked by Problem? 2

I am 26 and men do not even seem interested in me. Everyone that knows me talks about how pretty and great I am and they cannot believe I am not with someone. I am sweet, caring and have a great sense of humor. I know I do not have to have someone to be happy. It would just be nice to have someone sometimes. I belong to a few clubs and am concentrating on a career. I have guys in my life that are friends but it never goes past that. Oddly those same guys always talk about how great I am. Could there be something wrong that I am missing?

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2007-04-16 03:56:51 · 12 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

My soon to be husband seems to think all men are lusting after me if they so much as talk to me.He tries to play it off as me being so attractive that he understands why they do but this is starting to cause some major fights at our house.If i was a model maybe but just an everyday stay at home mom,please advice on how i can talk to him and tell him that his thoughts are wrong and that i only have eyes for him.

2007-04-16 03:39:02 · 11 answers · asked by blubabygirl1000 1

I have been dateing this guy for 4 years now. I have a 7 year old daughter, and WE have a two year old son. Things are not good at all. I am 25 and he is 37. Things were good for the first 6 months, but then it turned bad! He is very menataly abusive. He has never hit me, but is always talking down to me. He does the same to my daughter. He say's if I ever leave him he will take my son from me. And he say's if I take our son, then he will "take me to the swamps." And we all know what that means. He is very demanding about the house being clean, and the laundry. Which it is usually done. But when it is not up to his standards, he flips out big time. He is constantly mumbleing stuff under his breath about the house being clean, and everything else. It is starting to drive me NUTS! I have tried to leave him on many occasions, and he just makes me feel like it's all my fault. And I am a VERY co-dependent person. So, I tend to make others happy before myself. Please help!

2007-04-16 03:34:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my boyfriend more then anything but slowly it seems like he is taking over my life i have been spending lots of time with him and have been ditching my bestfriend for him! He gets mad at me if i hagout with anybody else even if it is with his friends! what sould i do?

2007-04-16 03:26:26 · 28 answers · asked by HAPPY! 1

I'm 6'1 and always have men telling me I intimidate or scare them.
I'm athletic and very happy with myself, but these men make me feel really awkward:( ??

2007-04-16 03:23:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

we'd been dating for 3wks(known ea other for 1month) when I started to loose all attraction for him... I was going to break up with him anyway, then I cheated on him. I have broken up with him, but people are saying things now. Should I meet with him and tell him the truth? (me cheating increased the reason for me breaking up with him. I did NOT break up with him for this other guy!) Please give advice!

2007-04-16 03:09:21 · 8 answers · asked by Simone H 2

I just jilted by my first boyfriend three month ago. At that time, one of my friends accompanies me during that hard time.Although he in Singapore and me in Malaysia.Recently he revealed to me that he likes me. I said that i can't accept him now,cause i not yet get over with my ex.He said that he won't care cause he trust me, and will help me to erase my memory with my ex.I know that he will be loyal to me.But, i just can't fall in love now. I don’t want to be unfair to him.

2007-04-16 02:59:51 · 10 answers · asked by the milky way 1

2007-04-16 02:53:17 · 6 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5

okay well i have been dating this girl for like couple of months, well actually we started of by being best friends and now were dating. i usually kiss her on the neck, and she told me she likes it and it feels good and stuff so i do alot of times. when im with her, we both feel comfortable, but shes shy though so i usually make the first move, so she told me in order for her to make the first move, i need to seduce her. any suggest of suducing her and turning her on? not by the result of sex, but just turning her on?

TNX

2007-04-16 02:52:00 · 8 answers · asked by roodboy_18 1

he always hit me really hard and when i tell him too stop he doesnt he just tell me too make him shut up. so what should i do?

2007-04-16 02:49:55 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous

Comments plz.

2007-04-16 02:37:39 · 31 answers · asked by Naren_RocksU 3

2007-04-16 02:26:13 · 13 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5

A girl at work has recently got in touch with me via email.We never used to speak and she invited me to lunch.(she's got many other ppl she goes to lunch with!)WHY NOW?We hit off and we're in constant email contact now.

She's got my number(not txt yet though) and said she'll give me her's!I don't want to look too pushy, so I haven't asked!

I asked her out for Saturday, but she said she might have a date--but she said the bloke might change his mind!She met him over the wkn.

When I asked if she asked him out,she wrote back:

"It's the man's job to ask the girl out ;)"

1.Was this a hint for me to ask her out properly?

She said we'd go out for a drink nxt week and I asked if we can be friends-she said only if I don't expect more!

I replied saying I only wanted to be friends-what made her think I wanted more?She wrote back saying 'Nothing,just leave it...'

She now COMPLETELY IGNORES ME+EMAILS!

2.Did I do anything wrong? 3.Her ego bruised? 4.Why she ignoring me?

2007-04-16 02:17:40 · 14 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2

my ex and i broke up around last November, and for the first time in months, he called me up. We broke up in the first place because we lost contact (he lives 45 minutes away) and when he called me he said that it was because his cell wasn't working. i can't help thinking that he could have called if he really wanted to; i mean, there's a million phones in the world. What should i do?
P.S. he made it obvious that he is sseing someone else and has possibly gotten her pregnant. any advice on how I should deal if he calls back?

2007-04-16 02:03:54 · 11 answers · asked by babyv6024 1

I'm an african american male and I find asian women (of any nationality) very attractive. Its not just their physical traits but their whole personality scheme, their caring, kind-hearted soul. I know this is not true for all asian women, but the ones that I've met so far have been.

It has gotten to the point that whenever I see an asian female (short, tall, skinny, fat) at work,school, or just somewhere nearby...I automatically become attracted. Although I've come close on a few occassions, I can never seem to build up enough esteem to express my feelings towards them. I always become shy and coy.

My entire family married/dated within their own race so it leads me to wonder if I'm the exception. Am I at fault ? How can I overcome my shyness? Is there anyone in a similar situation ?

-Thanks in advance for any advice!

2007-04-16 02:00:41 · 20 answers · asked by ╚kco®games 4

well how do i know? i mean we talk for atleast 2 weeks and he is very nice! but we got in a fight and he was pist at me and i was at him so i went out with a diff. guy for 3 days. (my best friend) but we didn't think is would work. so when the guy that has been talking 2 me comes back from the beach! and we started talking and kept calling each other and all kinds of stuff. while he was at a party. and that night he was so drunk a girl that he dated like 2 times ask him out while he was drunk. and now he won't break up with her b/c he thinks it is not right for her 2 suffer from his mistake that he made by saying yes. but he says he wants me badly but he does not know what 2 do. so how do i really know if he does have feelings for me? and what do i do to get him 2 break up with her? or what can i say?

2007-04-16 01:57:48 · 1 answers · asked by jay 1

2007-04-16 01:56:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-16 01:52:18 · 15 answers · asked by Lorrie Anne B 1

I'm looking for some new songs
Anyone know of some really good meaningful songs
With lyrics that mean something

For example-
Black sabbath- changes
The Pixies- Where is my mind
Queens of stone age- Little sister
Dispatch- General

Just anything that really touched you when you heard it.
Thanks for the help!!!
Ashley~

2007-04-16 01:45:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-16 01:23:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-16 01:03:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like doing something drastic that she would never expect and either one of two things will happen, either it will take us down the path of life together or not. Ladies, I would really like your opinion on this. I feel like going to her and asking her hand in marriage. I know that we have problems, but what couple doesn't. She said lets be more spontanious, right, you cant get more spontanious than marriage. I just feel that if I wait to long, I will never know.

2007-04-16 00:55:46 · 14 answers · asked by Ryan R 2

Well there is this guy that i have a thing for and i have e-mailed him and told him how i feel and he didn't respond or anything but this was just yesterday but he has been online since and got it but this weekend we were at a mutual friends house and there was this other gurl around and she is married to a different guy and even has a kid that she don't take care of her parents do! but they ended up holding hand but me and him kept making eye contact and i don't know what to think! we talk like casual conversation when no one is around but if there is a lot of people around it is like he doesn't really say much at all to me or anyone. we got a little intoxicated one night and we ended up making out and sleeping together in the same bed but we didn't actually do it or anything! he is one of the nicest guys that i have ever know and he has been hurt like 2 years ago his fiancee cheated on him and i do have true feelings for him but i just don't know what to think or do!

2007-04-16 00:54:46 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda 2

Hey all, my first relationship just ended and I'm trying to move on. In the meantime, I want to find out what exactly went wrong so that I will not repeat the same mistakes in the next relationship in the future.

Hmm...my ex used to blame me for everything after the relationship ended. He said its my fault for making him so angry and thus he did all those horrible things to me (pushing me, insulting me, leaving me alone in public, not celebrating my birthday with me and not being there for me when a close family member died). He said that he never had such problems with his first ex.

I know its not entirely my fault but could it really be partly my fault that i made him react in such a way to me? Are his actions justified? What do you people out there think? Any advice?

2007-04-16 00:54:27 · 11 answers · asked by Grace 3