Well there is this guy that i have a thing for and i have e-mailed him and told him how i feel and he didn't respond or anything but this was just yesterday but he has been online since and got it but this weekend we were at a mutual friends house and there was this other gurl around and she is married to a different guy and even has a kid that she don't take care of her parents do! but they ended up holding hand but me and him kept making eye contact and i don't know what to think! we talk like casual conversation when no one is around but if there is a lot of people around it is like he doesn't really say much at all to me or anyone. we got a little intoxicated one night and we ended up making out and sleeping together in the same bed but we didn't actually do it or anything! he is one of the nicest guys that i have ever know and he has been hurt like 2 years ago his fiancee cheated on him and i do have true feelings for him but i just don't know what to think or do!
2007-04-16 00:54:46 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him what you told us and see what happens. he may feel the same way. i truly hope this relationship in the making works out. good luck!
2007-04-16 00:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by jenrulz13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably didn't respond to you because he doesn't feel the same towards you. Put yourself in his shoes and think about if you got an email from a guy telling you how he feels about you. If you chose not to respond, what would be the reason why? Probably because you didn't feel the same way about him.
What's up with this guy? He was hurt in the past by his fiancee who CHEATED on him but he's gonna hold hands and carry on with a woman who is married??????????????
I wouldn't read into it too much with the eye contact. He might have been looking at you because you kept looking at him. I've been in situations where I kept looking at someone because they kept looking at me but it didn't mean that I liked them.
He doesn't sound like a nice guy if he is being affectionate (holding hands) with a married woman.
You mentioned you got drunk one night and made out. Maybe he regrets it. I think you need to really evaluate everything. As much as it may hurt, it doesn't seem like this guy feels the same as you do. You deserve to be with someone who shares the same feelings as you.
If I were you I would just drop it and move on.
2007-04-16 08:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by teacher101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK Amanda...I think this guy is been cautious, he was very hurt one time in a relationship so he is thinking deeply what to do...obviously he has feelings for U, the eye contact, the making out...but he has the right to take his time, you know what I mean?... you already told him your feelings, that was good, now I would wait... stay around, and if you have the chance just ask him if he received your e-mail... but don´t push him, let him be free to take his decision...if he is the one for U he will contact you...if not...go on with your life, you deserve happiness
2007-04-16 08:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by staytrue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him. When you will not be around him, he is going to look for you knowing that u have feelings for him. If he is not interested in you , he won't be knocking your door. Do this experiment for couple of weeks, if he thinks he can invest in you he will come.
2007-04-16 08:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talk the way you write, he's probably wondering what's wrong with you.
2007-04-16 07:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by Alice K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those details are rambling defined.
i wouldnt have thought any of that. just hook it up with him sista!
2007-04-16 08:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by fippypoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel and dont let him get away try actin really romantic around him or try flirting with a boy near him hopefully he will see wat hes missing
2007-04-16 08:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by Blondii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol
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2007-04-16 07:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by Unknown Artist~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same situation here...... i'll keep you posted............
2007-04-16 07:59:45 · answer #9 · answered by jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋