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help from both girls and guys plz!....i went to middle school with this girl and we had a little bit of a thing and we were really cool..but this year i ended up going to differnt high school and we still talk online and stuff ... she says she has feelings for me as i do also. ive seen her a couple times this year but its been kinda awkward around her... i just feel like i dont know what or how to act around her now and i dont know her any more. also im suuuper busy with sports year round i play 3 which means i dont have much down time...so if we wanted to be together or hang out id be difficult....I REALLY need help...idk what to do i mean im soo into this girl... help

2007-04-16 15:37:22 · 9 answers · asked by slice 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

idk what to do really like i really do like her and ive asked her to come out to a game or something but ""things""" always come up. and we always try to get together but for some reason it really never happens....i am planning my summer to spend a lot of time with her....so and advice on making this work???

2007-04-16 15:47:52 · update #1

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2007-04-24 14:37:11 · answer #1 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0 0

Well, if she's as into you as you are her, then she will deal with the fact that there isn't much time you can spend with her. Just take the time to call her or im her and let her know you're thinking about her. Girls like that. As far as being nervous around her, don't be. Just be yourself. We can tell when you guys get nervous. Yes, we think it's cute sometimes, but if it prevents a conversation from happening then it's no fun. Just as her to start talking about the first thing that pops into her head. It may be the weirdest thing you'll ever hear in your entire life, but it's a start. Get her to laugh, and you'll probably be able to get her to talk and then the mood will lighten up quite a bit. It's always easier to talk online than in person, so maybe you could try talking about things that are hard to talk to her about in person online.

2007-04-16 22:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

act like you used to act around her. she liked you then! hang out with her over the summer and whenever you can. the more time you spend around her the more comfortable you will feel with her. let her know how busy you are but that you would love to spend the time you can with her.

2007-04-16 22:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by mbz333 2 · 0 0

Hm, well, try to make every second/minute/hour that you're around her special. Keep it up, and just remember this, every moment counts. Do nice things for her to let her know that you care about her.Eventually, you guy's affection will grow stronger and you two will get closer to each other.

2007-04-16 22:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Just Some Woman 2 · 0 0

well what about the weekend? ask her out sometime
but remember school is more important, i mean you have your whole life to find someone, but dont pass up the chance this could be the one!
good luck!
and remember school comes first
-maria

2007-04-16 22:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

first of all if you feel like you dont know her anymore then your really not into her secondly if you do get those feelings back try to involve her in your sports if she is willing but you should try to be involved with her "thing" too

2007-04-16 22:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by Joe H 1 · 0 0

Double Date and talk about old times. Thats what i would enjoy ;) good luck

2007-04-16 22:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you don't realistically have time, it wouldn't be fair to either of you, now would it? If you're meant to be, you can both wait until you're not so busy.

2007-04-16 22:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by saralizzy1981 3 · 0 0

if you really like her, find a way to see her.

2007-04-16 22:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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