What to do during sex??

Question

I've had sex with my bf 3 times now, and I'm still not sure what to do. It never lasts long, only until he cums. And he never lets me know what he likes, or asks what I like. So my question is, is the girl supposed to do anything during sex, or just lay there while he thrusts?

Answer 1

Tell him what you'd like from him. You have a say in what happens during sex too, and it doesn't sound as you ever get an orgasm because he's finished before it happens. He should want you to have pleasure too, and if he doesn't, you should rethink your relationship with him.

Answer 2

Oh gosh!! LMAO!!

ok i don't mean to laugh, but lying there like a dead fish should be a real turn on!!-LOL...ok enough kidding around.

well clearly this ain't working, not enough communication, y'all need to talk, or keep on trying new stuff until he reacts to one.
So far he is getting all the satisfaction, content with just him coming (therefor he ain't telling u much cause he has been satisfied)

experiment, catch him off guard, in a car or cramped store room-objective is to get him out of that comfort zone &as uncomfortable as possible, he will have to try something else then wont he.

also get ontop of him, ride him as u feel comfortable, &dont stop till U reach that orgasem, if he is ok with just taking from u, its time u start taking too.

move ur body underneath his, when he thrusts in, move ur body up to meet him, move!!

Answer 3

Seriously, are you old enough to be having sex? Just remember the consequences and take responsibility for your actions.

I think the key to great sex is communication. The mood has to be right and things should move slowly (especially if your man has a slight case of p.e.). Start with lots and lots of kissing, move on to foreplay and remember you have to set the pace or it will be another night you go unsatisfied. If he doesn't last long, I suggest you take the reins for once. Push him back onto the bed and place his hands behind his head (for now, but obviously you want him to touch you and run his hands over your body) and slide on top of him. It's up to you to set the pace and depth or he will jack hammer until he's done. Tease him. Go faster and then slow almost totally down.
Be creative. If you can't talk as a couple, then you aren't ready for this emotionally and I suggest taking up another pass time as a couple. Like jogging.

Answer 4

Start with the basics, relax, and do what comes naturally. Once you're comfortable, get creative. Experiment. And make sure he's interested in pleasing you, not just himself. You both should enjoy it, or it's pointless. Give and take.

Answer 5

How about you take the initiative and tell him what you like. From your question you don't even sound old enough to be having sex.

Answer 6

He is **** in bed and your letting him. Tell him to slow down and give it to you in other positions. Try getting him to go fast then slow then fast and slow again. Then when he think he going to *** to stop for about 20 seconds and start again.

Answer 7

Why dont you try turning the tables by suggesting another position or, maybe involve a toy or some foreplay?

Answer 8

Go on top and make it go your way. Also start it off by getting him to go down south. If he's not comfortable with that then tell him to do one.

Answer 9

Try to suck his...c o c...k atleast . That eventually leads him to do to yours too.
Dont make much divert. Just wrap your legs aroung his hip, make some noice when he does...

all the best

Answer 10

You can work in some moves, be more active, or do things for him like hj or bj?